posted November 03, 2010 07:17 AM            

Me 2 years ago:

If you happened to catch me on a good day when I had not much work – and lots of play time… and I was relaxed (as opposed to my usual state of constant stress) – enjoying the sun shine.. and scoping the view.. and I happened to see an interesting guy with interesting eyes and captivating body language… I guess I stared a lot - (I tend to day dream).. so I’d be picturing doing things to him while starring (which due to my Mars conj Neptune can be more satisfying that actually doing said things).
If he caught my stare he’d usually come over, although you get the odd one that didn’t. (If he ignored it or didn’t come over.. I’d start checking out a different guy). Once he came over – my first desire was to know everything about him and see whether I was still attracted after speaking to him. I’d ask a lot of seemingly innocent questions (that were actually tests).. If he passed these – If his personality attracted me – and if he had a deep voice (because sometimes they are as cute as a button & when they open their mouths they sound like becks).. I might’ve taken it further, although usually by this point… After chatting – either he initiated something else… OR he was someone I didn’t like talking to and neither of us initiated anything else.
It’s interesting. Most guys who I like talking to – and who were attracted enough to come over in the first place, always seemed to initiate things. Maybe it’s because I was/am slower than the average person.. so most people just end up moving things along faster than me.
I guess the slowness makes sense for both Taurus and Cap.

So that’s about it. I think it’s pretty boring really lol

I didn’t do much else.
My eyes do 80% of the work. I have very sexually expressive eyes.

I wonder if I met a man who has both Venus/Mars in Taurus – whether I would end up chasing… Capricorn being cardinal is slightly quicker to the gun lolll
I think it would be interesting. It would be good to find someone even slower than I am, just for a change – but God only knows how long it would take for us to get together.

But anyway – these days I am not looking. First of all I have a bf who I care about and respect. Secondly, I am in love and have been for a couple of years – with a different man. So I feel completely out of the dating loop. Hence, my interp. above is about me 2 years ago.

posted November 03, 2010 10:06 AM            

I like very strong manly men, very masculine type of me. Im a sucker for a man with a nice chest He's gotta prove he's man enough to handle me... hehehehehe...
I will ONLY date men with dark hair.. I prefer hispanic men..

As for chasing men, hummm... I act like I dont really care eiter way.. Like u can't get me.. Catch me if you can type of way.
In the mean time I will sit back and watch and observe him, I will see what his likes and dislikes are, what type of person he is.. (hunting the prey from the bushes..lol)

When I do talk to him, I will be funny and I will ask questions that will give me idea's about what his likes are.. I will throw in tid bits about myself... (these questions are those "leo" tests...lol)

I will call, but rarely.... Once I fiqure out if I want to date him or not.. If he hasnt asked me I will say something like " I bet if we went out I would have a borrinnnggg time, and you wouldnt be able to keep my attention " he laughs and says ooo yeah.. He ends up telling me what a great time I would have, and It become this big discussion, of playing and joking about how I would fall asleep on it.. blah blahb....well lets jus see about that (high five) Score for Lioness.... LOL

posted November 03, 2010 03:02 PM            

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for general flirting - its mostly non verbal. ill take in their vibe, ill give them looks, create an atmosphere, hints basically

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posted November 03, 2010 03:02 PM            

I am:

Venus in Cancer/Mars in Taurus

Boyfriend "A"

Venus in Sag/Mars in Libra

I used to go to his house at night and tape poems to his window. I made a fool out of myself every chance I got to make him laugh, to declare my love. I wrote him notes often and we stayed on the phone for hours. At the beach i bought two necklaces- one with my name, one with his. We wore each other's names around our necks until I ended it a year and a half later. I still have his name though...

Crush "B"

Venus in Taurus/Mars in Aries

I told him I liked him all the time. Everyone in school knew I liked him, and knew he was mine, and knew that if they had a crush on him, to keep it to themselves. I used to ask him to movies, ask to kiss him at the end. Invited him to little birthday parties and pizza outings and to the mall. We never "dated" as it was against the rule in Catholic school. But even now we're still connected, sort of childhood sweethearts.

