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Topic: Romantic Pet Peeves!
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ohmybaby Knowflake Posts: 130 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted May 09, 2010 11:10 PM
I have. you dont have... smilez pls IP: Logged |
Diablo Knowflake Posts: 888 From: Melbourne, Australia Registered: May 2009
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posted May 10, 2010 03:02 AM
Hmm just following on from what I've said in light of recent comments,Passivity and cooperation are 2 completely different things with different meanings. If your gonna make your opinion about someone and not give them a chance because of their history, then your cutting yourself off from a significant proportion of society. You might as well close yourself off to 80% of the population because even the most cooperative/passive (whatever) woman could have a sinister, promiscuous past. I have to be inclined to say that I agree with BM wholeheartedly, as I don't see "passive cooperation" as a desirable or attractive trait in a woman. It might have been paramount for a woman to exhibit that quality in the 50s but in my many experiences, most men like a feminine woman who has her own opinion and can stand up for herself without being aggressive or vulgar. There's nothing wrong with being a strong, assertive and independent woman who retains all their femininity. There's a massive difference in doing this with class and elegance rather than obnoxiously and aggressively. IP: Logged |
Got Gemini? Knowflake Posts: 456 From: Mercury Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 10, 2010 03:17 AM
Okay, who said anything about "passive cooperation????" I certainly didn't say it. My personal definitions of the two were similar but some of the folks in here did the same by equating passivity with being submissive and weak. I think this is the cause of the miscommunication here. Only thing I backtracked on was using cooperative instead of passivity because my personal definition of the word is obviously much different from you guys (of course outside of the official definition).To clarify once more, I have basically from the beginning been describing co-operation between a man and a woman. Not a woman being submissive or what you guys describe as being passive. And yes, I'm still awake watching Flash Forward lol. ------------------ Virgo Asc 6˚& Mars 0˚ Gemini Sun 24˚ Libra Moon 14˚(conjunct Pluto 0˚ in 2nd house) Gemini Mercury 25˚ Cancer Venus 29˚ (Mutual reception with Moon) And yes, i'm a guy! IP: Logged |
Diablo Knowflake Posts: 888 From: Melbourne, Australia Registered: May 2009
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posted May 10, 2010 03:21 AM
So what is happening on that show?? I watched the first episode but didn't get into it, even though the concept fascinates me a lot. I wanna know why everyone blacked out and saw their future and who/what is responsible for itIP: Logged |
Got Gemini? Knowflake Posts: 456 From: Mercury Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 10, 2010 03:47 AM
I'm on episode 6 right now. Pretty interesting show! As of now, the reason behind it and the people behind the flash forward are being revealed.------------------ Virgo Asc 6˚& Mars 0˚ Gemini Sun 24˚ Libra Moon 14˚(conjunct Pluto 0˚ in 2nd house) Gemini Mercury 25˚ Cancer Venus 29˚ (Mutual reception with Moon) And yes, i'm a guy! IP: Logged |
Diablo Knowflake Posts: 888 From: Melbourne, Australia Registered: May 2009
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posted May 10, 2010 04:04 AM
Ugh sounds like a ballbreaker like LostIP: Logged |
Unmoved Knowflake Posts: 2196 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted May 10, 2010 09:23 AM
Yeah, was watching episode 15 and they are nowhere close to solving the mystery. (FlashForward)------------------ Blog IP: Logged |
diamondbaby Knowflake Posts: 305 From: Registered: Jul 2012
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posted April 12, 2016 05:08 PM
- Men that have a low sex drive - Men that are not passionate - Men that are not spontaneous - Men that are not playful - Men that are not honest and straight forward - Men that don't like being outdoors - Men that don't appreciate the little joys of life - Men that look/dress "feminine" - Men that are not protective - Men that are distant/detached - Men that smoke/do drugs/drinkMy Venus is in Sagittarius (Leo decan) in the 5th house. It conjuncts my Sagittarius Sun, trines my Leo Jupiter and Aries Midheaven. IP: Logged |
bonsai Knowflake Posts: 143 From: another place, another time Registered: May 2012
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posted April 12, 2016 06:10 PM
God where do I begin: -Stiff, cold, non-affectionate men with a stoic body language in romantic matters. Can act stoic around others if he pleases but it won't go down well if it's around me too -Guys who are too poetic and wishy washy in their way of speaking. For me it's just so corny -Unreliable -Distant -Doesn't pay for the girl on dates (theoretically he could afford 1000 girlfriends at once like that) -Cries too much -Not take charge or masculine in his behaviour or mannerisms -Low sex drive -Bisexual -Not protective -Stingy -Selfish. The "what's mine is mine and what's yours is mine" attitude -Smoker -Airy fairy. Not focused and determined -Lack of intellect -Poor personal hygiene -PettinessI actually like if a guy is on the possessive and jealous side, because it makes me feel like I'm all his and gives me a sense of security. Venus Virgo in the 1st. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Moderator Posts: 11065 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted April 12, 2016 07:37 PM
Hmm...I don't like insincerity or not treating me as an individual, not giving me my space. Venus in Aries Conj. Sun and Merc Sq Saturn and Neptune Semi-sq Jupiter Sext Mars 11H
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athenaia Knowflake Posts: 656 From: USA Registered: May 2015
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posted April 12, 2016 08:17 PM
quote: Originally posted by crabbypatty: Venus in Libra Although I don't mind a sports freak if he doesn't mind that I have absolutely zero interest in sports. Or understanding. I'll add a couple of my own: Cheapness in a guy. Like if he makes it a point to check the bill a few times and raise his eyebrows. Or goes on and on about how much something cost him, like it pains him to this day that he paid that much. Yuck. Yuck, yuck. Bleghhhh. Racist comments from a guy, especially the kind that get blurted out when we're on the road and somebody cuts him off. I mean, does it really matter if he's a ________ a**hole or a ______________ a**hole? The burping and the farting, a real turn off. I don't know what I expect them to do, really. I'm probably being unreasonable. I mean, run to the men's room every time? I don't know. But for me, it kills the passion real quick.
Wowwwwww, all of these hit close. I don't have Venus in Libra like you but I do have Venus in the 7th and I 100% agree with everything you said. I always wondered how my 7H Venus played out and after reading this everything makes sense.. IP: Logged |
jadave Knowflake Posts: 30 From: usa Registered: Oct 2015
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posted April 13, 2016 12:07 AM
Someone who has too many rules and expectations on how others should live their life, Lack of originality, and not true to themself. I am a virgo Venus.
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