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scrappydog
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posted November 09, 2011 09:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for scrappydog     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Enough talk about what sign ur mars is in, its much deeper than that. What would be some major ASPECTS for this type of thing, to enjoy giving Or enjoy recieving?

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Atlantis18
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posted November 09, 2011 09:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Atlantis18     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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mintgirl123
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posted November 09, 2011 10:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mintgirl123     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
How rough are you talking? lol
I like sex to be alittle more um animalistic (though making love is great too)

I have 8th house pluto in scorp conjunct eros 1 degree
sun sextile pluto 1 degree
sun conjunct mars (loose orb)
aries rising
uranus exact conjunct MC

I'm quite different behind closed doors lol! Though I got moon conjunct venus in libra too, so I can be soft too.

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posted November 09, 2011 10:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lindisfarne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My mars in cancer opposes my Neptune/Uranus in Capricorn

My mars in cancer squares my jupiter in libra

I don't know why I love being submissive and enjoy being dominated

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posted November 09, 2011 10:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Mars in Cancer seems like it would like to be more submissive. I think domination would be Pluto.

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posted November 09, 2011 10:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for northernlad     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
Mars in Cancer seems like it would like to be more submissive. I think domination would be Pluto.


That would make sense, but I have a Mars in Cancer and I can go both ways. Sometimes I'm in the mood to be more submissive and other times I'm in the mood to take the bull by the horns (I suppose if I were with a Taurus... ) Perhaps it's because I have Mars trine Pluto?

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posted November 09, 2011 10:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for tuxedoMask     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by mintgirl123:
How rough are you talking? lol

yeah, seriously...
i know someone that drew the line at it getting to the point of drawing blood..
people have different limits.

..jus sayin

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posted November 09, 2011 10:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for NativelyJoan     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Heavy Mars and Pluto aspects. Mars enjoys a good fight and Pluto rules taboos and transformations. I'm not rough but I'm definitely assertive. I'm a Libra Sun and I don't like anything rough, especially not intimacy. Here are a few of my placements. These pretty much account for my aggressive tendencies.

Mars in Aries
Mars in the 1st
Sun opposite Mars
Mars square Uranus
Mars square Saturn
Mars Quintile Pluto
Pluto in the 8th

Here's a description of Mars square Uranus from astro.com, It's an abbreviated description by John Townley from his astrology book. I related strongly to this description. (Uranus rules my chart)

"You usually try to cover up your natural impatience, but when the dam breaks, it releases a flood of physical passion that takes a lover by storm. There is a very hard inner core to your style of loving. Although it seems to be very tender, underneath it has a biting, pungent quality. You show a certain meticulousness in lovemaking, such that not a single possibility is missed in a nights play."

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posted November 09, 2011 11:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for tuxedoMask     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by NativelyJoan:
Heavy Mars and Pluto aspects. Mars enjoys a good fight and Pluto rules taboos and transformations. I'm not rough but I'm definitely assertive. I'm a Libra Sun and I don't like anything rough, especially not intimacy. Here are a few of my placements. These pretty much account for my aggressive tendencies.

Mars in Aries
Mars in the 1st
Sun opposite Mars
Mars square Uranus
Mars square Saturn
Mars Quintile Pluto
Pluto in the 8th

Here's a description of Mars square Uranus from astro.com, It's an abbreviated description by John Townley from his astrology book. I related strongly to this description. (Uranus rules my chart)

"You usually try to cover up your natural impatience, but when the dam breaks, it releases a flood of physical passion that takes a lover by storm. There is a very hard inner core to your style of loving. Although it seems to be very tender, underneath it has a biting, pungent quality. You show a certain meticulousness in lovemaking, such that not a single possibility is missed in a nights play."


it's odd because i think every time i've seen mars aspecting uranus in a chart, i see it making an aspect as well to saturn. read up on the saturn one and how there are looooooots of inhibitions and things of that sort trailing back to the father and what they represent as an authoritative figure disapprovingly watching. don't know if you have any of the 'fears' that placement hints at but i've found lots of people to inhibit their sexual expression because of it.

there's some kind of thing where they look at things being of nature as even something unnatural like plants being indoors or something.. i've never understood that.

it's almost as if saying humans and the things humans do weren't a part of nature and i think we very much are..

