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beenylove
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posted May 05, 2012 11:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for beenylove     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Has anyone had sun and / or venus opposition pluto in a composite with someone? What was your experience like? Stories of others and your take on this aspect are welcome too! I am interested in your opinion and stories!!

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posted May 05, 2012 11:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hera     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah. Sun in Tau in the 6th opp Moon conj Pluto in Sco in the 12th. Intense. Obsessive. Extreme. Out of balance. Primal. Hidden. Taboo. First REAL love of my life.

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posted May 05, 2012 12:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for beenylove     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Hera:
Yeah. Sun in Tau in the 6th opp Moon conj Pluto in Sco in the 12th. Intense. Obsessive. Extreme. Out of balance. Primal. Hidden. Taboo. First REAL love of my life.

Was it from both sides? Was there a power imbalance?

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RunAroundScreaming
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posted May 06, 2012 10:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've looked at a lot of composite charts for people with their crushes or significant other and sun in negative aspect to pluto in the composite is one of the most common, and most touching aspects. It means there's love at first sight, pretty much. It touches you to your being. You feel physically attracted to them, but it's not superficial or lustful at all. Something touches you to the core of your being here with this aspect---most evidenced by any time you make eye contact (did you notice neither of you can look away when you make eye contact? I'm sure you have). Everything starts with a bang, and you feel strongly connected from the beginning. Chemistry, passion, the works--a soul connection. But games soon start being played on both sides because passion like that cant be expressed strongly every single time you see each other. People have bad days, people need their space sometimes, people feel more depressed or low energy on some days than others, etc. So, as soon as someone shows the slightest disinterest, the other person shows disinterest, too, like "okay fine, you're gonna be like that, then I am too." Also it means that sometimes you upset each other by being coming off too controlling or dominating. That results in a power struggle, obviously. However, I love this aspect in the composite, and I think it's one of the best ones to have, second only to venus trine pluto. Pluto is always transforming, and sun in negative aspect to pluto in the composite will make you rethink superficial physical attraction, and possibly make you reconsider love at first sight, should you be someone who has never believed that it exists.

For a truly deep connection, you should have it with either composite sun conjunct/opposite venus (true love), moon in negative aspect to venus (caring tender feelings), or sun conjunct jupiter (joy and abundance). You have it with sun conjunct venus, so that's great, obviously

Composite venus opposite pluto....hmm not the best aspect to have by itself, but because you have sun conjunct venus in there, I don't see it as a big deal. It would add more to the passion.

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posted May 06, 2012 11:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for beenylove     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by RunAroundScreaming:
I've looked at a lot of composite charts for people with their crushes or significant other and sun in negative aspect to pluto in the composite is one of the most common, and most touching aspects. It means there's love at first sight, pretty much. It touches you to your being. You feel physically attracted to them, but it's not superficial or lustful at all. Something touches you to the core of your being here with this aspect---most evidenced by any time you make eye contact (did you notice neither of you can look away when you make eye contact? I'm sure you have). Everything starts with a bang, and you feel strongly connected from the beginning. Chemistry, passion, the works--a soul connection. But games soon start being played on both sides because passion like that cant be expressed strongly every single time you see each other. People have bad days, people need their space sometimes, people feel more depressed or low energy on some days than others, etc. So, as soon as someone shows the slightest disinterest, the other person shows disinterest, too, like "okay fine, you're gonna be like that, then I am too." Also it means that sometimes you upset each other by being coming off too controlling or dominating. That results in a power struggle, obviously. However, I love this aspect in the composite, and I think it's one of the best ones to have, second only to venus trine pluto. Pluto is always transforming, and sun in negative aspect to pluto in the composite will make you rethink superficial physical attraction, and possibly make you reconsider love at first sight, should you be someone who has never believed that it exists.

For a truly deep connection, you should have it with either composite sun conjunct/opposite venus (true love), moon in negative aspect to venus (caring tender feelings), or sun conjunct jupiter (joy and abundance). You have it with sun conjunct venus, so that's great, obviously

Composite venus opposite pluto....hmm not the best aspect to have by itself, but because you have sun conjunct venus in there, I don't see it as a big deal. It would add more to the passion.


Thank you for the awesome answer, RAS! It was as if I was avoiding eye contact, because everytime I made eye contact, I felt like I would EXPLODE. What you have said is very very true!! What about composite moon opposite pluto? I have composite moon and venus opposite pluto with someone that I know....

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posted May 06, 2012 11:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
From astrology3d.com's free compatibility report:

When you are together, deep emotions and intense, compelling, irrational energies within both of you come into play. Definitely, if you are together for any length of time, you will both undergo an emotional transformation, a soul cleansing, for being together will dredge up all of your unfinished emotional business and feelings you may not even have believed yourselves capable of. This may feel like a "fatal attraction", one that is irresistable even if one or both of you wants to run the other way. A significant part of your purpose in coming together is to clear up and heal the past - old griefs, jealousies, wounds, and unresolved emotions, many of which you may have forgotten about until now! Certainly, no matter how long this relationship lasts, it will be a profound, intense one. Emotionally it may feel overwhelming at times. If any emotional manipulation, domination, or abuse occurs, you both need to step back and get a clear, objective third party to help you. At times you're both apt to feel that you're in over your heads. On the other hand, though you may go through extreme emotions, you can develop an incredibly close bond.

Yet, to me that configuration seems less passionate than the sun conjunct venus opposite pluto. Even if only because I consider moon conjunct venus so much less powerful than sun conjunct venus.

Oo I just saw this on astro.com

Both have a great penchant for working upon each other's psyche. But don't overdo it or try to be your partner's psychotherapist. Such tactics are often a disguise for a not-so-subtle power game between two people who profess to be only trying to help each other. As a result, one of you is very likely to feel emotionally dominated and overwhelmed by the other.
The emotional intensity of this aspect can also work in another way. It can create such a strong involvement between you that you cannot let go of each other for a moment, resulting in a smothering relationship in which neither of you can grow.
Beware of emotionally manipulating each other. Love each other for what you are now rather than for what you think you can make the other person into. If you cannot do this, perhaps it would be best to dissolve the relationship.

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posted May 06, 2012 05:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for seaofjoy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have Sun (Taurus) conjunct Venus (Taurus) 3rd house ... Opposite Pluto (Scorpio) exact 9th. The love of my life. I think it is just as combustible as conjunction - nor is it negative - it is more about learning & understanding each other for us (thankfully we have 3rd & 9th - so it helps us undeerstand why we behave the way we do) the LOVE is so real and so so healing. Just when you think something is going normal then BOOM epiphany! If you stay HONEST to each other - then yea, you'll power on through oh, and sex. lots of sex helps.

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RunAroundScreaming
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posted May 06, 2012 05:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by seaofjoy:
I have Sun (Taurus) conjunct Venus (Taurus) 3rd house ... Opposite Pluto (Scorpio) exact 9th. The love of my life. I think it is just as combustible as conjunction - nor is it negative - it is more about learning & understanding each other for us (thankfully we have 3rd & 9th - so it helps us undeerstand why we behave the way we do) the LOVE is so real and so so healing. Just when you think something is going normal then BOOM epiphany! If you stay HONEST to each other - then yea, you'll power on through oh, and sex. lots of sex helps.

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