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RunAroundScreaming
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posted March 26, 2011 04:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What are your experiences with power struggles and this aspect in the composite?

Lol remember the virgo guy who I ignore and he gets mad. He says he deleted me from his facebook because I don't say hi and am playing "some sort of game."

Lol what is it with this aspect and power struggles, seriously?!? He doesn't want to say hi because I don't say hi. Well, if I dont say hi then why doesnt he just say hi?? Obviously a power struggle. I feel like he wants to change me...like he gets really mad when I dont act a certain way he has in his mind is the way I should act.

His friend saw me the other day and reacted like "Omg. That's HER! That's her! whoa. whoa. Let me not make it obvious."

Wth I feel like i couldnt possibly have been this immature at 19 lol

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Cynnared
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posted March 26, 2011 11:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Cynnared     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sounds like the guy can't handle rejection.....

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GrlyGirl20
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posted March 28, 2011 01:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GrlyGirl20     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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What are your experiences with power struggles and this aspect in the composite?
Lol remember the virgo guy who I ignore and he gets mad. He says he deleted me from his facebook because I don't say hi and am playing "some sort of game."

Lol what is it with this aspect and power struggles, seriously?!? He doesn't want to say hi because I don't say hi. Well, if I dont say hi then why doesnt he just say hi?? Obviously a power struggle. I feel like he wants to change me...like he gets really mad when I dont act a certain way he has in his mind is the way I should act.

His friend saw me the other day and reacted like "Omg. That's HER! That's her! whoa. whoa. Let me not make it obvious."

Wth I feel like i couldnt possibly have been this immature at 19 lol



Well I have had the Opposition in the Composite...along with the Composite Moon in Scorpio in the 8th (along with Saturn in the 8th)...and a Venus SemiSquare Pluto and Mars inconjunct Pluto...and Pluto in the 7th. So needless to say there were some DEFININATE power struggles. I don't know about wanting to change someone...but I did notice a definate wanting to hold the cards close. You have to remember in a composite chart the sun is typically the guy...so he might be manifasting this aspect a little more. I also think that Pluto strong in composite or synastry makes for someone that would cut off the other if they get hurt. So Cynnard is right...he got hurt and his way of dealing with it is to be a jerk and wipe you from his life. Also in the composite chart with Pluto (hell any Pluto) games are played and one keeps their feelings to themselves. As a Virgo I highly doubt he'd reveal how much he feels esp with Pluto involved. Vulnerability is very scary when its combined in the Composite chart with Pluto.

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RunAroundScreaming
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posted March 28, 2011 10:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well, we do have Sun conjunct Venus? in the composite

Thanks a lot for the answer btw

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RunAroundScreaming
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posted March 28, 2011 11:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh and yeah I totally get what u mean by a need to hold ur cards close. I always feel so suspicious of anyone I have this aspect with. But i do find later that my suspicion wasn't unwarranted. I think the reason suspiciousness comes with this aspect (secrets, playing detective, being able to see thru someone=Pluto) is because each person can see right through the other person, and usually that involves seeing through whatever white lies they might say and whatever insecurities they have. But at the same time, even while they're unable to hide anything from you for long, you both tend to keep tabs on who has the upper hand and any possible chance of one of you taking advantage of the other is a paranoic nagging thought in the back of your mind.

I think you dont realize the wanting to change the other person because it is very subtle. Like, let me ask you this question: do you feel you know what is best for that person and you see all the ways they could improve and be better people for both their own and otgers' happiness? If so, then you want to change them lol

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