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Topic: Pisces People.. Who do u go to for advice?
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Lioness
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posted December 08, 2011 01:04 AM
  
Since Pisces are usually the go to person when other signs need advice or have a problem, who does a Pisces go to??
Tonight he called me, he said
hey Im kind of embarrassed but I need someone to talk to, IDK what to do... He said I havent told anyone! Im only going to tell you.
I said talk to me, tell me whats going on So he told me his situation , I gave him so advice... I told him he shouldnt be embarrassed.
Afterwards He thanked me for listening...
Then we hung up... I guess that shows he trusts me..
Pisces.. Who/ how do you determine who to go to when you need someone to talk to?
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Tofu addict
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posted December 08, 2011 03:13 AM
Nice question, i noticed that i like talking to Aquarians, they seldon bat an eye lid when you come with weird stuff, and are humourous as well, they can relativate and put things in a bigger context. IP: Logged |
Tofu addict
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posted December 08, 2011 03:13 AM
Nice question, i noticed that i like talking to Aquarians, they seldon bat an eye lid when you come with weird stuff, and are humourous as well, they can relativate and put things in a bigger context. ------------------
Be reasonable, talk to your guardian angel IP: Logged |
anongrl10
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posted December 08, 2011 03:53 AM
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Originally posted by Lioness:
I guess that shows he trusts me..
Not necessarily.
He might just trust the head you carry on your shoulders, not YOU as a person.
Or, he might just feel comfortable enough to ask your advice/opinion.
"Trust" is a loftier word because it runs deeper.
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anongrl10
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posted December 08, 2011 03:55 AM
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Originally posted by Tofu addict:
Nice question, i noticed that i like talking to Aquarians, they seldon bat an eye lid when you come with weird stuff, and are humourous as well, they can relativate and put things in a bigger context.
True 
LOL, I'm an Aqua rising. You can tell me anything I rarely get shocked or surprised.
People usually confide in me.
Humor is a good way to make people feel at ease.
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anongrl10
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posted December 08, 2011 03:56 AM
Tofu addict,I love your quote!  quote:
Be reasonable, talk to your guardian angel.
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jupitersgirl
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posted December 08, 2011 04:00 AM
Pisceans do not want to be judged or criticized when they open up about something. Maybe he felt that you wouldn't judge him.IP: Logged |
MertSerimer
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posted December 08, 2011 04:30 AM
I have most of my planets in sagittarus but asc and moon is in pisces. I go within myself, look for an answer in solutide...
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Betty Boop
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posted December 08, 2011 04:34 AM
Pisces can have Mercury in either Aquarius/Pisces or Aries. My theory is that people confide most of all in those who have Mercury in the same element OR those who have it in one of the houses associated with that element. My Merc is Pisces and I usually confide in water Mercuries.. or people with Mercury in a water house (4th/8th or 12th). IP: Logged |
defeat
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posted December 08, 2011 02:53 PM
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I guess that shows he trusts me..
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i knew a piscces, this does not mean he trusts you.
i don't know his chart, your synastry but this guy was very typical pisces the whole i only told you, opning up a bit to you etc. it's just game
they just want to see how far they can push you, how gulable you are, what they can and can't do wiht you, etc.
a large part of it uncounsious, not saying he's intentionally trying to hurt you i'm not saying that's what's going on with this pisces, but him confiding in you is not a SURE inidcator that it's love, trust, etc. IP: Logged |
Cardinal Arbiter
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posted December 08, 2011 03:18 PM
I very very often just work it out myself. However, I am a reflection of my upbringing and thus surrounding reality. I'm a good detective, I observe.It is in a Pisces interest to help others, so that they may learn how to help themselves. Not to sound capitalistic. I don't consider myself seperate from those I help. When I feel really helpless though, I turn to the sea, of course. An outlet from which you are not egotistically recognized. The internet for me. IP: Logged |
Betty Boop
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posted December 08, 2011 07:14 PM
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how far they can push you, how gulable you are, what they can and can't do wiht you
Only the ones with afflicted Aries planets (specially Venus in Aries!)... sometimes the ones who lack earth (immaturity!)... the ones with an afflicted Mars (mainly Mars/Pluto and Mars/Saturn in harsh aspect)... and also the ones with afflicted Scorpio planets. And if you meet any person with Venus square Mars - regardless of sign.. they can also test purely to instigate. It doesn't apply to all Pisces men. And it also depends on age.. The teens-to-early 30s age range in men is always more - abrasive due to higher testosterone levels. I very strongly doubt this guy is testing Lioness' limits.. since he has known her for so many years - and being a Pisces (they are usually intuitive) - he would already have his answers. IP: Logged |
lindisfarne
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posted December 08, 2011 07:54 PM
To drugs and alcohol come on....IP: Logged |
hippichick
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posted December 08, 2011 07:58 PM
Betty BoopI was going to mention about the same thing.. One would have to look to the mental processes of the Fish to find out who they (might) turn to for advice... I have a Merc in Aquarius..and I am always so intruiged what the Aqua has to say. However...being highly Aqua myself, cant say so definately. ~~
Now, when Pisces needs advice, we usually go within...that is our swimming time...since we are "all"the cumulation of all we take from what we have learned, process it and, then move forward~
Personally, I rarely heed "advice" maybe my friggin Aqua side...but I have learned from life that we are our own best teachers~ IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted December 08, 2011 08:30 PM
Hummmm.. You guys got me thinking... I wonder if it was a test..