Crush "C"

Venus in Aquarius/Mars in Capricorn

I liked this one since kindergarten. Right away. I didn't let him know, but other people told him. I was very in love with him (LOL!) until I found out he liked me too. We "dated" for 2 weeks until I broke up with him. At a school dance. I told him he didn't treat me like his girlfriend, and that he wasn't affection or demonstrative. Poor guy. I shoulda known it was just his Venus and Mars traits!

Crush "D"

Venus in Aries/Mars in Pisces

Ah, the bad boy. I'm still technically dating this one. I used to have a chic pixie cut, and he told me that if i grew my hair long that he'd date me. So I did. I was determined! He was a little romantic soul. Flowers for Valentine's Day and the like. I still think he's cute, but a troublemaker though.

"Married Man DISASTER"

Venus in Pisces/Mars in Taurus

Oh boy. What a nightmare. This one made me feel like I was taking a first breath, and taking a last breath, at the same time. I hunted him. Stuck to him like glue. Spent hours with him, probing his mind and healing his insecurities (we have Ascendants conjunct in Scorp). He was married, and a family man, and my teacher, but i didn't care. I pursued him until there was no me anymore. Just a lifeless being that wanted to possess someone. Can we say LIFE LESSON?

"College Professor"

Venus in Leo/Mars in Aries

I literally wrote him sex poetry full of pretty words describing what I would do to him. He was my poetry professor, and I cannot tell you the satisfaction I got watching him sweat as I read my perversions aloud! I was bold. Wore scandalous clothing. I'm not a flousy in the least, but i WANTED this man.

Crush "E"

Venus in Pisces/Mars in Taurus

Aww, this one broke my heart. He had a girlfriend. I was really shy around him. I used to plot out all the clever things I would say to him when we would bump into each other. But when we DID bump into each other, I mumbled and stuttered like an idiot.

"Gothic Lover Man"

Venus in Aries/Mars in Scorpio

posted November 03, 2010 03:06 PM            

LOL @ Silly Rabbits

hehehehe

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Meta - Reading your descriptions..

I’ve only liked two men in my whole life time (I’m 24) with the same intensity that you seem to have liked quite a few men. This fascinates me. It really does. I guess I can like several men in a detached manner. But it’s rare for me to feel that intensely.

I’ll come back and post about these 2 guys (and actually stick to your actual topic – Sorry again. I’m a bit distracted lately lol)

Could you post your Venus/Mars aspects as well?

posted November 03, 2010 03:18 PM            

Guy 1: He has venus in scorpio and mars in aries..and he was... soooooooo dull and boring....seriously..just snoozeville ...he looks fabulous, dark chocolate eyes, deep olive skin and black hair, 6ft 3 and all the masculinity anyone could want aswell as sweetness and thoughtfullness. You know what? He was weird aswell..he had issues...im blambing his aquarius moon being tightly squared by his pluto in scorpio lol, my deepest apologies to anyone who has that placement.

posted November 03, 2010 03:19 PM            

Guy 1: He has venus in scorpio and mars in aries..and he was... soooooooo dull and boring....seriously..just snoozeville ...he looks fabulous, dark chocolate eyes, deep olive skin and black hair, 6ft 3 and all the masculinity anyone could want aswell as sweetness and thoughtfullness. You know what? He was weird aswell..he had issues...im blambing his aquarius moon being tightly squared by his pluto in scorpio lol, my deepest apologies to anyone who has that placement.

posted November 03, 2010 05:15 PM            

The guys I'm attracted to are always flashy dressers... I will never date a guy that wears cargo shorts, for instance. They usually also have a hobby (like skateboarding or playing guitar or something). Also prefer guys who aren't serious all the time.

