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Topic: Venus Gemini & True Love
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mintgirl123
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posted January 04, 2012 04:52 AM
  
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Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
To me,writing a letter is a Cancer Merc thing,maybeLibra.
Yeah letter is definitely a libra thing. I love to write letters, notes etc.
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lilithpluto
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posted January 04, 2012 07:02 AM
Venus in gemini... I like a smart guy. Intelligence not as in MBA/Phd smart but smart as in wise. I fall in love with the way he think. I like a thinker who can teach me.. but this can very well be my Venus in 9th house. I'm excited by how a person think.  I'm not fickle minded nor commitment phobia... I do go on dates very often, but it is always with light hearted intentions of making friends. If I am not interested, I will make it clear. IP: Logged |
Nightsky29
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posted January 04, 2012 08:49 AM
I have venus in gemini and mercury in gemini I can tell you that I don't like love to be to serious not that i'm going to cheat but it turns me off I perfer someone who keeps me intrigued who has some mystery about them and who is very smart that all turns me onIP: Logged |
Mermaid
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From: From the deep blue seas
Registered: Apr 2011
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posted January 04, 2012 11:23 AM
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Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
To me,writing a letter is a Cancer Merc thing,maybeLibra.
You are right,I express my feelings better by writing letters and poetry.I have a Gemini Asc and Mercury is in Cancer in 1st house. IP: Logged |
CosmicKarma360
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posted January 04, 2012 12:18 PM
I have Venus and Moon in Gem. LOVE me a smart man!  As in subjects like literature, music, art... that sort of stuff. I do enjoy getting love cards, emails and letters from a guy. That thrills me.There's way too much Taurus in my chart for me to ever cheat, but I do have the bad habit of believing that the "grass is greener". I've always got my eye looking around, but I don't act on it. Usually after looking around, I realize just how great the guy I'm with really is, and I don't want to leave! It's just that I always worry that I'll commit with someone, and then the *perfect* person will walk through the door. Now I'm old enough that I see that's kind of silly, though. Definitely, a guy who's into "intellectual" stuff, or enjoys short trips keeps me happy and on my toes. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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Registered: Nov 2011
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posted January 04, 2012 01:15 PM
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Originally posted by Moonfish:
Again, appericate the honesty ^^
maybe I just need to think to myself that whenever he flirts it's just friendly lol.. that's gonna be a toughy.
I like a Leo who has Venus in Gemini, and he doesn't flirt so much as he's friends with a lot of girls. What I've come to conclude about Gemini anything (excluding Mercuries) is they truly believe we're all on equal footing. They're the same as Sagittariuses in their distinction between guy/girl friendships. IP: Logged |
zarea
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posted January 04, 2012 01:33 PM
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Originally posted by ElizabethO:
My boytoy has Gemini Venus. Just dirty text him a lot and he'll keep coming back. I'm being serious.  ... mental stimulation is key. I know plenty of Gemini Venus guys from my birth year and the year ahead who are faithful, stable guys who seek excitement without being a total manslut. Yes - it's possible. You just only hear about the bad seeds on here... It's unfortunate, too. I think Gemini-influenced men are hooooottttttt.
I second the quote above. Venus in Gemini have to be constantly stimulated mentally. My bf is a venus, mars, saturn in Gemini in the 8th house. He's faithful though and I'm saying that only because I've known him for six years now through lots of ups and downs that had nothing to do with cheating. We're in an on and off relationship also. But studying his pattern with me and his pattern with his exes, I can say that he needs lots of mental stimulation, dirty talk is best, loves flirting, sex is very important to him (8th house energy) but perhaps because of saturn he will exit the relationship formally when he becomes interested in someone else or if he starts getting bored. He has problems with comittment but can be extremely committed at the same time (he has aquarius moon, but sun in aries in 7th house so he's always in a relationship one way or another) He's just serially monogamous. Again, I think saturn prevents him from cheating so ultimately you have to check the entire chart instead of being put off by the Venus in Gem.
One last thing with my bf, as ElizabethO said, he's obsessed that if he ties the knot with one person, he'll miss the next good sex experience out there...so I think this is the true nature of Venus in Gem not necessarily that they are cheaters.
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bella_taurus
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From: Minneapolis, MN, USA
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted January 04, 2012 02:05 PM
I have Venus in Gemini. I'm not a flirt, or serial dater, I just like pillow talk.LOL. IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted January 04, 2012 07:08 PM
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Capriquarius
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posted January 04, 2012 07:36 PM
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Originally posted by Moonfish:
I read on a few sites that people with Venus Gem are flirty, get bored easily in relationships, and don't like to commit. [.....]Is this placement true about Venus Gemini? If so, how do you keep them interested?
This is true of a Venus in Gem I know. Venus is her ruling planet.No idea what anyone can do to maintain her interest. Big time player, strung a lot of guys along. Oh and she hates telecommunications. She's more about having fun than communicating. So the texting stuff doesn't apply to all Gem Venus folk. I find that it's actually the Gemini Moons who talk/text a lot, especially when stressed. IP: Logged |
MyVirgoMask
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From: Bay Area, CA
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posted January 05, 2012 03:03 AM
I can't give much feedback about the Gem Venus - again I do not know. I wouldn't label like that though, and more for the sake of mutables HATING to be boxed into ANYTHING. Which includes a standard set of behaviour lol. The Gemini moon sounds about right... but this is experience talking too, so it makes sense what you say Capaquarius. Ex husband and stepfather have it. The more stressed they are, the more the phone and texting seems like an umbilical cord. Reactions of this moon. It's about dispersing the energy. Making it manageable by dispersing it to others and then re-absorbing it from another perspective (the other people). Dunno if that makes sense. IP: Logged |
girl27
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posted January 05, 2012 11:44 PM
I'm a gemini venus and I am friendly with everybody. If I am interested in someone I prefer them to approach me but once they do I become quite friendly, this is with friends or strangers too. I only start to act "fickle" or offset if someone else's intentions confuse me, or I'm not getting the communication I need. We do get bored easily though, but we aren't hard to keep excited either. IP: Logged |
Hemilla
Knowflake Posts: 125
From: Serbia
Registered: May 2015
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posted April 22, 2016 05:09 AM
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Originally posted by Moonfish:
I would like opinions from people who have this placement (Venus in Gemini).
I'm currently dating a Gemini Sun/Mercury/Venus/Mars. We've known eachother for 3 years and been dating for a month.
I read on a few sites that people with Venus Gem are flirty, get bored easily in relationships, and don't like to commit. Though the irony with him is that he's normally shy and awkward around people. & as far as I know only had one other gf besides me.Is this placement true about Venus Gemini? If so, how do you keep them interested?
They (we) will get bored only if the person we are with is not interesting enough and inteligent enough - we need someone who is not same all day every day,someone who knows how to be both serious and goofy,someone who will gossip with us and debate nuclear science later. Flirty we are,thats not a bad thing i guess Commiting part...i dont know,i only have problem with the hype over weddings,i dont like that ,but i can be with someone exclusively IP: Logged |
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