Lindaland
  Astrology 2.0
  question on a combo of planets in synastry- mars conjunct saturn/pluto

Post New Topic  Post A Reply
profile | register | preferences | faq

UBBFriend: Email This Page to Someone! next newest topic | next oldest topic
Author Topic:   question on a combo of planets in synastry- mars conjunct saturn/pluto
staborgi
Knowflake

Posts: 288
From:
Registered: Aug 2009

posted November 14, 2010 05:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for staborgi     Edit/Delete Message
A lot of people born in the early-mid 1980s have a conjunction of Saturn with Pluto towards the last degrees of Libra that often comes in close contact with my Mars, which is at 0 Scorpio.

Lately I feel like I've been meeting a lot more people of this specific astrological era and I'm beginning to think more deeply about what this combination of planets entails.

I know you can't really isolate aspects, but I'm still curious about how these particular energies interact exactly. I was reading in Liz Greene's book on Pluto that this combination of planets natally can lead to pretty grim experiences with brutality, madness, and suicidal behavior and it struck me how extreme the nature of this combo could be.

Does anyone have experience with the Saturn/Pluto conjunction of that generation I mentioned, and if so, how have you seen it act out in synastry? Any thoughts on my Mars being so close to it and what that means for me? Also curious because I'm not really clear on how out of sign conjunctions work...

IP: Logged

britterfly
Knowflake

Posts: 196
From:
Registered: Jul 2010

posted November 14, 2010 05:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for britterfly     Edit/Delete Message
dude! everyone i know born in that time frame has some super intense inner struggles going on!!! One friend... who I should add is no longer a friend because of this... drunkenly admitted to having strong pedophilic desires, another is a raving jerk that verbally attacks and degrades everyone he knows, another one WANTS to be a nice guy, but he's just got so many pulls toward bad boy behavior that he struggles, another has some darkness going on inside him that is very evident, but he only touches upon it shallowly with me... I could go on and on. They seem to all be dealing with some pretty powerful inner demons and very negative obsessions, and have some tough lessons to struggle through. They all have a lot of inner darkness to deal with, without a doubt.

IP: Logged

Lonake
Knowflake

Posts: 2269
From:
Registered: Apr 2009

posted November 15, 2010 01:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lonake     Edit/Delete Message
Well I know 2 people on this board who have Saturn/Pluto conj in Libra.

Myself, it's conj the IC

Purple, she has the conj in the 1st.

From what she's posted of her life, and from what I know of mine, yea we have had some intense inner struggles.
But I don't believe intense inner struggles are a rarity or just a product of a Saturn/Pluto conj.

My conjunction also has Mars to add to it. It just gives a lot of focus, but it's in Libra so there's procrastination there as well. Slow to get going, but when I get going I'm like a bullet.

I think in another thread Purple and I agreed that the Saturn Pluto conj gives a quality of being like a formidable rock inside, a core strength, no matter what loss we encounter or how our lives may unravel, there's a spirit there that will fight for survival that can't be diminished.

"Any thoughts on my Mars being so close to it and what that means for me?"
None
Hmmmmm.....Well their Saturn/pluto isn't gonna let your Mars rest on its laurels, it'll prompt it to action, toward some big "cause", in whatever house it lands in your chart, of course depending on how their conj is aspected in natal & synastry.

"Also curious because I'm not really clear on how out of sign conjunctions work..."
They work if they're close enough in orb. You can't really be too generous with the orb out of sign.

But, I have to say, what about the younger bunch that have the Mars/Saturn/Pluto stellium in Scorpio? Surely, they're more intense.
I had a younger female friend with that stellium, she was quite interesting...
.
.
.
Anyway Saturn is close to going over my stellium, starting next month, yay, and I like it actually. Saturn is exalted in Libra, so it feels good to me.
And I just met a man who has Mars in Libra (!) conj my Mars/Saturn/Pluto. lol. I'll let you know if my intensity scares him to pieces haha. But so far his Scorpio Venus is quite all right.

