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Topic: venus in aquarius folk
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starfox Moderator Posts: 882 From: London England Registered: Aug 2010
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posted May 21, 2011 06:25 PM
Do we get a deservedly bad name..?We're considered too remote for a relationship or possibly bisexual/gay. Or people politely say "tricky placement".. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 2239 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted May 21, 2011 06:27 PM
The few Aqua Venuses I've known are so detached, no warmth, no affection whatsoever. They ARE friendly though, and quite magnetic, but seem, and I do say SEEM very cold.I have a Libra Venus but I don't think I could deal with an Aqua Venus in a relationship.. IP: Logged |
amowls** Knowflake Posts: 1935 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted May 21, 2011 06:29 PM
I only know 2 people with Venus in Aqua. They're both horrible in relationships. One is my ex boyfriend who was a total d*ck, and the only ex of mine that I actively dislike. The other is an old best friend who I've observed to be absolutely impossible in relationships (like getting drunk and breaking up with someone and then begging to take them back, or being obsessed with someone and immediately disliking them once they return the attraction). They're horrible in different ways, though, so it makes me think it's not just Venus in Aqua.2 is also not a good sample lol. ETA: I've never found either of them to be cold. Both were openly affectionate. IP: Logged |
starfox Moderator Posts: 882 From: London England Registered: Aug 2010
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posted May 21, 2011 06:37 PM
"O wad some power the giftie gie us, to see oursels as others see us."IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 2239 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted May 21, 2011 06:40 PM
Hmm. Well they are not externally cold, they can seem affectionate but on the inside, it's like they put up a barrier or something, so that you can't reach them truly.But that's just my experience. IP: Logged |
JohnFKennedy Knowflake Posts: 561 From: US Registered: Aug 2009
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posted May 21, 2011 06:51 PM
I know one Venus in Aquarius - I don't know if it was this placement that caused him to be so.. stoicly obnoxious or if it was the fact he had 5+ planets in Capricorn (including Sun and Mercury conjunct Saturn in Capricorn) - my Moon was conjunct his Venus and NN though, which was probably the only warm, light-hearted saving grace. I don't like this Venus in a man, I'm much more partial to it being in Sagittarius or Libra. This is coming from someone with a Moon in Aquarius, too. IP: Logged |
Lonake Moderator Posts: 8867 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 22, 2011 03:23 AM
No I don't think it's deserved really..I'm getting to know this Venus in Aqua man and he's told me he loves me 10 times in the past wk and I've never told him that once. And this guy has Sun Venus Mercury AND Mars in Aqua. They like feeling in a safe place before they'll let their more affectionate colors show. It helps if they can tell that you're not psycho cos they don't want to get entangled in something weird. If they sense you'll latch on in a bad way or something of that nature they generally won't show much to you. I've known other Venus Aqua men, they're all sensitive somewhere in there, no they don't seem incredibly vulnerable but it's there. Like I said they won't open up to someone who is going to make the matter complicated. All the ones I've dated do not like to be in any kind of crazy mess and they work to avoid any avalanche or potential drama. They like to observe drama every so often but they definitely don't want to be a part of it. Venus Aqua women I've known, some friends some family, have this enviable sort of openness and are really attractive, but can't give a male perspective here. The ones I've known always have admirers. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 38463 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted May 22, 2011 09:35 AM
You know,I thought Venus in Aqua LIKES strange people,Lonake. Is that true lol------------------
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NeptuneIllusion Knowflake Posts: 81 From: Mendocino County, CA Registered: Jun 2009
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posted May 22, 2011 10:48 PM
I LOVE Venus in Aqua people. They are so friendly and generally awesome.However, a lot of them do seem to have a hard time with relationships.. at least in my experience. They can be too detached and seem to cringe at the thought of being tied down to anyone at all. One of my friends with this placement has had SO many relationships, none of which lasted over a few months. The current girl he is dating he has been with the longest (like six months) and it seems to be going really well. Which gives me hope for him since he is such a great guy. They make the most exciting friends- always having some exciting idea or adventure to undertake. They seem to be good at breaking hearts, though. :/ I don't usually use Astrology to decide who to date; however, when I see someone has Venus in Aquarius it seems to be a warning sign to me that the person may have a hard time settling down. Not trying to generalize- that is just my experience. IP: Logged |
Venus Moderator Posts: 1608 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted May 23, 2011 03:37 AM
i believe the best thing for Venus aqua people is for them to understand their placement, some Venus aquas i know think there is something wrong with them because they cant commit to someone and/or always find some tiny thing they dont like just to brake it off! the truth is they are free spirits very loving, active, and social. if they read a little bit of astrology and understood their placement it would make things alot easier and they might be able to work on it! my best friend has an aqua venus, cap sun, aqua rising, sag. moon i love that girl she's my rock! IP: Logged |
starfox Moderator Posts: 882 From: London England Registered: Aug 2010
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posted May 23, 2011 05:04 AM
I personally have a hard time with relationships,I love to be with someone, but when I'm with them I think about being alone and vice versa.its a quandary. IP: Logged |
SpooL Knowflake Posts: 452 From: Toronto/Ottawa,Canada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 23, 2011 06:40 AM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: You know,I thought Venus in Aqua LIKES strange people,Lonake. Is that true lol
Maybe were both strange Geminis, I was about to think the same thing. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 38463 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted May 23, 2011 09:31 AM
quote: Originally posted by starfox: I personally have a hard time with relationships,I love to be with someone, but when I'm with them I think about being alone and vice versa.its a quandary.
