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Topic: Anyone with Venus in Aquarius?
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starfox Moderator Posts: 882 From: London England Registered: Aug 2010
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posted April 20, 2011 05:06 PM
I have this placement and I'd like to read you experiences of it too.How do people react to you when they first see you? Are you magnetic,glamorous and attractive but ultimately unattainable? Do you have trouble letting people get too close in relationships? Anything else you'd like to add? IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 38461 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 20, 2011 05:26 PM
That is interesting you have Venus in Aqua and Mars in Scorpio,Starfox. They seem like they would fight each other. Are they squared? I know a Venus in Aqua guy.He could get close but he has lots of earth, second air and last water,only one water planet which I think is Neptune lol ------------------ Why have a finely manicured lawn and be crying on the inside? He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city Proverbs IP: Logged |
starfox Moderator Posts: 882 From: London England Registered: Aug 2010
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posted April 20, 2011 05:39 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: That is interesting you have Venus in Aqua and Mars in Scorpio,Starfox. They seem like they would fight each other. Are they squared?
Looking at my chart on 0800horoscope it says. Venus Trine Mars 6.26 38..He is amorous, not a peaceful and calm lover but a passionate one with a strong temperament. He is demonstrative in love, and likes healthy pleasures. He enjoys life to the full... In my own mind I am 'a peaceful and calm lover' but I guess we can't see ourselves as other see us.! but yes.. demonstrative and likes healthy pleasures
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 38461 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 20, 2011 06:04 PM
quote: Looking at my chart on 0800horoscope it says. Venus Trine Mars 6.26 38..He is amorous, not a peaceful and calm lover but a passionate one with a strong temperament. He is demonstrative in love, and likes healthy pleasures. He enjoys life to the full... In my own mind I am 'a peaceful and calm lover' but I guess we can't see ourselves as other see us.! but yes.. demonstrative and likes healthy pleasures
OK ,I am on my way ------------------ Why have a finely manicured lawn and be crying on the inside? He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city Proverbs IP: Logged |
starfox Moderator Posts: 882 From: London England Registered: Aug 2010
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posted April 20, 2011 06:10 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne:
OK ,I am on my way
Woohoo..! I will wait up for you, but don't be too long it is already 11pm in England IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 38461 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 20, 2011 06:18 PM
I astral project. Takes seconds ------------------ Why have a finely manicured lawn and be crying on the inside? He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city Proverbs IP: Logged |
cappy1277 Moderator Posts: 1294 From: philadelphia,pa Registered: Jul 2009
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posted April 20, 2011 06:21 PM
I have venus aquarius in 10th house. All those things that you have said seem to be me...at least what I have had people tell me. Venus is square my taurus ascendant. Venus sextile mars in capricorn. I get a lot of unwarranted attention from men that i'd rather not have. Very much the loner at times & I can definitely say I have intimacy issues...lolIP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 38461 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 20, 2011 06:25 PM
Can you explain how Venus square the ASC feels to you,Cappy? I assume you are saying that it is THIS placement which is linked to your intimacy issues?------------------ Why have a finely manicured lawn and be crying on the inside? He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city Proverbs IP: Logged |
aquavenus Knowflake Posts: 33 From: UK Registered: Mar 2011
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posted April 20, 2011 06:32 PM
I've been called the "ice princess" but I don't think I intentionally try to act cold :-| Guys say I come across snobby and unattainable, could be my venus square saturn. I'm too self involved, like today some hot dude kept looking my way but I turned my neck around to stare at the trees on the other side! Thats my MO. Then I wonder why I can't meet anyone nice. Everyones got their own version of what beauty is, I've been told I'm attractive/glam blah blah but then I've been single for years! I've NEVER been hit on in a club LOL if I'm so hot, how does that never happen? ha! I don't let people get too close to me, I'll just up and leave whenever because I love my space. I can go for days avoiding calls. I find myself attracted to guys who are emotionally unavailable :-/ like guys with lots of aqua and sag! I've dated Taurus and Scorpio before but eh, I like the weird guys better. I'm 26 and I'm a virgin! Many people have talked behind my back about me sleeping with x..y..z, really creative rumors about my sex life lol don't even know why I'm a virgin, I've got a venus conjunct mars! As I said, too self involved hahahaha but then me and my friend had this convo about dating a pornstar and I said I would do it if we were in love! I shock people with my contradictions, I guess shocking and going for something eccentric is a Venus Aqua trait? I love to throw curveballs. Just when people think they have me categorized into something, I'll say something absurd and have them go WTF! I've got a question, do you have to be friends with someone first before you think of a romantic possibility? Like if I'm attracted to some odd ball, I'll try to be his friend first, see how he is as a friend and then decide if I want to pursue it. Venus makes the most aspects in my natal chart though, some nice and some evil! I've noticed one thing, with my Aqua Venus I can analyze the relationship from outside, helps me keep a stable practical head when things get too dramatic, mostly its me creating drama, I'm a Gem Rising. IP: Logged |
starfox Moderator Posts: 882 From: London England Registered: Aug 2010
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posted April 20, 2011 06:50 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: I astral project. Takes seconds
Then I will seek for you in my dreams tonight.. Actually I really will do this, it could be such an interesting experiment...You never know! I will just let dreaming happen and if you astrally project my way, then if you see me maybe you can do or say something reasonably obscure or some kind of a sign..? like hmm I don't know.. if I suggest anything now it sets it up in my subconscious mind so.. I'll leave it up to you. That would be so cool!