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posted November 09, 2011 11:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lindisfarne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by tuxedoMask:
yeah, seriously...
i know someone that drew the line at it getting to the point of drawing blood..
people have different limits.

..jus sayin


a little too rough.......
not gonna lie sometimes i get a little too curious that I feel like biting someone off, literally. it's so weird.

op are you talking about sadism??

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posted November 09, 2011 11:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for NativelyJoan     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by tuxedoMask:
it's odd because i think every time i've seen mars aspecting uranus in a chart, i see it making an aspect as well to saturn. read up on the saturn one and how there are looooooots of inhibitions and things of that sort trailing back to the father and what they represent as an authoritative figure disapprovingly watching. don't know if you have any of the 'fears' that placement hints at but i've found lots of people to inhibit their sexual expression because of it.

there's some kind of thing where they look at things being of nature as even something unnatural like plants being indoors or something.. i've never understood that.

it's almost as if saying humans and the things humans do weren't a part of nature and i think we very much are..


I know what you mean and I think those of us who have Saturn and Uranus in Sagittarius (1985 - 1989) deal with aspects that effect both simultaneously.

I have issues with authority but that actually has to do with my Sun squaring Saturn. I also have Saturn in the 10th. I had an overbearing, controlling dominant Saturn father, who was absent most of my childhood. My father was restrictive and my mother was expressive and open. This environment mirrored what I was dealing with personality wise also.

With Mars squaring both Saturn and Uranus, it's like a balancing act between two extremes. Saturn Restricts and Uranus breaks apart. As a result of having them both square my Mars I'm able to walk the line evenly between the two. However Uranus is dominant in my chart, and my most aspected planet. I'm more in touch with Uranus but don't worry I still feel the effects of my Saturn aspects just not as powerfully as Uranus. When I was younger I'd swing between being completely sexually uninhibited to sexually inhibited. It was crazy, and as I've grown I've learned how to find a balance between the two.

Any issues I have with sexuality have more to do with past abuse then anything else. Which I'm still learning how to find peace with today. Saturn doesn't restrict me anymore than Uranus un-inhibits me. I'm a free spirit at my core and even though Saturn has tried to tie me down, Uranus always manages to set me free. It's a balance.

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BelligerentPygmy
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posted November 10, 2011 01:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for BelligerentPygmy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Uh...I have :

Mars in Cancer, 6th house
Mars square Jupiter
Mars square Saturn
Mars square Pluto
Uranus conjunct MC

Pretty much all the aspects named off in this thread. And I'm not into ANY of this type of s**t...like, at all.

Just wanted to say that before people start assuming everyone with those particular placements, is into that stuff. Not true.

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NickiG
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posted November 10, 2011 02:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for NickiG     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
mars conjunct pluto in scorpio sextile venus and saturn in the 8th in cap.....it depends on what day of the week it is, LOL

some days i like it rough (and even painful) and other days i like it slow with lots of snuggling

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posted November 10, 2011 02:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for downtomars     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am not into full on BDSM but I find that I am more of a passive partner when it comes to rough sex – I like the man to be The Man, take control and be the aggressor.

I dated a man who had Mars in Cancer conjunct his Saturn and he was more of a passive partner as well (Sun in Taurus too, so…) and it didn’t work out too well for us sexually. Sensually, it worked quite well but sexually . He had other stuff going on too <fetishes> that I wasn't into...

I did learn from that experience that I need a complimentary type in the bedroom. It was something I didn't think about until I didn't have it...

I have Mars in Gemini
Mars in 5th house
Mars trine Moon
Mars trine Pluto
Mars opp Neptune
Mars Biquintile Uranus
Mars Biquintile AC

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posted November 10, 2011 04:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Voix_de_la_Mer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by tuxedoMask:
yeah, seriously...
i know someone that drew the line at it getting to the point of drawing blood..
people have different limits.

..jus sayin


Haha, my last sexual partner left bleeding, bruised, and barely walking.

I think it's as much to do with who you are with though, than your personal preferences - some people bring it outta ya, some don't.
As for aspects ... Pluto conjunct ascendant maybe? I dunno.

EDIT: Oh, and I'm female - thank goodness!!!

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