posted August 07, 2012 06:23 PM            

His sun moon midpoint is also 6 degrees from my natal sun/8 from my mercury his sun moon midpoint also makes other aspects. Like squares my natal moon and Pluto (as my sun does) his midpoint also would trine my mars by 2 degrees and sextile (or well trine for aqua) my Jupiter by 4 degrees

His natal Venus and my natal Venus are both conjunct the composite Venus.

Basically his natal sun is 21 degrees Leo and natal moon is 21 degrees cancer. My natal sun is 12 degrees Leo and natal moon is 12 degrees Taurus. So our composite sun is 16 Leo composite moon 16 Gemini. My Venus is 28 Gemini. His is 13 cancer. Composite Venus is Cancer 5.

posted August 07, 2012 06:46 PM            

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Originally posted by Lava Flower:
Also, they say planet overlaying the 4th house can make up for lack of moon aspects. All the water houses are deep, the 4th is supportive rather than uncomfortable like the other two can be.

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posted August 08, 2012 05:53 AM            

Aspects with midpoints (only hard ones, orb maximal 2 degrees).

I wouldnīt count a 9 degree trine at all, BUT I would take into account the elemental basis of Moon and especially Sun, Moon, Venus and ASC.
If you speak the same languages int his regard (or at least compatible ones) this could be VERY helpful.

Two Moons in air will always have something in common, even though if they are lacking an aspectual connection (though of course an aspect would strengthen that bond).

Apart from that, yes, Sun/Moon-mp VERY important, as are tight conjunctions of the composite to the natal Moons.

Also check the progressed Moons.

posted August 08, 2012 12:11 PM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
Check for the ruler of 4th house as well (btw 4th house can feel VERY uncomfortable; it simply depends on how comfortable you are with letting someone close to you, cause if you let someone into the 4th house, you let them into your soul).

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The ruler of his fourth house is Mercury. His Mercury is conjunct my Mercury by 1 degree
Conjunct my Sun by 3 degrees
Square my moon by 3
Square my pluto by 6

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Aspects with midpoints (only hard ones, orb maximal 2 degrees).

I wouldnīt count a 9 degree trine at all, BUT I would take into account the elemental basis of Moon and especially Sun, Moon, Venus and ASC.
If you speak the same languages int his regard (or at least compatible ones) this could be VERY helpful.

Two Moons in air will always have something in common, even though if they are lacking an aspectual connection (though of course an aspect would strengthen that bond).

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His progressed Sun/Moon midpoint is conjunct our Composite Sun by 13 minutes.
16 39
Apart from that, yes, Sun/Moon-mp VERY important, as are tight conjunctions of the composite to the natal Moons.

Also check the progressed Moons.

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Our progressed composite sun/moon midpoint is conjunct his progressed moon by 18 minutes.

Progressed Composite moon is sextile his natal moon by 1 degree. Progressed composite Venus is conjunct his sun/moon midpoint by 4 and conjunct his natal moon by 11 (I know, i know - i'm reaching)

My progressed Moon is trine his natal moon by 2 degrees. My progressed venus is conjunct his natal moon by 2 degrees.

His progressed moon is at 16 cancer which is sextile my natal moon by 4 degrees.

His progressed chart vs my progressed chart
His p. moon conjunct my p. venus by 3 degrees.
His p. moon trine my p. moon by 7 degrees

(I am only sharing the moon aspects)

His progressed moon sextile composite moon by 4 degrees.

If I am doing this correctly - My progressed sun/moon midpoint is as Gemini/Sag 14.49 so his progressed moon would be quincunx by 1 degree. Do you count quincunx?

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Elementally
HIM
Fire Sun
Water Moon
Water Venus
Water ASC

ME
Fire Sun
Earth Moon
Air Venus
Water ASC

Progressed Elements
HIM
Earth Sun
Water Moon
Fire Venus
Earth ASC

ME
Earth Sun
Water Moon
Water Venus
Fire ASC

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As far as comfort is concerned I felt very comfortable from the moment I met him. We actually started officially dating after 5 days of meeting. He met my parents within the first week. I have never dated someone so quickly. I have no problem saying anything to him. Although I care a lot about my hair and makeup - I admitted to him I wear sports bras 95% of the time for comfort recently. It's silly actually.

We did not kiss until the third time I met him by the way and we didn't sleep together until after we were in a relationship. Although everything happened rather quickly.

I can kind of see that sometimes he does not want to tell me ****** things about his day right away and it could be his Leo pride or perhaps the unaspected moon.

We also have DW Venus Trine Pluto in synastry and also in the composite.