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 38461 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 20, 2011 06:55 PM
Yes,Darling Call me anything,just not late for dinner ------------------ Why have a finely manicured lawn and be crying on the inside? He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city Proverbs IP: Logged |
starfox Moderator Posts: 882 From: London England Registered: Aug 2010
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posted April 20, 2011 07:03 PM
quote: Originally posted by aquavenus: I've been called the "ice princess" but I don't think I intentionally try to act cold :-| Guys say I come across snobby and unattainable, could be my venus square saturn. I'm too self involved, like today some hot dude kept looking my way but I turned my neck around to stare at the trees on the other side! Thats my MO. Then I wonder why I can't meet anyone nice. Everyones got their own version of what beauty is, I've been told I'm attractive/glam blah blah but then I've been single for years! I've NEVER been hit on in a club LOL if I'm so hot, how does that never happen? ha! I don't let people get too close to me, I'll just up and leave whenever because I love my space. I can go for days avoiding calls. I find myself attracted to guys who are emotionally unavailable :-/ like guys with lots of aqua and sag! I've dated Taurus and Scorpio before but eh, I like the weird guys better. I'm 26 and I'm a virgin! Many people have talked behind my back about me sleeping with x..y..z, really creative rumors about my sex life lol don't even know why I'm a virgin, I've got a venus conjunct mars! As I said, too self involved hahahaha but then me and my friend had this convo about dating a pornstar and I said I would do it if we were in love! I shock people with my contradictions, I guess shocking and going for something eccentric is a Venus Aqua trait? I love to throw curveballs. Just when people think they have me categorized into something, I'll say something absurd and have them go WTF! I've got a question, do you have to be friends with someone first before you think of a romantic possibility? Like if I'm attracted to some odd ball, I'll try to be his friend first, see how he is as a friend and then decide if I want to pursue it. Venus makes the most aspects in my natal chart though, some nice and some evil! I've noticed one thing, with my Aqua Venus I can analyze the relationship from outside, helps me keep a stable practical head when things get too dramatic, mostly its me creating drama, I'm a Gem Rising.
You're probably not a club person? I don't like the 'club' scene and when I was in my 20's I stayed well away from it, it seemed shallow and just a meat-market.(and the music was atrocious dance stuff heh.. not my thing at all) If you are 26 and a virgin it is unusual in these times, but it is also a good thing! You haven't thrown yourself to just any guy who happened to be around, be proud.. "but I turned my neck around to stare at the trees on the other side! Thats my MO. Then I wonder why I can't meet anyone nice." Yeah I get you there..developing the ability to not look the other way when guys are checking you out and being aware of what you are doing at that time is a big step to growth. I always have to be friends first with a possible love, I can't just jump in at the deep end, I like to develop things slowly..get to know them, have some laughs and chats before anything heavy begins. IP: Logged |
starfox Moderator Posts: 882 From: London England Registered: Aug 2010
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posted April 20, 2011 07:07 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: Yes,Darling Call me anything,just not late for dinner
Heh... OK, Dinner it is then. Something food related in my dreams? IP: Logged |
cappy1277 Moderator Posts: 1294 From: philadelphia,pa Registered: Jul 2009
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posted April 20, 2011 07:25 PM
Distrustful of peoples motivations...like compliments, etc. I underestimate myself too much sometimes. its very difficult to express myself sometimes...like its almost like a mechanical shut down. I can literally feel it like that.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 38461 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 20, 2011 07:33 PM
quote: Originally posted by starfox: Heh...OK, Dinner it is then. Something food related in my dreams?
