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Topic: "Everybody Wants You..."
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StacyLewis
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posted December 02, 2012 07:32 AM
  
I believe that's a line from a song - exactly which, I couldn't tell you.What I want to talk about here is what planetary transits and temporary aspects, makes everybody...I'm going to be totally vulgar here - want to *boink* you, or think they're in love with you. I need to pull up a chart for myself for about six years ago, because during that time I was getting offers thrown at me from every direction. I should state here, that I'm not even what most people would consider physically attractive, but I was getting hit on constantly. I'd made a friend at that time and about a week later, they told me they were "in love with" me, that kinda thing. There were a lot of things like that going on from all directions at that time. Do you know what it's like to go from being someone who is constantly rejected and passed over in a romantic context, to having people throw themselves at you? It's incredibly heady and surreal. I won't lie, I'm human. So part of me did like it. At the same time, part of me was disturbed by it and felt a weird sense of disassociation, and almost like a piece of meat or some thing that everybody wanted access to. And then there was the other part, that just wanted it to stop because I'm not a stupid girl and I knew that it wasn't about really being appreciated for who I am, that the real reasons for it had nothing to do with me, that it had more to do with what people were projecting onto me and the fantasies in their own heads... Also, it's like you're a "trend" or suddenly "in style" and everybody wants to take a turn on that ride. I wasn't stupid, and I knew that most of these people didn't REALLY like me and that eventually the whole thing was going to come to an end. And it did. And I'm glad it did, even though I've gone back to kinda being alone, because at least now everything is real, and it isn't a constant rush of people all at once all the time and just all over you and putting you on pedestals you don't want to be on and know you're gonna topple off of because you can't be perfect and be what everybody wants you to be. Reading that back, now it sounds like it was some sort of Neptune transit going on, but what other transits would probably indicate this sort of thing? IP: Logged |
sand
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posted December 02, 2012 07:49 AM
I have an answer but in a different system and I'm not well versed enough to look at your chart.. All I know is that I have 2 natally. I had it via transit from 0-9 years old or something and will have it again via transit in my 39-49 decade.. A person with a Peach Blossom star in their personal BaZi chart tends to easily attract attention from the opposite sex and people in general. We're talking "sex appeal" here. Some have it and others do not. Now, what if you don't have Peach Blossom in your personal BaZi chart, what do you do? The only thing you can do is either apply the previous two methods mentioned above or wait until a Tao Hua appeared in your Luck Pillars. When a Tao Hua appears in your Luck Pillars, it is said that you will be going through a Peach Blossom luck. IP: Logged |
RedScorp
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Registered: Jul 2011
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posted December 02, 2012 03:12 PM
I was going to mention possibly Jupiter, for the large amount of people, and whataya kno! Jupiter was in Scorpio that year, possibly squaring some of your Leo. Pluto was near the end of Sagittarius too (maybe square Virgo Venus? I'm not sure of your exact placements haha). And, speaking of Neptune, it was in Aquarius. So! There was certainly SOMEthing happening lmao!IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted December 02, 2012 03:23 PM
Sounds like Neptune, yes.
Maybe Neptune to ASC, chart ruler or Venus..
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suireen
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posted December 02, 2012 03:34 PM
I have Neptune conjunct Venus(both in 11th house and both are Capricorns).. I kinda get that a lot..
