posted June 21, 2009 12:16 PM         

I do remember kissing, maybe 4-5 times ?

My subconscious thinks I'm a virgin, apparently..

However, for 6 months now, I keep seeing this guy I know, and I must have had like at least 10 dreams where we were doing stuff, again, nothing too explicit but very arousing dreams !!! Emotional too !!!

And the funny or weird thing is, I think he's a nice goodlooking guy, and yes we did flirt a little for a couple of months, but my conscious self doesn't really fancy him.

I mean, if it came to it, I would consider dating him and stuff but I just don't want to. There's something about his character I find a bit repulsive. So when I look at him, I see just a friend. Seriously. And I've had some other crushes and things going on.

But then I go to sleep and it started to freak me out tbh.

So astrologically speaking, what do you think would indicate this ?

posted June 21, 2009 12:27 PM         

me vs him

sun conjunct mercury
sun conjunct saturn
mercury conjunct venus
mercury conjunct uranus
venus square moon
venus sextile venus
venus square jupiter
venus sextile uranus
mars square neptune
jupiter conjunct venus
jupiter conjunct uranus
saturn conjunct sun
saturn sextile moon
saturn sextile jupiter
saturn conjunct pluto
uranus conjunct venus
uranus conjunct uranus
neptune conjunct neptune
neptune sextile pluto
pluto conjunct sun
pluto sextile neptune
pluto conjunct pluto

posted June 21, 2009 02:37 PM         

And another thing, in all these dreams there is this feeling that he knows everything about me.. Deep stuff.

It's so weird because I've always had a very honest relationship with my subconscious lol. I'm not in love with him, I don't need him or anything. If I were to daydream, I'd pick someone else !

posted June 21, 2009 03:05 PM         

So even when you DO lust for the person you're dreaming about in real life, the dream ALSO has important and significant symbolic content.

Erotic intensity in a dream is a subconscious message that you are trying to unite and commingle different parts of yourself. This guy represents some way you are secretly yearning to change, grow, or transform.

I suggest you get a piece of paper and free-associate for 5 minutes or so, writing down ALL of the qualities, events, and traits you associate with this guy. The meaning might be surprising--it might be that this guy is an actor, and you secretly want to be an actor. It could be very suble, or not. It could be a pun involving his name or something else about him.

Also, carefully record the dreams, and use a dream dictionary to understand the other symbols (other than him) in the dreams. When a dream symbol (like this guy) RECURS, your subconscious is still trying to send an urgent message that you haven't quite gotten or deciphered yet. The sex helps makes it interesting enough for you to pay attention!

posted June 21, 2009 03:44 PM         

I don't think it's telepathic either. Obviously it's more about psychology than astrology.

What you said about paying attention to what else is going on in those dreams is really interesting. There is a soothing quality to them though, so maybe my subconscious is trying to calm itself down..

We're both students and there isn't much about him that I would secretly want to imitate. I've had many friends of the opposite sex so far and I've always been pretty firm on whether I saw them as friends or not.

posted June 21, 2009 08:54 PM         

Trusting yourself more sounds good...you might just be telling yourself that everything is okay at school and in your emotional life. But also, look for subtleties--for example, whether he reminds you at all of someone you've known in the past, and why, or who else you've known with the same name as his.