Leave the food particulars to me,Darling --Moon in Cancer ------------------ Why have a finely manicured lawn and be crying on the inside? He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city Proverbs IP: Logged |
starfox Moderator Posts: 882 From: London England Registered: Aug 2010
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posted April 21, 2011 05:26 AM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: Leave the food particulars to me,Darling --Moon in Cancer
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starfox Moderator Posts: 882 From: London England Registered: Aug 2010
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posted April 21, 2011 05:27 AM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: Leave the food particulars to me,Darling --Moon in Cancer
It just gets better! My Moon in Taurus Loves good food IP: Logged |
littlecloud Moderator Posts: 1553 From: Registered: Nov 2010
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posted April 21, 2011 08:17 AM
So what's a Venus in Aqua in the 8th house like? It's seems like such a paradox lol..IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 38461 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted April 21, 2011 08:27 AM
quote: Originally posted by starfox: It just gets better! My Moon in Taurus Loves good food
I AM honing my flying skills--for real ------------------ Why have a finely manicured lawn and be crying on the inside? He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city Proverbs IP: Logged |
amowls** Knowflake Posts: 1935 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted April 21, 2011 11:01 AM
My best friend has Venus in Aquarius (Cap Sun). She's the type to not like anyone back if they like her. She's also the type of f*** up a perfectly great relationship for no reason. She has Moon square Saturn and Uranus though, so that doesn't do her any favors. She's very affectionate but tends to treat the people closest to her like crap.My ex had Venus in Aqua (Pisces Sun)... which was cool because I am an Aqua Sun with a Pisces Venus I hate him, now. He was a total jerk. Very passionate though, and dramatic... which was fun for me until I got bored with it. He has Venus at the apex of a t-square with Pluto and Mars. He was super jealous and controlling. IP: Logged |
bluegreyeyes Knowflake Posts: 155 From: NC Registered: May 2009
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posted April 21, 2011 12:38 PM
quote: Originally posted by aquavenus: I've been called the "ice princess" but I don't think I intentionally try to act cold :-| Guys say I come across snobby and unattainable, could be my venus square saturn. I'm too self involved, like today some hot dude kept looking my way but I turned my neck around to stare at the trees on the other side! Thats my MO. Then I wonder why I can't meet anyone nice. Everyones got their own version of what beauty is, I've been told I'm attractive/glam blah blah but then I've been single for years! I've NEVER been hit on in a club LOL if I'm so hot, how does that never happen? ha! I don't let people get too close to me, I'll just up and leave whenever because I love my space. I can go for days avoiding calls. I find myself attracted to guys who are emotionally unavailable :-/ like guys with lots of aqua and sag! I've dated Taurus and Scorpio before but eh, I like the weird guys better. I'm 26 and I'm a virgin! Many people have talked behind my back about me sleeping with x..y..z, really creative rumors about my sex life lol don't even know why I'm a virgin, I've got a venus conjunct mars! As I said, too self involved hahahaha but then me and my friend had this convo about dating a pornstar and I said I would do it if we were in love! I shock people with my contradictions, I guess shocking and going for something eccentric is a Venus Aqua trait? I love to throw curveballs. Just when people think they have me categorized into something, I'll say something absurd and have them go WTF! I've got a question, do you have to be friends with someone first before you think of a romantic possibility? Like if I'm attracted to some odd ball, I'll try to be his friend first, see how he is as a friend and then decide if I want to pursue it. Venus makes the most aspects in my natal chart though, some nice and some evil! I've noticed one thing, with my Aqua Venus I can analyze the relationship from outside, helps me keep a stable practical head when things get too dramatic, mostly its me creating drama, I'm a Gem Rising.
Wow, this could be written about me. Without the virgin part, LOL.