Very interesting Starfox.Tell me your ruler of the 7th house and what house it is in? ------------------
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 38463 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted May 23, 2011 09:31 AM
quote: Originally posted by SpooL: Maybe were both strange Geminis, I was about to think the same thing.
Great minds think alike ------------------
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 38463 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted May 23, 2011 09:57 AM
Dear Starfox I am feeling your situation is another placement not just the Venus in Aqua. Does Uranus aspect your Venus?------------------
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Still_Hopeful Knowflake Posts: 507 From: USA Registered: Aug 2009
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posted May 23, 2011 11:15 AM
well.. venus and sun in aqua here. yes, it is true I find hard to experess my affection toward men. Am I cold? No Am I detached? yes What I find very strange. All of my relashionships break down so fast and unexpected. But I can hold a long term rel. Example: my marrige lasted 11 years (I got married young) but it did break down so fast. My second rel. was 2 years - ended fast as well. What is strange I intitiated a break up in first place. It was strange. One day I woke up and I knew I should go. It is time to go. My time is up. Did I regret later? you bet. But it was too late. I simply could not come back to the same position. I got to move forward. Did I love these men? You bet. Was it hard... you bet. Did I cry? Yes... when nobody saw me. I personally like and do not like this placement. It gives you a sober head... but inhibits you in expressing ur emotions. IP: Logged |
DepTaurus Knowflake Posts: 1986 From: canada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 23, 2011 05:24 PM
actually my bf has this placemet and shes so cool and i dont think they dont have any warth because she is able to share her feelings whether she is angry or not feeling so great. althought she does have a capricorn sun and taurus moon.i get along great with most venus in aquarius IP: Logged |
starfox Moderator Posts: 882 From: London England Registered: Aug 2010
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posted May 23, 2011 06:02 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: Very interesting Starfox.Tell me your ruler of the 7th house and what house it is in?
Leo is my 7th house Ami and also Uranus in 7th too. IP: Logged |
starfox Moderator Posts: 882 From: London England Registered: Aug 2010
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posted May 23, 2011 06:06 PM
quote: Originally posted by DepTaurus: althought she does have a capricorn sun and taurus moon.
HA! same as me IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 38463 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted May 23, 2011 06:07 PM
Which house is your Sun in Starfox? This will help tell me what you need in a relationship. Also, which house cusp has Uranus on it ------------------ "Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personality Jung He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city Proverbs
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starfox Moderator Posts: 882 From: London England Registered: Aug 2010
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posted May 23, 2011 06:41 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: Which house is your Sun in Starfox? This will help tell me what you need in a relationship. Also, which house cusp has Uranus on it
Sun in XI "which house cusp has Uranus on it" sorry but I don't quite know IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 38463 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted May 23, 2011 06:43 PM
Ok Starfox You need a partner who is a friend first.This is before anything else. Ok--on your chart --which house has Aquarius on the cusp--I meant lol------------------
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starfox Moderator Posts: 882 From: London England Registered: Aug 2010
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posted May 23, 2011 06:52 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: Ok Starfox You need a partner who is a friend first.This is before anything else. Ok--on your chart --which house has Aquarius on the cusp--I meant lol
Ami, I've been sooo s.l.o.w.l.y. getting to know this new lady,we write everyday and we have good conversation, its so true I always like to be friends first lovers later. After the breakup of my last one.. I'm just kicking back and not rushing in to get my heart torn apart again.I think my Aquarius is first house cusp.
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 38463 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted May 23, 2011 06:57 PM
Ok that makes sense Starfox The 1st to the 7th means your life is dedicated to your partner. You put your own needs beneath hers. Your biggest life passion is to find your partner ------------------
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starfox Moderator Posts: 882 From: London England Registered: Aug 2010
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posted May 23, 2011 07:11 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: Ok that makes sense Starfox The 1st to the 7th means your life is dedicated to your partner. You put your own needs beneath hers. Your biggest life passion is to find your partner
Yes so very true, lately though I've felt its kind of pointless to do this from bitter experience. I put my own needs beneath hers & I end up with a trampled heart. Maybe I just haven't met the right woman yet? IP: Logged |