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Topic: Do you cry during intimacy?
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kfn327 Knowflake Posts: 78 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted November 05, 2010 10:22 AM
Sometimes when I have sex with someone I love deeply, I begin to cry. Does anyone else do this, or have you ever had this experience? I have Sun in Aries/Moon in Pisces/Venus in Aquarius/Mars in Taurus.IP: Logged |
swirl-kitt Knowflake Posts: 225 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 05, 2010 10:27 AM
I did cry.. twice actuallyHowever, I didn't cry because it was too beautiful. I cried because I felt miserable, I realized that I was still in love with my ex. not that the sex was terrible. I guess it lacked emotion But I cried when it was over so mine doesn't count sun scorpio, moon aries, merc. sagittarius IP: Logged |
swirl-kitt Knowflake Posts: 225 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 05, 2010 10:30 AM
I'm actually quite the opposite of 'crying during intimacy'The departments of Love, Pleasure, and Crying are far far away from each other in my brain. Love and Pleasure are close though I never feel like crying when I'm happy. IP: Logged |
kfn327 Knowflake Posts: 78 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted November 05, 2010 10:43 AM
I cry when I'm happy. I cry almost every day. Sometimes crying is sad and unhappy, but often, I enjoy it. It's a release and I feel rejuvenated afterward.IP: Logged |
lechien Knowflake Posts: 514 From: my 30 cubic square meter room with a rat! Registered: May 2009
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posted November 05, 2010 10:46 AM
oh it happens to me from time to time, when i feel really happy to be intimate with someone. it's sweet, though it alarms the guys a bit.IP: Logged |
kfn327 Knowflake Posts: 78 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted November 05, 2010 10:48 AM
Lech, it alarms the men a lot in my experience. IP: Logged |
lechien Knowflake Posts: 514 From: my 30 cubic square meter room with a rat! Registered: May 2009
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posted November 05, 2010 10:58 AM
that's true! lolto relate astrologically, i guess my Cancer-ruled 8th house. IP: Logged |
esheep123 Knowflake Posts: 27 From: brooklyn, ny usa Registered: Oct 2010
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posted November 05, 2010 11:19 AM
I've never cried during sex, or after sex.I could imagine it as a release, or an emotional fulfillment from the partner. I did however meet someone that when I speak to him, and then walk away, I feel incredibly emotional, and helpless. IP: Logged |
Lioness Knowflake Posts: 766 From: Registered: Mar 2010
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posted November 05, 2010 11:28 AM
I have not cried during or after . To be honest I cant see myself doing that... What ever emotions I feel I keep them to myself.. I dont cry in front of anyone. Unless its a movie... lol... IP: Logged |
LEXX Moderator Posts: 3459 From: Still out looking for Schr�dinger's cat.........& LEXIGRAMMING... is my Passion! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 05, 2010 11:45 AM
yes IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask Knowflake Posts: 3197 From: Bay Area, CA Registered: May 2009
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posted November 05, 2010 12:22 PM
It's totally unpredictable for me. Sometimes I don't, sometimes I bawl my eyes out. I think it's my hidden 12th house moon (Aries) and the opposition to Uranus makes emotion very sudden and very out of the blue. IP: Logged |
letram Knowflake Posts: 741 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 05, 2010 01:34 PM
no.and im glad i haven't seen this o.o IP: Logged |
jane Knowflake Posts: 1252 From: Registered: Jul 2009
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posted November 05, 2010 01:51 PM
Only when it's bad.IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask Knowflake Posts: 3197 From: Bay Area, CA Registered: May 2009
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posted November 05, 2010 01:52 PM
Jane IP: Logged |
Purple Knowflake Posts: 48 From: Planet Love Registered: Oct 2010
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posted November 05, 2010 03:32 PM
Jane, It used to happen to me a lot. I would cry almost always afterwards the first few years when I was younger. I don't know why but it was like release of some sort and I found the stupidest things to cry over. Sometimes i would burst out laughing too. Now after being intimate I don't like being touched or even talking to them. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Knowflake Posts: 2142 From: South of France Registered: Sep 2010
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posted November 05, 2010 03:41 PM
Jane and Belgz ------------------ Pluto conjunct Dejanira, Girlfriend. IP: Logged |
Cynnared Knowflake Posts: 576 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 05, 2010 06:35 PM
I cried once, when it went up the wrong hole suddenly and I was in a lot of pain. Other than that no.IP: Logged |
Betty Boop Knowflake Posts: 236 From: Betty Boop Land Registered: Sep 2010
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posted November 05, 2010 09:08 PM
LOLLLL @ Cyn. That would be the only time I'd cry also. I have your Aries Sun/Cap Mars combination hehehe IP: Logged |
Cynnared Knowflake Posts: 576 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 05, 2010 09:27 PM
Throw Uranus in Libra into the mix and you get a wild combo....I try at writing jokes and hope to go back on stage to do stand up.... IP: Logged |
Lara Knowflake Posts: 5067 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 05, 2010 10:22 PM
LMAO Cynnared! That's painfully funny As for the title, yes l have done.
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dinobleue Knowflake Posts: 147 From: USA Registered: May 2009
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posted November 05, 2010 10:29 PM
I have. I laugh as well. H8 Sun in Aquarius H12 Moon in Cancer I have Venus in Capricorn and Mars in Aries but that doesn't seem like something those placements would normally do. IP: Logged |
ScorpioSMR Knowflake Posts: 122 From: Keaau, Hawaii Registered: Jul 2010
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posted November 05, 2010 11:27 PM
Yes I Cry Smile Laugh Make a variety of noises....no barking though
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amowls* Knowflake Posts: 1757 From: richmond va Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 05, 2010 11:32 PM
I cry when I get mad.IP: Logged |
GypseeWind Moderator Posts: 4295 From: Dayton,Ohio USA Registered: May 2009
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posted November 06, 2010 01:56 AM
I cry when I get mad too. And then that makes me madder.But to answer OP question, YES, I have and so did he. I'll never forget that night. And it was a good crying, not cause it was terrible, lol, it was because it was intensely beautiful. IP: Logged |
Spanky Butler Knowflake Posts: 1049 From: Australia Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 06, 2010 05:36 AM
I'm blaming the Venus Rx for this topic lol. Interestingly enough a friend mentioned this thread to me tonight & then I find this article on yahoo news.. http://au.lifestyle.yahoo.com/womens-health/sex-relationships/ better-sex/article/-/8265563/the-mysteries-of-sex/ the excerpt below is what was most interesting so posted for y'all who couldn't be fugged clicking the link. WHY WE SOMETIMES CRY(OR LAUGH) AFTER SEX
Perhaps it’s your partner humming Celine Dion songs during intercourse, but more likely it’s a physiological reaction. “An orgasm instigates the release of powerful hormones, such as dopamine, epinephrine and oxytocin, all of which rile the emotions,” says Dr Pepper Schwartz, author of Prime: Adventures & Advice on Sex, Love and the Sensual Years. The good news: you should consider giggles (or tears) a reassuring sign about the status of your relationship. If getting physical with someone moves you that much, you probably have a profound, intimate relationship. On a personal note, I've never cried during sex & never will cause crying is for wimps IP: Logged |