Scorpio: What does it take to fall in love?

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maddi Knowflake Posts: 137 From: New Jerzee Registered: Nov 2010	posted February 28, 2011 08:53 AM What does it take to fall in love, particularly to the secret, mysterious Scorpio. This question is so general, but I'm interested in the potential answers. What can a girl/guy do to make you fall in love with them? What are some things that make you go "sigh." IP: Logged
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 53200 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010	posted February 28, 2011 09:18 AM Whatever fluff is on the surface,the person has to be a person of integrity. Under any pretty face(male or female) has to be a person of character for a Scorpio to fall in love,I think. ------------------ Jesus never put his trust in man cuz he knew what was in man. He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city Proverbs IP: Logged
Aya_and_baby Knowflake Posts: 1235 From: Space (and sometimes Antwerp) Registered: Apr 2009	posted February 28, 2011 09:30 AM Well I'm a Scorpio sun, but to be completely honest, it doesn't take much for me to fall in love. That being said, there needs to be a physical attraction before there's even mention of falling in love. And I have to admit, I am a bit superficial, the better someone looks, the easier it is for me to "fall in love". On another note, I don't think I've fallen in love so much rather than falling in "lust". The only person I'm 100% sure I was in love with, does match the type of man I would generally go for. Does that make sense? ------------------ Official Conor's Feeding Machine! IP: Logged
Aya_and_baby Knowflake Posts: 1235 From: Space (and sometimes Antwerp) Registered: Apr 2009	posted February 28, 2011 09:32 AM If I had to make a bullet list: - Spontaneous - Honest - Bad boy - Carefree way of life - Playful - Intellectual - Good judge of character A combination of all of the above makes Aya fall like a brick for him ------------------ Official Conor's Feeding Machine! IP: Logged
Aya_and_baby Knowflake Posts: 1235 From: Space (and sometimes Antwerp) Registered: Apr 2009	posted February 28, 2011 09:32 AM Argh! Double post! Sorry guys! IP: Logged
TrueTaurus Knowflake Posts: 349 From: California Registered: Nov 2010	posted February 28, 2011 10:05 AM A scorpio boy is into me right now. He's has a scorpio venus too. I went on two dates with him wearing jeans, nothing sexy. We asked why we like each other and he told me, "I think you might be a good person, and I am drawn to you." I asked, any other reasons? He said, "cause your sexy." Lol I guess you don't need to dress sexy to be sexy. I'm a Taurus/Scorpio, so that probably helps. IP: Logged
LEXX Knowflake Posts: 9743 From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion! Registered: Apr 2009	posted February 28, 2011 10:28 AM I am Scorpio. I do not give a flying fig about looks as a reason for falling in love. Of course looks are a lovely perk but age (legal of course), race, weight, good looks,......do not matter to me. My list: Honest Intelligent Open minded Has ethics and integrity Compassionate Loves to cuddle Love themselves Loves me for my mind first, then body Monogamous Enjoys love making and sex, lots of sex! But if they could not due to illness or injury, I could still fall in love. Some dealbreakers? Liars cheaters hitters fighting sneaks secretive Bigots Homophobes Cat haters rednecks drunks drug addicts child molestors dirty bodied abusive Christian sexist womanizing lol...I have more but that is enough for now. ------------------ ~The present time is theirs, but the future is mine.~Nikola Tesla ~There is no box.~H♥ ~I remember, therefore I am immortal~LEXX }><}}}(*> IP: Logged
Aya_and_baby Knowflake Posts: 1235 From: Space (and sometimes Antwerp) Registered: Apr 2009	posted February 28, 2011 11:08 AM LOL Lexx! I love how "Christian" actually made it into your list of dealbreakers Especially if they're the kind who are always on about the Bible and will not accept you unless you admit to believing the Bible - I hate that kind of christians. I'm sure that religion wouldn't matter to me much (it wouldn't be the first time I'd have gone out with a catholic and a believer) but it certainly is nicer to be with someone who, despite their own religious beliefs, respects the fact - or notion - that his partner has other beliefs. ------------------ Official Conor's Feeding Machine! IP: Logged
maddi Knowflake Posts: 137 From: New Jerzee Registered: Nov 2010	posted February 28, 2011 01:39 PM Was there ever a time where you just go, "You know what? I love this person!" The person did 'xyz' and you just couldn't withhold that feeling, and let that self control go, put down your wall/guard and gave in. Because there was a moment where the eyes glittered in a personal experience, but still confused as to what was done. IP: Logged
Doux R�ve Moderator Posts: 7723 From: Registered: Dec 2010	posted February 28, 2011 02:19 PM What makes me fall in love.. the EYES ! If they're sparkling and bright, and if I can see right through them.. Kind, lovely eyes. Other than that lol, I like it when people are spontaneous and honest, it means A LOT. When they dare to be themselves without wearing a mask, and when they're ready to take risks for me (I mean make sacrifices to see me, to be with me). They have to be more open than I am, otherwise opening up will be very hard.. FUNNY and SPONTANEOUS. Not too talkative but not shy or quiet. I would say they have to be REAL. Genuine, honest and gentle. IP: Logged
NickiG Knowflake Posts: 5818 From: Pluto, next to Ami Ann Registered: Jul 2010	posted February 28, 2011 03:03 PM honesty, loyalty, open mindedness and easy on the eyes...i have to at least be able to look at him, lol....we have to have similar interests cuz if our interests are too different then i couldnt understand him and i'll get annoyed quickly...he has to have somewhat of a free/spontaneous spirit to keep things interesting...i agree with several of lexx's interests and all of her deal breakers (including the christian part, LOL) ------------------ What happens on Venus stays on Venus -Nasa IP: Logged
