posted June 20, 2009 10:54 PM         

We have Juno trine Ceres DW in synastry. And we also have Juno trine Ceres in composite. Would that indicate it? Is it my Moon sitting in my 7th house in his 5th house? What about his true node and his IC in my 5th house?

He's the one outside.
*Orb is set to 65%

Our composite chart

posted June 20, 2009 11:14 PM         

It's very interesting though, because the one thing I find in common in all the synastries of mutually attracted or committed couples that I've been looking at is conjunct angles--doesn't matter which ones--ASC, DC, MC, IC. And you guys don't have that.

posted June 20, 2009 11:16 PM         

And also--whoa--with his 12th house Sun in Pisces and Aries Mars-Venus conjunction/Leo Moon (am I reading that right?) he might be one to dive into things and then swim away. My friend's husband with that Pisces/Fire combo was sooo over the top romantic at the beginning--he was all, Hey, we've known each other for a week, we're soul mates. And then once SHE made the committment, he was all swimmy-fish and disappeared while she was pregnant. His chart might make him confuse certain kinds of feelings with other kinds of feelings, and overestimate his own commitment.

posted June 21, 2009 07:58 AM         

About conjunct angles, does draconic synastry counts? So as draconic-natal? Our draconic AC/AC conjunction conjunct his natal MC.

We do have a Grand Fire Trine; his Moon, my Venus and Uranus. His Moon trine my Venus by 3degrees applying doesn't show because I reduced the orb to 65%. It would have been a Kite, but the orb between my Venus sextiling his Mercury is too wide.

Any insight about the meaning of True Node to someone's 5th house. I just have an idea, but I'd like to know what it really means.

posted June 21, 2009 03:27 PM         

Based on this guy's natal, chances are high that all of his intense fire drives him passionately and excitedly into things full-throttle. When the infatuation wears off and he's back in the everyday, his 12th house Pisces Sun realizes that he doesn't really want that thing he threw himself into so passionately, at least he is conflicted about it and doesn't want it with his whole being/whole self (the Sun.)

So he tries to undo it, but instead of undoing it in a fiery way (which would involve ACTION and stating what's going on), he tries to drift away as vaguely and passively as possible, floating into other relationships, escapism (of not drinking/sex/drugs then healthier escapes like playing music or taking his Sag bits out into the woods), or (likeliest) just not being around at all.

To have a solid relationship together, you will need to know ALL of each other very very well, including experiencing what he is like when things get boring, difficult, confrontational, stressful or un-fun. After you have sorted out ways to deal with those times as a couple, and have a stronger intuitive sense of each other, that would be the time to start a family. Otherwise, with that fiery Uranus business, the intensity of his huge, whole-life plan might not outlast the moment.

posted June 22, 2009 08:33 AM         

His VALENTINE conjuncts your Sun exactly,
your love will be divinely protected.
His JUNO conjuncts your Ascendant and his PSYCHE conjuncts your Saturn and VALENTINE. He cannot love another girl more than you in this lifeline, he is an utter loser if he loses you.

If you wait to carefully observe and experience everything in life to avoid a mistake, and then decide on a relationship, life will get meaningless. Risk averse people never experienced joy and never accompished anything worthwhile, here God has sent you a Man with love in his heart for you, on a platter. Even if he is Piscean, he is not confused about you.

Do give this relationship a chance, and whatever happens, do delay having kids for atleast 3 years so that you can maximize your bliss before diaper changing routines take over.

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posted June 22, 2009 10:47 AM         

IQ...... that was so romantic and wonderful....

posted June 22, 2009 02:44 PM         

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posted June 22, 2009 02:58 PM         

I think EVERYONE should dive in and be together with whoever they love most, whatever their synastry. But it also makes sense, with Uranus and Neptune involved, to explore the daily relationship and work out some basics before having babies together...this is also true in almost any relationship, whatever the synastry, unless of course you are in a culture where you HAVE to get married to somebody at a very young age anyway.

posted June 23, 2009 08:43 PM         

After you've lived together for a full year, you will both have a good sense of the day-in, day-out.

If you don't mind sharing, I'm curious about your ages and each of your relationship histories. Are you the first person he's wanted to have kids with and vice versa?

posted June 23, 2009 08:44 PM         

His natal chart

posted June 24, 2009 01:16 AM         

I was thinking that living together for a year would help the two of you prepare to start a family, but now I really, really see IQ's point that 3 years might be better. I would wait till he hits 30ish and his Saturn Return in his house of marriage is over or nearly over.

The Saturn return is like an exam--it's a time when life feels intolerable until you start living your most authentic life. His 7th house Saturn Return is a time when he could end up forcing himself into a too-hasty marriage or, if he's already in one, fleeing it. Better to keep the relationship emotionally close and deepening over that time, enjoying your connection with each other and getting your shared life ready to start your family.

That way when he marries you you will be a real team, as well as just in love, and you will know how to deal with each other's Piscean-ness and Gemini-ness, and have graceful patterns of communication and trust. (Or, if one of you is miserable and/or flees--which I hope isn't the way it goes--there will not be a child involved.)

His Saturn Return will involve transiting Saturn conjunct not only his Saturn, but also his Pluto, which could add deep transformation in that area of his life into the mix. It could be a very nice thing for your marriage but it's right to take it slow and proceed with DEPTH and caution, really becoming best friends and knowing each other for years and knowing what it's like to live together before marrying or having a baby, even though with Aries Rising and 5th house Leo Moon, he is probably a very impatient and impetuous person in some ways.

posted June 24, 2009 06:00 AM         

Intense pluto-venus interaspects can play out as a strong and primeval urge to procreate.
[or so I've heard]

posted July 06, 2009 06:49 AM         

I used your Soul Mate Love Calculator and, if I calculated it right, we got 45 points. I found out we also have Zeus-Hera DW!

My Sun trine his Amor 2s 2
My Sun conjunct his Valentine 0a 5
My Moon opposition his Juno -0s 1
My AC conjunct his Juno 0a 5

My Mars trine his Juno -2a 1

My Sun quincunx his Saturn -1s 1
My AC trine his Tyche -2a 1
My Karma trine his Moon 1a 1
My Destinn trine his AC -0a 1

My Pluto conjunct his Saturn 1a 2
My Pluto trine his NN 0s 1
My Pluto opposition his Destinn -0s 1

My Juno quincunx his Eros -1s 1

My NN conjunct his Karma 1a 2
My Tyche conjunct his Karma 0s 2
My Destinn opposition his Valentine -1a 1

My Venus same element with his Mars 1
My Chiron conjunct his Valentine 2a 1

My Zeus trine his Hera -1a 5
My Hera quincunx his Zeus 0s 5
My Osiris opposition his Isis -2s 5

I love the Sabian symbol of our composie Sun too!
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