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StelliumH6
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posted May 16, 2012 09:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for StelliumH6     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have found that whenever I like something from him and actually verbalize the request, he will not do it and hold back. Then when I do not say anything he does the behavior and gives me that thing that I have asked for before at some other time. I do not feel this is done on purpose either. (I am talking sexual here. May be sweet or naughty, or something real little and simple like kissing my neck more.)

I believe this is a common Pisces male characteristic. Yes?

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posted May 16, 2012 09:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sounds more like ego.. Like he's thinking I "know" you dont have to tell me how to do it.

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posted May 16, 2012 10:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for starmoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i can relate. i won't get graphic, but i have a fave position and he will NEVER honor my request at the time. but, perhaps a week or so later he'll say 'lets try your fave position.' they eventually get around to doing what you want. it might be that they just want to not be told what to do. perhaps it's just being a man and not so much the sign here. but pisces have an awesome memory, so no matter what you say, even if it's not acknowledged right away, it will be - they remember everything

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posted May 17, 2012 01:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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whenever I like something from him and actually verbalize the request, he will not do it and hold back.

Does he have a Mars/Pluto aspect?
Sometimes they can be neurotic & paranoid about maintaining control - & the smallest, tiniest issue can turn into a fight for control.

This gives many people around them a headache.

I have not really noticed this kind of behaviour in men who do not have Mars/Pluto.... but maybe that's a coincidence!

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posted May 17, 2012 01:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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i have a fave position and he will NEVER honor my request at the time

That would creep me out.
I don't think I ever expressly told someone what I wanted exactly.. because I kinda like to be surprised (courtesy of my Mars/Neptune - "go with the flow" - aspect).

But if I *did* tell them that I wanted something... and they ignored it and did something else - I would literally give them this look (in the middle of sex):

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posted May 17, 2012 03:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Fiery_Water     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

but that s probably exactly why †hey ignore it...because of the surprise element

I hated all kinds of predictability in sex...i hate when someone directly asks me sthg..because it takes away from how ethereal it all is and should be


we live in øur la la land..and feel ev †hing should go perfectly w out communication because we ll read each other s minds

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posted May 17, 2012 05:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for StelliumH6     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Odette, No, he does not a Mars/Pluto aspect. He has natally Mars oppose Moon 3 degrees.

Fiery, I am assuming you are a Pisces Sun. I talked to him today using your response as sort of my guide. He said, "I am not a surprise guy for anything in my life. I like to know the plans."

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posted May 17, 2012 06:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Fiery_Water     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah both sun n moon

Weird. Yeah his response doesn't really go w what I said...dunno maybe they re right bout the ego then?

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posted May 17, 2012 06:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Fiery_Water     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah both sun n moon

Weird. Yeah his response doesn't really go w what I said...dunno maybe they re right bout the ego then?

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posted May 17, 2012 07:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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i hate when someone directly asks me sthg..because it takes away from how ethereal it all is and should be

I kinda of feel this way... although I wouldn't go as far as to say "hate"... because I'm pretty accommodating. When I'm in love with someone, as I said - I would go with their flow. So if they felt more comfortable talking about it and telling me exactly what they like -- it wouldn't bother me that much.
But it's not my -dream- sexual experience either.

I am not a Pisces though. I just have lots of Pisces & Neptune happening.

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posted May 17, 2012 07:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Thefish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sounds like uranus/pluto is somehow involved imo

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posted May 18, 2012 06:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Fiery_Water     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

Well that s the thing.... I secretly hated, but I would rarely say something bout it.at least in the past....in fact there were times, that I m not v proud of, where I went ahead and had sex when I didn't want to, just because I know we re already there, and the person expects it..so I ll just go w it

Recently n after intense therapy I voice things more..n it's comi naturally to me because of my Venus in Aries I guess..that was almost dampened in the past by my total fishyness

The combination is v interesting....it makes me want the fantasy exactly like I want it and want it now

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posted May 18, 2012 10:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lonake     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well that's interesting Fiery. I'm getting to know a Pisces Sun/Moon sq Neptune in Sadge, also Pisces Merc, I can go along w.the ethereal, esp since his Sun/Moon is conj my Sun (!) Sounds delish. Never dated a Pisces before

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posted May 18, 2012 10:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lonake     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by StelliumH6:
I have found that whenever I like something from him and actually verbalize the request, he will not do it and hold back. Then when I do not say anything he does the behavior and gives me that thing that I have asked for before at some other time. (...) I believe this is a common Pisces male characteristic. Yes?

Never seen that in Pisces only Aquarius placements or Uranus aspects.

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posted May 18, 2012 10:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lonake     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Thefish:
Sounds like uranus/pluto is somehow involved imo

Yea could be Pluto too. For the power trip element. Aquarius for the stubborn/contrary quality.

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posted May 18, 2012 10:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lonake..
Warning.warning.warning...

No pisces.no.pisces...

He will drive u crazy..lol.... But you will love it at the same time

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posted May 18, 2012 10:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lonake     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ah, entertaining anyway I'm up for it.

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posted May 18, 2012 10:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Lonake:
Ah, entertaining anyway I'm up for it.

I know honey, believe me I know.. I wouldn't either..
I adore fishy.s.. Even one of my closes female friends is a fishy with a leo.moon... I gotta love her crazy butt.

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