Aya_and_baby Knowflake Posts: 1235 From: Space (and sometimes Antwerp) Registered: Apr 2009	posted February 28, 2011 04:24 PM quote: Originally posted by maddi: Was there ever a time where you just go, "You know what? I love this person!" The person did 'xyz' and you just couldn't withhold that feeling, and let that self control go, put down your wall/guard and gave in. Because there was a moment where the eyes glittered in a personal experience, but still confused as to what was done. Well, just the other day this guy and I were talking about my baby's father and that situation, and he suddenly went "you're not really someone who likes relationships, are you?" and that's the moment I went: He understands me without even having to guess. He can read me like a book. Damn he's sexy. yet, I wouldn't call that love, but that's when I realised there definitely is an attraction (on my side anyway) And he was right - I'm way too independent in relationships and it has caused the necessary friction. ------------------ Official Conor's Feeding Machine! IP: Logged
Scorpionic_Web Knowflake Posts: 55 From: Registered: Feb 2011	posted February 28, 2011 09:48 PM For me, I know right away if I have the capacity to romantically love a specific woman. No words need to be exchanged. It's feeling their energy next to mine. It's either there or it isn't. I've never had a "change of heart" where another person's hard earned efforts have made a bit of difference. IP: Logged
swirl-kitt Knowflake Posts: 271 From: Registered: Apr 2009	posted March 01, 2011 06:27 AM What makes me really fall in love is probably a childlike innocence and energy in a man.. and a smiley face with honest eyes and a friendly attitude. My sag sis is married to a scorp man and I know why he must love her She is just herself, energetic, laughs a lot.. I think people like that bring out the best in us IP: Logged
Anglerfish Knowflake Posts: 504 From: Registered: Jan 2011	posted March 01, 2011 06:29 AM quote: Originally posted by LEXX: Some dealbreakers? Liars cheaters hitters fighting sneaks secretive Bigots Homophobes Cat haters rednecks drunks drug addicts child molestors dirty bodied abusive Christian sexist womanizing quote: Originally posted by Aya_and_baby: LOL Lexx! I love how "Christian" actually made it into your list of dealbreakers Especially if they're the kind who are always on about the Bible and will not accept you unless you admit to believing the Bible - I hate that kind of christians. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!!! Lexx you're awesome. ------------------ He who fights with monsters should look to it that he himself does not become a monster. And when you gaze long into an abyss the abyss also gazes into you."- Friedrich Nietzsche. ASC 29 Scorpio... Late Degree Scorpio Rising FTW!!! IP: Logged
LEXX Knowflake Posts: 9743 From: Still out looking for Schrodinger's cat.......& LEXIGRAMMING.♥.. is my Passion! Registered: Apr 2009	posted March 01, 2011 08:49 AM Anglerfish Aya_and_baby NickiG Thank you! ------------------ ~The present time is theirs, but the future is mine.~Nikola Tesla ~There is no box.~H♥ ~Balance is not letting anyone love you less than you love yourself.~Felipe ~I remember, therefore I am immortal~LEXX }><}}}(*>~ IP: Logged
4lifephrases Knowflake Posts: 375 From: London, United Kingdom Registered: Nov 2010	posted March 01, 2011 05:18 PM Things work Intuition from Scorpio side Love them Kindness Caring Show you would be there no matter what Stick to what you say Honesty Open to new things and broad thinking Unpredictability Modesty (Can be surprising and mysterious) I am not saying to hide anything Just let your Scorpio ask you questions Answer truthfully If we can suss you and categories you immediately it is easy to decide.Do I like what I see it ? OR I don't If you are confusing /interesting without trying to be you will be are there for long term. Ready to go on adventure Ambition Deal breaker Do not brag all the time Short term view on everything Indecisiveness Competitiveness Materialism IP: Logged
maddi Knowflake Posts: 137 From: New Jerzee Registered: Nov 2010	posted March 01, 2011 10:49 PM Thanks for all the responses. It seems that honesty, being your self and energy top the list. And reflecting love in the eyes. Anything else? IP: Logged
Got Gemini?? Knowflake Posts: 911 From: The Planet Mercury Registered: Oct 2010	posted March 01, 2011 11:56 PM Hello Maddi! Another Jerzee'ite! Small world! ------------------ Gemini Sun Libra Moon Gemini Mercury Cancer Venus Virgo Mars Virgo Asc And yes, I'm a guy! IP: Logged
maddi Knowflake Posts: 137 From: New Jerzee Registered: Nov 2010	posted March 02, 2011 12:12 PM Hey Gemini, what's up! IP: Logged
blugrey Knowflake Posts: 1006 From: Nowhere Registered: Nov 2010	posted March 02, 2011 12:50 PM - IP: Logged
Scorpionic_Web Knowflake Posts: 55 From: Registered: Feb 2011	posted March 03, 2011 07:29 AM Basically like I said, bluegrey just summed it up. IP: Logged
AmethystOrnella Knowflake Posts: 83 From: New York, NY Registered: Dec 2010	posted March 04, 2011 04:30 PM 1. Be Honest, ALL the time. Even if it hurts, it's better to be honest. It leaves no room for their suspicious mind to wonder. No puzzles to fix, and no holes to full in. 2. Hold onto your freedom. Just enough that it doesn't make them feel insecure about you, and enough to show that you're independent. 3. Be affectionate. It's important that you show them that you really care about them. If you're honest from the start, they'll know you mean a complement when you pay it, and not that you're just trying to butter them up. 4. Don't fish for complements or anything even remotely close to that. Weakness is a big turn off, and most Scorpios won't stroke your ego if you're not willing to help yourself. 5. Let them think they've got a little control over you. Not enough that you seem brainless, or like you have no self respect. If there's something you don't like, speak up, but be tactful. Even if a Scorpio's untactful, no one really likes a dose of their own medicine. Hope this helps IP: Logged

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