posted September 04, 2011 10:40 AM            

Or if were always criticizing Cancers to be less over-emotional and sensitive, wouldn't that turn them into an unfeeling and calculating Capricorn? vice-versa.

Its with these flaws that makes each sign who they are! These flaws can even be seen from a positive standpoint if you really think about it. If Capricorn wasn't unfeeling and calculating, he/she wouldn't be so resourceful, cautious, very disciplined, reserved and cool under pressure.

Same goes for every other sign with their opposite sign as well, so what do you think?

Thanks for Answering...

posted September 04, 2011 01:43 PM            

It also brings life to nature's conflicts. Every blade of grass that dies, every cloud that forms, or asteroid that smashes, does so in its own season and with the same depth as anything with an astrological chart. Since I was young I used to stare at trees and wonder if their charts effected their relationships.

posted September 04, 2011 02:20 PM            

My husband is a libra and yes he take his damn time to make decisions but when he makes up his mind about something you better believe that his choice is based on solid research and hence that he made the right choice. Hence I like this about him and as result trust his judgement. His judgement is poor when it comes to starting projects however. He is over ambitious and then starts too many projects at once and as result ends up having a bunch of pending projects which I hate that. He is changing this aspect about himself because he is realizing is really hurting the relationship.

All signs have their defects the question is what defects are a good fit for you and what are not. For example, if you are high maintenance you shouldn't be with someone who needs his space a lot but then again been with someone who needs his space a lot will teach high maintenance person to respect boundaries . Its all perception.

....and my god I have met a lot of Capricorns and three of them are in my nuclear family and they are not unfeeling. My impression of Capricorns is that they take every relationship in their life very seriously and take good care of it. They approach everything with a sense of responsibility and tend to be polite and friendly towards everyone. They will be there when others aren't. They will never make you feel outcasted or play into indirect aggression and I think this is because they understand Karma well and know that you never know when you might need this person and so they are nice to everyone. Capricorns can however be over perfectionist and workaholics if a bit unbalanced.

posted September 04, 2011 10:35 PM            

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Shouldn't we just accept every sun sign with their terrible flaws?

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IMO - No!

Every person of every sun sign has a chart - and it's more so the chart as a whole that will reveal potential flaws as well as positive traits and talents.

It is not only Sun Sign based.

Also - most human flaws can be bettered.
Depending on how much they affect the person and those around them negatively - I think they are better of trying to 'curb' the flawed behaviour.
Any aspect can manifest to a positive or negative vibration.

A man with Mars opposite Pluto would have a LOT of energy to spare... He could use it to murder someone or become a marathon runner or something else.

He could have anger management problems - In that case I think he should get help... Not be accepted because "oh well he has a Mars/Pluto opp -- so why don't we all just put up with his issues?"

posted September 05, 2011 03:56 AM            

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Originally posted by Xiiro:
The universe is both cold and calculating as well as dramatic and gushing. I love that the human psyche manifest the zodiac as a characacher. It reminds me that we are still a growing species and deeper work is required.

It also brings life to nature's conflicts. Every blade of grass that dies, every cloud that forms, or asteroid that smashes, does so in its own season and with the same depth as anything with an astrological chart. Since I was young I used to stare at trees and wonder if their charts effected their relationships.

How vast of an experience would that be? To be an ancient Aquarian redwood, growing trunk to trunk with a Cancer redwood. Hundreds and hundreds of years of lessons. Would you welcome a forest fire?

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very nice post

since we understand astrology (more like in the process of understanding astrology) we are more capable of appreciating the diversity of human temperaments and perhaps become less judgmental and more accepting..