I have venus in aquarius in 12th. My girlfriends blame my eternal single status on the fact that I'm too attractive that it intimidates men. I'm very conscious of people looking at me (whether b/c of how I look or my trendy outfits!) and I get very uncomfortable being "stared at" - which makes me hate clubs and I put up a very obvious wall. I also have a wicked habit of being extremely aloof, but I think it's more because I am very shy and absolutely hate attention. I can be super chatty and social in pubs or sports bars where the attention is on a game rather than checking people out, and where it's a more "friendly" atmosphere! I feel exactly like you - I go for really distant men because I need tons of space myself. I like to disappear for days, so I can't have someone that is really needy or possessive. For an aqua sun, I'm not a big fan of all the new technology that allows for constant communication - cell phones, texting, email - make it so hard for me to hide! I find that I do best in friendship-romance relationships, although they're hard to cultivate after HS/college. I usually need to trust someone on a platonic level before allowing it to escalate to a romantic/sexual relationship. I am very worried that my Venus in Aqua is the reason for me being single. At 28, I am very anxious to settle down in a relationship and look towards marriage & children, but this self-imposed wall and distance make it so hard to let anyone in. I know what you're going though
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cappy1277 Moderator Posts: 1294 From: philadelphia,pa Registered: Jul 2009
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posted April 21, 2011 12:55 PM
Self imposed absences...sounds like me. I have a tendency to go into hiding when things get emotionally heavy. Not very good for relationships. My SO has venus aquarius trine pluto, while he understands, he's emotionally heavy at times. I get the same thing with people being wildly imaginitive with my personal life. Making me out to be someone I'm not. I guess we're too mysterious & aloof for people that all they have is their imagination. IP: Logged |
starfox Moderator Posts: 882 From: London England Registered: Aug 2010
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posted April 21, 2011 02:35 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: I AM honing my flying skills--for real
I am waiting... IP: Logged |
Stawr Moderator Posts: 2099 From: N. America Registered: Nov 2010
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posted April 21, 2011 03:15 PM
quote: Originally posted by aquavenus: I've been called the "ice princess" but I don't think I intentionally try to act cold :-| Guys say I come across snobby and unattainable, could be my venus square saturn. I'm too self involved, like today some hot dude kept looking my way but I turned my neck around to stare at the trees on the other side! Thats my MO. Then I wonder why I can't meet anyone nice. Everyones got their own version of what beauty is, I've been told I'm attractive/glam blah blah but then I've been single for years! I've NEVER been hit on in a club LOL if I'm so hot, how does that never happen? ha! I don't let people get too close to me, I'll just up and leave whenever because I love my space. I can go for days avoiding calls. I find myself attracted to guys who are emotionally unavailable :-/ like guys with lots of aqua and sag! I've dated Taurus and Scorpio before but eh, I like the weird guys better. I'm 26 and I'm a virgin! Many people have talked behind my back about me sleeping with x..y..z, really creative rumors about my sex life lol don't even know why I'm a virgin, I've got a venus conjunct mars! As I said, too self involved hahahaha but then me and my friend had this convo about dating a pornstar and I said I would do it if we were in love! I shock people with my contradictions, I guess shocking and going for something eccentric is a Venus Aqua trait? I love to throw curveballs. Just when people think they have me categorized into something, I'll say something absurd and have them go WTF! I've got a question, do you have to be friends with someone first before you think of a romantic possibility? Like if I'm attracted to some odd ball, I'll try to be his friend first, see how he is as a friend and then decide if I want to pursue it. Venus makes the most aspects in my natal chart though, some nice and some evil! I've noticed one thing, with my Aqua Venus I can analyze the relationship from outside, helps me keep a stable practical head when things get too dramatic, mostly its me creating drama, I'm a Gem Rising.
That's what I'm trying to figure out. Ever since I got out of a bad relationship. I've been trying to do the lets be friends first thing, or at least get to know the person. Well guys around my age that I know, can't really do that. Even some of the older ones that are in their late 20s. Now that I'm older I don't like to rush commitments. And compared to many I don't rush sex, but I have rushed relationships/committing in the past though. I'm older and wiser now, and don't want to do that anymore. For something very long term I think having an element of friendship would be good. Cause friends have fun together and get each other. But how do you just be friends first when there is an attraction? Do you pretend you don't think of them like that, til you know them better? lol Or I would at least like to meet more dudes that also have my motto of getting to know the person first....no matter how bad you want to jump their bones. lol I've never had a one night stand ever in my life. I just don't see how anything good can come from it. I'm a Gem rising too. And my Aqua is in Mars. IP: Logged |
aquavenus Knowflake Posts: 33 From: UK Registered: Mar 2011
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posted April 30, 2011 08:24 AM
quote: Originally posted by starfox: You're probably not a club person? I don't like the 'club' scene and when I was in my 20's I stayed well away from it, it seemed shallow and just a meat-market.(and the music was atrocious dance stuff heh.. not my thing at all) .
"Meat Market" exactly! Why should some random perv have the right to grind up against me and the lows of stupidity, I've to pay my hard earned money to make that happen! IP: Logged |