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posted July 06, 2009 05:09 PM         

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My bf is going through a tough saturn transit. Saturn is transiting his ASC and forming a T-Square with his sun/moon opposition. I can really feel that he is under a great deal of stress and I'm just wondering if you guys have any advice or have gone through experiences dealing with and helping others through rough transits...
Any advice and insight is appreciated!! thanks in advance

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posted July 06, 2009 05:26 PM         

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Keep the faith on his behalf. Don't lose hope yourself. Life is full of ups and downs. If he can just hang on long enough, things will swing back to being alright.

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posted July 06, 2009 05:42 PM         

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Guess that's the only thing i can do eh?
It's tough when i'm not even sure i can keep the faith for myself at times! Sometimes i end up feeling like i'm causing him more stress :S

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posted July 06, 2009 06:02 PM         

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Things are rough for a lot of people right now. You see the celebrities dying left and right, and all the crazy transportation accidents happening. Something seems to be going haywire. You've just got to do your best to stay sane. If he has to let go of you, maybe you can be graceful and just understand that he's having a tough time with things right now.

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posted July 06, 2009 07:54 PM         

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lotion, I can understand your feelings. I often wanted to help my bf as well, although I too caused more stress for him instead lol.
I'm often not really sure what I could do too, but I guess that it's already meaningful if you can stay by his side and be there whenever he needs. Let him sort things out by himself, but listen to him whenever he wants to talk. Try not to worry too much nor add more stress, but of course, let him know about your feelings too, when he seems better. ^_~

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posted July 06, 2009 11:40 PM         

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My advice would be to be very emotionally independent for a while--don't take on his moods yourself. With that transit he might feel really anxious and perfectionistic and nitpicky and like things are not right...as a sensitive, empathetic person it would be natural for you to take that on...but don't. Keep your own moods solid, enjoy your life, and keep connected to the love you feel for him.

I sympathize with your boyfriend. That transit looks like a doozy. Maybe it'll have a positive side, though, helping him make healthy changes...Saturn-ASC Virgo stuff=a good time to start a health or fitness regime that succeeds. He could end up feeling much better after this is over.

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posted July 07, 2009 02:38 AM         

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Thanks guys

Lucia23, being emotionally unaffected by others, especially someone close to me is difficult for a moon-neptune like me lol but i understand what you're getting at

comica, i find a lot of our experiences are similar when it comes to our relationships with our bf! this is pretty cool lol~ your comments are very much appreciated

this whole full moon business is making me pretty drained, and a little crazy too. (it's forming a t-square with my sun, exact!)

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