posted July 06, 2009 02:10 AM         

My Capricorn friend has come back, he contacted me through my MSN saying he has a new cell number and that I should call him sometime.

So one day I just text him a "Whats up" and we started talking again, acting like we didn't cut eachother off and today he asks if I have missed him and I just shrug and say "Yeah of course your my buddy". I tell him I am about to leave at the end of July and he's all sentimental and saying stuff like "I've missed you, I wanted to talk to you again before you go".

I feel wierd because I really did not think I would see or talk to him again, I mean Capricorns are really permenant people on major decisions.

I know he recently had a break up and I usually am the first person my friends come to when they need to talk to but with him it just feels awkward. I told him "You left why are you coming back"..he said "I never left, I was always here for you as a friend but you seemed so stressed about school and everything I left you alone".

I really don't know if we should be friends again because it just seems so strange now, I mean we were super close buddies before the cut off but now I just..I am not sure..

Also he's a Capricorn Sun/Scorpio Moon/Leo Rising, he has this way of dominating everything like today's conversation and after he said "I've missed you.." and all that jazz and I told him I did miss him as a buddy but I really don't know and he just said "I am not ******* lying" all sternly and everything. He does this everytime something does not seem to be working in his favor..>_>;

posted July 06, 2009 03:59 AM         

You were really good friends. You parted, maybe due to your schoolwork, which he recognised. Now he is back, gives you his new number (I guess meaning he wants to keep in contact) and you are wondering whether to continue with the friendship?

Righteo.

You shrug (meaning I dont know) and then say:
"Yeah of course your my buddy" to the question of whether you miss him.

Obviously, whether you state it or not, you are unsure about him. That speaks volumes.

Just wondering what the use is of all this, when it seems you are pretty unsure. Or rather, sure about being unsure.

Not sure about the bs detector needed.

posted July 06, 2009 09:26 AM         

Because to me (Leo Sun, Cap Rising), if you are platonic friends and it's not about all that, it seems totally understandable to drift away from each other and then drift back. Especially if one person or the other has a new boyfriend/girlfriend.

Hanging out with someone to fill a void after a breakup, when you may have neglected them a little while you were happily exploring a new love, is totally acceptible and not BS--sure, it's better to treat your friends with care and respect throughout, but I am very forgiving of friends who get wrapped up with a love interest and then want to spend more time with me afterwards.

posted July 06, 2009 10:36 PM         

Lucia and Amowls, we did sort of have feelings for eachother but he felt I never took his feelings seriously so he wanted to remain friends, then some girl had a crush on him and he told me and I told him that I was happy for him and right then there he ended the friendship, he didn't say why back in Feb. but I figured it was because our friendship was getting complicated but I was kind of hurt because he talked to everyone else in our social group but avoided me..I thought maybe he hated me..

I talked to him on the phone today and he said he ended the friendship because he thought it was right at the time, also he said I have some growing up to do and I need to find myself and concetrate on my education (he's 19 and I am 17)but that he wants to be there for me as a friend and to know that I have support back at home.

I have decided he's right about my education, that it is the most important thing right now and I can't be persuing relationships >_< but I do want to continue my friendship with him though I am not going to sell myself short in college..

I want to meet new people and have new experiences and he said he understands and wishes the best for me.