The MAN OF MY DREAMS (the one that I used to go to my friend's class for haha) was tall, skinny, had long dark hair (that made him kind of look like a girl), wore acid wash skinny jeans w/ cowboy boots and wore one dangly earring and lots of rings on his fingers. I WAS ENTHRALLED. He's also an art major (swoon). But he's a stoner so that was kind of a turn off, but in my fantasies he doesn't smoke weed. I found out his birthday via facebook and his Venus is conjunct my ASC

Venus Pisces, 10th house (square Saturn, Uranus, Chiron)
Mars Sag, 6th house (opposite Chiron, trine Jupiter [mutual reception], sextile Moon, Sun, Mercury)

posted November 04, 2010 07:49 AM            

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Could you post your Venus/Mars aspects as well?

Our signs seem kind of similar – We both have feminine Venus/Mars and we both have Taurus there. But we’re very different in this regard.
My Venus is in the 11th – trine Mars/Neptune, opposite Pluto, conjunct NN.
My Mars is in the 7th on DC – trine Venus, large sextile w. Jupiter, conj Neptune, sextile Pluto.

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Your Venus is in the 11th (Aqua) which may aid to your detached manner? But it IS opp Pluto.. hmm... And I have an Aqua Moon, so..

Anyways, I have:

Venus in the 9th, Opp Saturn/Neptune, trine Pluto, sextile Mars, conjunct Jupiter/Chiron.

Mars in the 7th, opp Pluto, square Sun/Moon, sextile Venus, trine Mercury, trine Neptune, Trine Saturn.

I think that I should note that I have a fixed Grand Cross in my chart, as well as a Kite. Plus ASC in Scorpio, Pluto in the 1st conjunct ASC. I am intense by nature. An extremist. I'm either madly in love with you, or you are just a friend, or just nothing, really.

But we do seem to have similar aspects to Venus and Mars. Maybe we're attracted to similar men, but pursue them differently?

posted November 04, 2010 07:53 AM            

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The MAN OF MY DREAMS (the one that I used to go to my friend's class for haha) was tall, skinny, had long dark hair (that made him kind of look like a girl), wore acid wash skinny jeans w/ cowboy boots and wore one dangly earring and lots of rings on his fingers. I WAS ENTHRALLED. He's also an art major (swoon). But he's a stoner so that was kind of a turn off, but in my fantasies he doesn't smoke weed. I found out his birthday via facebook and his Venus is conjunct my ASC

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We have similar tastes. I like this man. And I like how he enthralled you. Great word, enthralled. I sympathize with the being turned off by his stoner aspect. Why do men always have to kill it?

But then again, his Venus is conjunct your ASC, and in MY experience, it makes you a goner. You're just head over heels before the first words are spoken. Point blank.

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Meta, you are BOLD lol. I would've never ever done any of those things (my Venus is square Saturn after all). Like, the most I ever do is talk about sex around a guy that I know likes me. It's fun watching their eyes widen.

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I have Venus opp Saturn. It takes a super-human to make me interested. Therefore, when I AM attracted to someone, i'm so blow away that such a person exists that I just HAVE to be with them. I HAVE to know everything about them and understand them and identify what they have that makes me so "enthralled".

posted November 04, 2010 07:55 AM            

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"I pursued him until there was no me anymore. Just a lifeless being that wanted to possess someone. Can we say LIFE LESSON?"

wow i so relate.

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That would be your 8th house/Pluto placements. It takes control, and you have no power. You are a slave to your madness, your drive to possess. It's terrible and beautiful at the same time.

posted November 04, 2010 06:45 PM            

Hmm, art school boys... delicious! LOL!

No, but interesting how different aspects to your Venus can override one another.

posted November 05, 2010 10:11 AM            

I cant believe you actually kept track of all those guys....LOL

posted November 05, 2010 10:34 AM            

I remember everything. LOL. I feel like such a creep... Glenn Close from Fatal Attraction... I WILL BOIL YOUR BUNNIES!!!

You don't remember their placements??? What kinda stalker are YOU supposed to be??? I think you need to take notes from a master (aka ME).