IP: Logged

staborgi
Knowflake

Posts: 288
From:
Registered: Aug 2009

posted November 15, 2010 10:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for staborgi     Edit/Delete Message
thanks for your thoughts guys! I guess I'm curious because I know I've had intense inner experiences and I wonder what the quality of this conjunction entails in terms of its manifestations...I read in Liz Greene's book about it but it's a bit abstract for my taste.
Lonake- please do let me know about your experiences with that conjunction in synastry, if you don't mind! I'm wondering if my Mars (especially coming from Scorpio and not Libra- and the conjunctions have been tight so far- about a degree or two) seems kind of irritating or threatening or what? I'm noticing a visceral reaction but I'm not sure what it is just yet...from my end I can say sometimes I do get a little freaked out by what I perceive as you so well mentioned, a "formidble rock." I want to interact with that side of these people, it intrigues me (maybe that's my Scorpio!) but I feel like sometimes my forwardness is met with apprehension and a really tough guard goes up. I do hope these planets can come to some kind of mutual agreement and work together but I'm wondering how that might happen/what it entails...
anyway just rambling now, sorry!

IP: Logged

Lonake
Knowflake

Posts: 2269
From:
Registered: Apr 2009

posted November 16, 2010 12:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lonake     Edit/Delete Message
"your experiences with that conjunction in synastry"
With my Mars/Saturn/Pluto? I like if it's trining something of theirs in Gemini or Aquarius, then we are a super couple, super charged, nothing can stop us. On its own its just focus and determination, but with a trine I get ideas for new avenues to put the energy forward, with just a lil energy from the other person, it goes into mega drive. With a conjunction to it....I sort of feel bad for them, as it's not light, but I do go out of my way to not try to bring them down or judge them, Saturn is a judge in Libra, in general actually, anyway I work to look beyond their superficial attitude and to be honest about any inadequacies (Saturn) which is healthy, to admit where you feel deficient so that there's no weird power whatever, you just stay vulnerable open trusting and then there's no bs, so far the Librans have responded well to that. With an opposition, it's not bad at all. There's no tension, even if it's their Mars or Saturn in Aries, no problem, I actually really like Aries oppositions to that stellium, esp the Sun. The squares can be a bit tense, because I'm putting Libra out there and the Cancers want someone they can whine to (no thanks) and the Capricorns want someone to be serious no matter what (come on where's all the fun in that). So Most of it I don't have tension.

But if you're dealing with someone (Saturn/Pluto like you say you run into) who can't honestly say where they may be deficient or scared and they take it out on you, the wrong way, just leave em be, don't try to change their focus, they just haven't learned to be open and accepting of themselves, and like the above poster wrote, can be destructive, so get out of their way if they want to self destruct, they just want to learn things the hard way.

But you're talking about people who don't have Mars there and I do, frankly I'm not bothered one way or the other if they have Mars there conj, but for them, the Libran Mars who usually act in a certain manner (unfettered by Saturn/Pluto) I think my intensity throws em a bit off balance, because I expect substance there too, not just endless charm/gagging about (which in a sense is basically what Libra Mars amounts to).

"I feel like sometimes my forwardness is met with apprehension and a really tough guard goes up."
Yea I can do that too..it's not because of your Mars, it's just in general. They may need time to suss you out a bit, and see if where you're at/what you're doing fits in with whatever view they have. The conj is in Libra so you have to show fairness and an egalitarian mind, don't go over the top with it though, they just want to see you as a team player who's on equal level. So they'll probably type you as a certain person, you just have to pass that test, that there's actually some strength or backbone in you, something real and honest and lacking bs and you'll be in. But don't force it, or you'll probably be shown the exit. Just let em suss you out and approach them with sincerity.

