posted March 28, 2011 01:15 PM            

I was thinking off the men I've dated or been in relationships with, even some friends... and I cannot remember EVER consciously ending a relationship. I've never broken up with a man, but rather, we just get distant and go our separate ways. No hard feelings, no drama... just "that was fun, things have changed, now it's over, good luck to you" sorta endings. Even with friends who I was very close with, we just peacefully move on.

I still think of these people fondly but just never felt so strongly that I wanted to fight to continue the relationship.

Would it be my aqua sun?

posted March 28, 2011 01:37 PM            

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I still think of these people fondly but just never felt so strongly that I wanted to fight to continue the relationship.

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posted March 28, 2011 04:21 PM            

I do stay friends with people - but if it's no longer romantic - I make that clear: "IT. IS. Over."

posted March 28, 2011 04:25 PM            

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Originally posted by Quinnie:
MertSerimer...."In composite;
-Definitely -Saturn conjunct ascendant- aspect..
-Pluto on Sun or Saturn.
-Sun in scorpio maybe taurus.
-Until you are healed, all south node and chiron conjuncts to other planets may help to maintain..."

That's interesting.I can see that in application with my relationships... Sometimes there is just a tie...like family or children etc........Other times it's a lifetime of learning one particular lesson that this person triggers or highlights.

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posted March 29, 2011 10:18 AM            

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It feels like Neptune/Pisces to me

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I could see this. Pisces do drift in and out of relationships. They don't ever end anything...and then they pick up relationships later.

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In composite;
-Definitely -Saturn conjunct ascendant- aspect..
-Pluto on Sun or Saturn.
-Sun in scorpio maybe taurus.
-Until you are healed, all south node and chiron conjuncts to other planets may help to maintain...

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MertSerimer:
Not to be rude...but this is VERY not true...at all. I'm not sure what your reading but this is def not true. In fact ANY Saturn aspect tends to make things very official and not tending to have things just sort of fade out. NEITHER does Pluto on the Sun...in fact Pluto on (or in aspect with the Sun) the composite again makes things official. And the last thing Pluto does is just let things fade away, there would end up being a LOT of game playing to make the person stay. Again Composite Sun in Scorpio or Taurus...does NOT let things go away...they are both fixed signs and while to a point passive (as they are feminine signs)...they don't make for one who will just let go easily and drift out of a relationship with no absolute.

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By the way, in both of your natal charts, if there are strong influence of capri, taurus or maybe scorpio it can show as well.

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posted March 29, 2011 11:59 AM            

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Originally posted by GrlyGirl20:

I DEF don't agree with this. And kind of wonder where have you seen this in others? I have strong Pluto in my chart...Capricorn...and Taurus in my chart and from what I've seen in others with these in their natal charts (or in the composite as you said above) I literally have never seen this. In fact I could see this more occuring in a mutable sign due to them literally going with the flow of things.

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Many is quoted from Astro.com Just create a composite chart randomly and see what i mean when you have these combinations.

Strong influence of a sign Definitely DOES NOT MEAN the strong influence of sign's ruler as you mentioned. It means especially "Sun,Venus or Moon" being in these signs in PARTNER'S natal charts. İf someone with sun and Venus in taurus is in a relationship which is settled into good shape after several weeks or months, she/he probably may never want to leave the partner even if they have big fight.

Pluto creates obsession. Strong Pluto influence on weak personalities definitely will make it worse and aparting may become impossible.

Strong Saturn influence on a com chart, may indicate that many thing in relationship is restricted BUT ALSO you are restricted your partner . Saturn may show you that he/she is your only choice to solve challenges coming from Saturn.

posted March 29, 2011 02:33 PM            

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Many is quoted from Astro.com Just create a composite chart randomly and see what i mean when you have these combinations.

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MertSerimer I guess I am just kinda having a hard time wrapping my head around the info you are saying. I've seen those same interpretations and I never gathered that or ever saw them interpreted that way. For instance with the Saturn you are right...you may indeed restrict your partner...but also its very rare someone will leave until they sort out the issues if at all. There is major responsibility tied to relationships with Saturn...and it is needed in both synastry and composite in any form to make the relatioship a more permanent one (may it be good aspects or bad and minor or major aspects). That doesn't mean a relationship just gradually dissolves. Or strong Pluto does include obsessions...but again gradual fading away of things is not at all what Pluto does. Pluto tends to put up a fight between both parties, and play mind games in order to make the person stay. And usually what happens is the person ends things but never gradually...they'll make it known why they are leaving. For instance when you breakup and have Pluto important in either your synastry or Composite its very rare you'll be friends after due to the passion between the two of them. One person maybe mad at the other and hold a grudge etc. I'm also quoting you BM as your 8th house Moon makes you all or nothing lol.

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Strong influence of a sign Definitely DOES NOT MEAN the strong influence of sign's ruler as you mentioned. It means especially "Sun,Venus or Moon" being in these signs in PARTNER'S natal charts. İf someone with sun and Venus in taurus is in a relationship which is settled into good shape after several weeks or months, she/he probably may never want to leave the partner even if they have big fight

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I have my own natal Venus in Taurus, natal Moon/DSC in Capricorn and Pluto/Saturn in Scorpio along with other Pluto aspects (Pluto aspects everyone of my personal planets), and in myself AND the people I know with these placements I've literally not seen what you said at all (and when I talk about placements I am also talking about Sun/Moon/Asc or Venus in either/or Taurus/Scorpio/Cap). In fact its just the opposite. These people if they ever leave relationships or let go did so for a reason. I've seen this with even the most fickle Gemini Sun with a Taurus placement.

posted March 29, 2011 04:08 PM            

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I too am not understanding how saturn, pluto, or fixed signs would figure into this? Both influences would prefer things more *definite* then the lines blurring.

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I'm still voting for Pisces/Neptune/Mutable... and I just don't understand how Saturn/Pluto and fixed signs would do this... to me, those would be all or nothing.

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