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cappy1277
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posted September 07, 2010 12:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cappy1277     Edit/Delete Message
I need some help in trying to figure out this horary chart!! any feedback would be appreciated as it seems i can't wrap my brain around it.....

querent being me is mercury retrograde in virgo in the 4th house. He is jupiter retrograde in aries in 11th. Jupiter doesn't make an aspect to mercury but mercury and the sun are conjunct in 4th house with moon applying to sun and separating from mercury. i don't know what to make of the answer?? to see if he is cheating on me, I would have to look at the 12th house right? in that case, its empty. ruler of the 12th house is mars and its in the 5th house conjunct venus...
I can't wrap my brain around this- conjuncts usually mean yes but in this case i don't know how to take this....


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Winged Leo
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posted September 07, 2010 12:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Winged Leo     Edit/Delete Message
Can you post the chart with Regiomontanus house system?

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cappy1277
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posted September 07, 2010 12:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cappy1277     Edit/Delete Message

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electricmind
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posted September 07, 2010 12:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for electricmind     Edit/Delete Message
i think its a case of misunderstanding. but i think you'll find out whats going on after mercury goes direct.

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Winged Leo
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posted September 07, 2010 12:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Winged Leo     Edit/Delete Message
I will study it and come back with a response!

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raspberri
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posted September 07, 2010 12:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for raspberri     Edit/Delete Message
Hmm. His significator isn't conjunct any other planets so I'd say no. To find out if he's into someone else in a horary chart, you take a look at who his planet is loving and vice versa. In this case he loves the Sun, but the Sun doesn't love him back.

Uranus is in love with him however, which rules and falls into his fourth house... Still nothing jumping out at me that is showing a significant relationship. However, you two seem to be having some problems and it doesn't seem like you are on the same page...

Did you guys break up or have you even talked recently? Or maybe you are living too much in the past this is making him upset?

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cappy1277
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posted September 07, 2010 12:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cappy1277     Edit/Delete Message
it might just be miscommunication on my part due to mostly insecurities & possessiveness. his ex made a comment on his FB that was inappropriate and his response was I luv you. They had a relationship for 10 years but he wouldn't commit to her even after all her demands. Mind the fact that i know he has a venus aquarius so I know that they have a tendency to stay friends with exes (i have venus in aquarius too). but he has been known to cheat on her and their relationship was tumultuous. so maybe i am being paranoid that is why i wanted to post a horary.

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cappy1277
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posted September 07, 2010 01:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cappy1277     Edit/Delete Message
raspberri-
we didn't break up. I talked to him yesterday and he doesn't know that i am feeling this way or that I even saw these posts. His behavior hasn't been out of the ordinary for me but maybe he is just good at what he does...lol. i think that we both may be concerned with each other's pasts (looong story)in some way as he brings up my ex alot. He has been the vocal one in the relationship in regards to feelings and i have just been more passive as I know about his history. Bottom line- I have a huge wall up with this guy because I don't want to get hurt. Both of us are capricorns with venus in aquarius. he has a sag moon and i have a gemini moon.

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raspberri
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posted September 07, 2010 01:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for raspberri     Edit/Delete Message
Well I don't mean anything by this but you two aren't seemingly liking eachother in that horary chart, except that the Sun which is his cosignificator is in the sign of your significator.

But Jupiter doesn't like or love your significator soo I don't know what the deal is but something is off. You are both retrograde which isn't pretty. But the Moon is 'okay' recieved by his significator, more of a friendship type aspect tho.

Maybe you didn't pick the right time to ask the question idk..

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amowls*
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posted September 07, 2010 01:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for amowls*     Edit/Delete Message
Okay really if he were cheating on you with his ex, one would think he'd try to hide it more and not post "i luv you" on facebook where everyone could see.

Odds are it was just a casual comment, and I wouldn't get too worried about it.

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posted September 07, 2010 01:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for raspberri     Edit/Delete Message
I agree with her tho, even if he isn't cheating and my BF said that to his ex gf I would be like WTF???