Now I'm wondering if I've been rambling

IP: Logged

staborgi
Knowflake

Posts: 288
From:
Registered: Aug 2009

posted November 16, 2010 01:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for staborgi     Edit/Delete Message
Oh please! I love astrological ramblings! Thanks for sharing Lonake, I appreciate it. I'm going to bed now but I'm thinking about what you said and will write a more complete response tomorrow!

IP: Logged

staborgi
Knowflake

Posts: 288
From:
Registered: Aug 2009

posted November 17, 2010 11:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for staborgi     Edit/Delete Message
I think you gave me a more optimistic view of this configuration Lonake! Thanks! I'm glad to hear you've had positive experiences with it in synastry and have a more lighthearted approach to it than I was expecting! Mars is my chart ruler so perhaps that's why I've been so focussed on that aspect, it seems to just be a big part of my dynamic with these people. So far I've noticed there's a long period, where I guess as you mentioned, I'm being sussed out. I guess everything depends on what other aspects everyone has connecting to this point, but I am getting involved with someone who has the conjunction in his 12th so my Mars falls there and I always was worried he didn't trust me and if I pushed to get a reaction he would retaliate somehow by hurting me or pulling away. But I'm starting to think maybe we have a deeper connection than I thought, a lot of it seeming to stem from this configuration. I wonder since you mentioned your intensity doesn't quite jive with Libra Mars if you've had good experiences with Scorpio Mars or other Scorpio planets? You mentioned that Scorpio Venus and that gives me hope! haha. To be honest, I've had a hard time dealing with the intensity of my 0 Scorp Mars, which is again my Aries chart ruler and in a wide orb conjunction to Pluto both in the 7th (and opposite my Jupiter in the 1st) and I feel like that's why I'm so intrigued by people with this placement- especially because it's in Libra and that seems to speak to my 7th house placement.

IP: Logged

Lonake
Knowflake

Posts: 2269
From:
Registered: Apr 2009

posted November 18, 2010 03:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lonake     Edit/Delete Message
The conjunction in the 12th would heighten the sensitivity. Your Mars there touches it off, in a way they're not used to..So it's gonna be hard going for them. I could see something where they don't trust you at times. If they have hard natal aspects to their conj your Mars there will activate it in a way that they may feel that they can't control the feelings that come up, while in communication with you/physically around you. But it's their choice. Like you say it could be a deep connection, but it's up to them. Your the person putting things in their 12th, so you're churning something in their psyche. And really who knows whats in there.

"if you've had good experiences with Scorpio Mars or other Scorpio planets?"
Well scorpio Mars doesn't jive well with my Mercury Aquarius, but they're the ones to have a problem with it, not me. I have Jupiter Scorpio and people with Scorpio for some reason respond to it and usually treat it like a friendship. Jupiter is laughs/good times. Lots of good times saying Scorpio-like snarky things, lol. And good things too
Surprisingly, or maybe not so much I dunno, I really get along v.well with younger people who have Scorpio Sun conj Pluto Scorpio. I think they're very sensitive, sometimes oversensitive, but really sweet and loyal.

"especially because it's in Libra and that seems to speak to my 7th house placement. "
Oh, so they're putting the conj in your 7th? Haha, yea. Why not, Pluto in the 7th for someone who has Scorpio Mars. Saturn in the 7th just says 'you cannot take this lightly' on both sides, then add Pluto, oh my.

Hope you get what you're aiming for

IP: Logged

staborgi
Knowflake

Posts: 288
From:
Registered: Aug 2009

posted November 18, 2010 11:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for staborgi     Edit/Delete Message
Thanks Lonake! I appreciate your thoughts a lot! Thanks for sharing so much with me

IP: Logged

All times are Eastern Standard Time

next newest topic | next oldest topic

Administrative Options: Close Topic | Archive/Move | Delete Topic
Post New Topic  Post A Reply
Hop to:

Contact Us | Linda-Goodman.com

Copyright © 2010

Powered by Infopop www.infopop.com © 2000
Ultimate Bulletin Board 5.46a