Sometimes I feel like I will spend the rest of my life with him. And sometimes I don't want to talk to him. But probably still want to spend the rest of my life with him. In the beginning especially, we fought a lot since we were still getting to know eachother and moved so quickly.

By the way - in general I never jump into relationships with my natal Venus opposite Saturn.
I am so tempted to post the charts, you seem to know so much

posted August 08, 2012 01:37 PM            

But our composite sun/mercury/venus trineed my moon by 4 to 5 degrees.

posted August 09, 2012 04:32 AM            

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Originally posted by Lava Flower:
In synastry with someone I am very deeply emotionally involved with, my moon is TOTALLY unaspected except for an inconjunct to his ASC. But the composite moon is conjunct my sun.

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posted August 09, 2012 05:24 AM            

with all the other testimonies I donīt think you need to be worried about the unaspected Moon.

posted August 09, 2012 06:09 AM            

"The ruler of his fourth house is Mercury. His Mercury is conjunct my Mercury by 1 degree
Conjunct my Sun by 3 degrees
Square my moon by 3
Square my pluto by 6"
Especially the conjunctions deliver a very strong piccture here, it even includes a conjunction of his 4th house ruler to your Sun!
And the conjunction to your Mercury is probably a great asset to be able to talk about what is going on inside of him.

The squares might add some tension and friction,b ut the Pluto-square is really on the wide side, so I donīt think it will be so prominent.
(Is Pluto angular natally or synastrically? Planets in the angles often seem to be more forefront than others).

"His progressed Sun/Moon midpoint is conjunct our Composite Sun by 13 minutes.
16 39"
this gives a very intimate connection to your relationship.

"Progressed Composite moon is sextile his natal moon by 1 degree. Progressed composite Venus is conjunct his sun/moon midpoint by 4 and conjunct his natal moon by 11 (I know, i know - i'm reaching) "
Well, the 11 degree is reaching. lol
But the others suffice already to show that currently this relationship is extremely important to him and probably generally as well, as it is not only the progressed composite linking to his Moon or Sun/Moon-mp-

BTW I also like to check for Moon/Venus-mp as it combines the soft and loving energies in a chart.
it makes for much tenderness.

Midpoints are underestimated anyway.
Ever noticed what happens when someone`s conjuncts or opposed your Venus/Mars, Venus/Pluto or Mars/Pluto- mp?

"My progressed Moon is trine his natal moon by 2 degrees. My progressed venus is conjunct his natal moon by 2 degrees. "
Very nice. Is it applying?
Well, the progressed Moon is of course quickly moving, so it might act as a trigger, but might not be there eternally. But as long asi it is it is very very nice.

For me it is a good timer. Whatever is there in the background of the progressed synastry often seems to be "awakened" through the aspects of pr Moon.

Well, I have an interesting time as pr Moon moves through my 7th house and right now is opposing my natal Sun.

"f I am doing this correctly - My progressed sun/moon midpoint is as Gemini/Sag 14.49 so his progressed moon would be quincunx by 1 degree. Do you count quincunx? "
No.

The big midpoint aspects are conjunction and opposition - these are direct midpoints and Rob Hand sais that these can be just as strong as major aspects. So ignor at your own risk. lol

Then there are squares, which really are the midpoint of the midpoint axis. lol

And most midpoint astrologers also consider semisquare and sesisquare.

I do so, too, but see it as a watered down aspect. The strongest are ocnjunction/ opposition, then next strongest square, and after that semisquare / sesisquare. Though having said that there are some midpoints through semisquare in my own chart that resonate SO MUCH with me.
Actually I once did a little survey here on LL (which glitched - naturally. lol), and interestingly almost all people could identify with the midpoints-semisquare/ sesisquare. I did not expect that.

"lementally
HIM
Fire Sun
Water Moon
Water Venus
Water ASC

ME
Fire Sun
Earth Moon
Air Venus
Water ASC"

Water and Earth Moon are pretty compatible. They feed each other and are very supportive.
Probably you need to look out for your Venus in Air, and if you receive the right validation you need, as neither his Moon nor Venus share your "language". Though his Fire Sun might help a bit int his regard.
And of course Mercury aspects in the synastry.

"Progressed Elements
HIM
Earth Sun
Water Moon
Fire Venus
Earth ASC

ME
Earth Sun
Water Moon
Water Venus
Fire ASC"

Very convincing. Both water Moons that gives much common ground. Also the meeting of validation needs might not be an issue currently, as your Venus positions compared with the natal ones are nicely balanced.