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posted September 07, 2010 01:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for swirl-kitt     Edit/Delete Message
I broke up with someone, who had Venus in Aquarius because of a similar reason.. He posted a comment that was far from I love you on a girl's comment box, but I was too jealous

He also admitted that in the past, he would have girlfriends and he would actually 'enjoy' getting caught while making out with someone else in a club etc

However, in your case, I think it was rather innocent since it's his ex. I suggest you bring it up and express your jealousy, without going to extremes. Some guys, in fact, everyone likes it when their gf/bf expresses some jealousy..

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cappy1277
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posted September 07, 2010 01:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cappy1277     Edit/Delete Message
yes!! plus you may have to keep in mind that he may not think that I am a stalker...lol.
i saw the post for his L luv you on her wall.

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posted September 07, 2010 01:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for swirl-kitt     Edit/Delete Message
You're not a stalker !

Everyone does that.. Just ask him if he still has feelings for her

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raspberri
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posted September 07, 2010 01:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for raspberri     Edit/Delete Message
Um you are his GF and he doesn't think you look at his facebook?

If you were his GF being a stalker wouldn't be an issue.

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posted September 07, 2010 01:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cappy1277     Edit/Delete Message
swirl-kitt-
its not so much jealousy that i feel but more so self preservation and protection of my heart. If this is the case, i just want to bow out gracefully while i can with the least bit of investment as possible.
idk what to think??? my gemini moon won't allow me to think with my heart and my intuition is thrown off right now.

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cappy1277
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posted September 07, 2010 01:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cappy1277     Edit/Delete Message
put it this way- he may or may not know that i look at his facebook because i have never mentioned it. He may have the feeling that i do but there is no concrete reason for him to know that. he can only assume. him on the other hand, he is on my facebook everyday and he lets it be known. One day i woke up to 17 notifications for FB because he went through my posts for the last 6 weeks and commented or liked them....lol

would you guys like to see a synastry chart of us?

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posted September 07, 2010 01:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Winged Leo     Edit/Delete Message
cappy1277,

Your partner is represented by the ruler of 7th, in this chart it's Jupiter and is in 11th. Jupiter in 11th is usually a good sign for honesty, but it's rx, so to me this says he's not that honest. The Jupiter rx position is "weakening" its positive effects there. Think of this as reversed Tarot cards.

Jupiter's dispositor is Mars and it's in the 5th (love affairs), conjunct Venus. Venus is the ruler of 12th, the house of "secrets and deception". I don't want to worry you, but according this chart, your bf may be up to cheating. I've also checked the 3rd house and its ruler (3rd house: lies), its ruler is Moon and it's in the 3rd, but not aspecting to any other planets which I find a little a bit disturbing also.

*The Horary chart only answers the querent's question, not the nature of their relationship.

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posted September 07, 2010 01:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for amowls*     Edit/Delete Message
...I don't see why you would be afraid of seeming like a "stalker"... You guys are facebook friends, right? Then it shouldn't be a surprise to him that you look at his page.

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raspberri
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posted September 07, 2010 01:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for raspberri     Edit/Delete Message
The nature of the relationship can plainly be seen in the horary chart.


According to that chart they barely have a relationship thats why im confused. We need DD to come in here and take a look.

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Winged Leo
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posted September 07, 2010 02:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Winged Leo     Edit/Delete Message
No, Raspberri

The nature of their relationship can be seen in Synastry and Composite charts. Don't even try to argue with me on this. The Horary only answers the question and additionally provides us "the details" about the question.

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DD
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posted September 07, 2010 02:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DD     Edit/Delete Message
Winged Leo actually is right. Horary answers to the question only.

BUT if it is a question pertaining to relationships, it also apparently sheds a light on the relationship between two people, seen in the dignities of the significators.
The important thing is that we really stick to the significators though.

EDIT:
as in all fields of astrology I have seen slightly different views on horary, too, depending on the author.

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raspberri
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posted September 07, 2010 02:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for raspberri     Edit/Delete Message
What?

You are an amatuer if you think the nature of the relationship cant be seen in horary.

How do you think horary can answer if someone loves someone else or not.

Go do some research.

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raspberri
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posted September 07, 2010 02:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for raspberri     Edit/Delete Message
The planets tell the story and only advanced astrologers have the ability to tell about everything that is going on in the relationship.

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DD
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posted September 07, 2010 02:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DD     Edit/Delete Message
Cappy,

I can`t say anything about this horary, but why don`t you talk to him about your fears?

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