Why would he want to test me for?? When I asked him what his plan is, what he's gonna do about it... He already knew, he said Im gonna do this and that.. Like this..
But he did say, he liked one of my ideas, and was going to use it...
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Leonine8
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posted December 08, 2011 10:37 PM
Yes, he feels comfortable with you and is just opening up.
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Lioness
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posted December 08, 2011 11:31 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Betty Boop:
Only the ones with afflicted Aries planets (specially Venus in Aries!)... sometimes the ones who lack earth (immaturity!)... the ones with an afflicted Mars (mainly Mars/Pluto and Mars/Saturn in harsh aspect)... and also the ones with afflicted Scorpio planets. And if you meet any person with Venus square Mars - regardless of sign.. they can also test purely to instigate. It doesn't apply to all Pisces men. And it also depends on age.. The teens-to-early 30s age range in men is always more - abrasive due to higher testosterone levels. I very strongly doubt this guy is testing Lioness' limits.. since he has known her for so many years - and being a Pisces (they are usually intuitive) - he would already have his answers.
Yeap he has an afflicted Mars
Mars sq moon
Mars sq Uranus
Mars conjunct Sun (but wide 8 orbs, also out of sign)
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Lioness
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posted December 08, 2011 11:33 PM
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Originally posted by MertSerimer:
I have most of my planets in sagittarus but asc and moon is in pisces. I go within myself, look for an answer in solutide...
SO what would make you go to someone else for their opinion/ advice???
Anytime??? Im thinking he wanted some one to just agree with him.. Yeah your doing the right thing.. IDK I think he wanted encouragement.. (a Leo is a good person to go to for encouragement.. Im just saying ) IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted December 08, 2011 11:35 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Betty Boop:
Pisces can have Mercury in either Aquarius/Pisces or Aries. My theory is that people confide most of all in those who have Mercury in the same element OR those who have it in one of the houses associated with that element. My Merc is Pisces and I usually confide in water Mercuries.. or people with Mercury in a water house (4th/8th or 12th).
Well I have fire Mercury in H6...
But his Merc conjuncts my Asc. Which is probably why he's comfortable talking to me.. IP: Logged |
defeat
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posted December 08, 2011 11:59 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Lioness:
Hummmm.. You guys got me thinking... I wonder if it was a test..
Why would he want to test me for?? When I asked him what his plan is, what he's gonna do about it... He already knew, he said Im gonna do this and that.. Like this..
But he did say, he liked one of my ideas, and was going to use it...
lioness i was just sharing my experience.
my experience is that they don't even need a reason
it's like mental exersize to them
these games and tests are part of their nature
it's an ends to mean not a means to an end. the concept of a pisces (possibly even a water sign)opning up, sharing themselves, saying everything that's going on is a little unimanigable to me. almost makes me laugh....a pisces truely opening up, i just don't think it's possible
it's not that they're hiding anything, it's not that they don't want to, it's just like they can't. idk maybe there's too much underneath, they'll pick the least vulnurable tiny thing share it with you and dress it up to make it seem like it's a bigger part of them then it really is. and then you feel special and it's something like ok mission accomplished. or ok good, i have influence over her, or something like that. but i mean it probably did give him a lot of answers. answers he has now, but wasn't nesssarly even looking for.
ie. how willing are you to help
how will you help, be there, tell him what to do, do the work for him....
how much do u belive him (info that could come in handy in the future) I DON'T KNOW A LOT OF PISCES,
i knew two
and hte one i knew really well.
so yes, this is just based on what i've observed from that person.
i was not taking into account what this guy is like
just sharing MY personal pisces experience!!!!
just wanna make that extra clear!! IP: Logged |
defeat
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posted December 09, 2011 12:07 AM
regarding who they go to for hlep
my guess it starts like in your relationship.they're not going to risk opening up to someone only for the person to be like idk, or laugh, etc he'll probably start small with each person
the more understanding, helpful, and non judjemental you are there more and more they're going show of themselves i think they'd want to make sure that benifit of opening up is going to be far greater than cost.
idk if a there is a sign that is possibly able to make them feel safe and offer what they need, but who ever can, they'd go to that person. IP: Logged |
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