I've always thought of it as like.. Guys just playing around me.. But one guy from my class just told me.. "You didn't know? They were hitting on you"To be honest I couldn't believe it.. I'm pretty dense.. In a way.. ._.' But yeah, not once have I ever thought they were hitting on me due to the fact that.. I'm just plain average, I don't think anyone would like me. And that guy also said that, "It's just that you're so quiet, that's why guys have a hard time approaching you when they want to" IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted December 02, 2012 03:48 PM
If we're talking about sexual attraction being confused with love... what about Mars and Neptune? I agree with the others about Venus/Neptune aspects, however Venus isn't the first planet I associate with sexual attraction.IP: Logged |
Juliet41894
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posted December 02, 2012 04:03 PM
the EXACT same thing is happening with me right now. someone actually told me last night that i'm "trouble" because everytime i meet one of their friends they sort of think i'm the ideal girl. it's definitely weirding me out a lot. i've never thought i was particularly beautiful so this is all pretty new to me.i have sun conj lilith on the aries taurus cusp (11th house), venus trine neptune and uranus(11th to 7th house), and currently transitting pluto/mars are conjunct my descendant sextile jupiter in the 5th. also i'm cancer ascendant, so maybe that's why i make people feel like they're home... also transitting neptune is sextile my natal sun IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted December 02, 2012 04:07 PM
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If we're talking about sexual attraction being confused with love... what about Mars and Neptune?
I can see that! My Mars is conj Neptune and many men in my generation are very very confused.
It's obvious to me they are only sexually attracted, but they think they are in love. I mentioned this before on LL and someone told me - "guys will say anything to get sex... they're just *saying* they're in love because they think this is what you want to hear" LOL But *No*. I'm sorry. This is not the case. First of all people know I'm very open-minded about sex and do not want to hear this kind of thing. Secondly they TRULY believe they are in love. They are completely LOOPY. They are not just pretending. quote:
At the same time, part of me was disturbed by it and felt a weird sense of disassociation, and almost like a piece of meat or some thing that everybody wanted access to.
My only feelings towards this - are that - it is waste of my time to deal with these people.
I have a Capricorn Moon though - so maybe I'm being cold about it.
I don't actually care.. I don't find it repulsive, nor do I find it endearing... I am neutral about it - and I would prefer it if they left me alone.
I definitely prefer dating men outside my generation - who do not have Neptune ON my Mars. IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted December 02, 2012 04:08 PM
Although - It could also be Venus opp Pluto maybe..?
I have this as well ^ quote:
on the aries taurus cusp (11th house), venus trine neptune
Interesting! My Venus is on the Aries/Taurus cusp... @0'Taurus on my NN... and also trine Neptune. IP: Logged |
Juliet41894
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posted December 02, 2012 04:21 PM
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Originally posted by Odette:
Although - It could also be Venus opp Pluto maybe..?
I have this as well ^
i have this too! i'm also realizing my mystic rectangle in the 1st, 5th, 7th, and 11th probably has a lot to do with the way i attract people (moon, pluto, venus, and neptune/uranus) IP: Logged |
astrofan123
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Registered: Oct 2012
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posted December 02, 2012 11:19 PM
quote:
Originally posted by StacyLewis:
I believe that's a line from a song - exactly which, I couldn't tell you.What I want to talk about here is what planetary transits and temporary aspects, makes everybody...I'm going to be totally vulgar here - want to *boink* you, or think they're in love with you. I need to pull up a chart for myself for about six years ago, because during that time I was getting offers thrown at me from every direction. I should state here, that I'm not even what most people would consider physically attractive, but I was getting hit on constantly. I'd made a friend at that time and about a week later, they told me they were "in love with" me, that kinda thing. There were a lot of things like that going on from all directions at that time. Do you know what it's like to go from being someone who is constantly rejected and passed over in a romantic context, to having people throw themselves at you? It's incredibly heady and surreal. I won't lie, I'm human. So part of me did like it. At the same time, part of me was disturbed by it and felt a weird sense of disassociation, and almost like a piece of meat or some thing that everybody wanted access to. And then there was the other part, that just wanted it to stop because I'm not a stupid girl and I knew that it wasn't about really being appreciated for who I am, that the real reasons for it had nothing to do with me, that it had more to do with what people were projecting onto me and the fantasies in their own heads... Also, it's like you're a "trend" or suddenly "in style" and everybody wants to take a turn on that ride. I wasn't stupid, and I knew that most of these people didn't REALLY like me and that eventually the whole thing was going to come to an end. And it did. And I'm glad it did, even though I've gone back to kinda being alone, because at least now everything is real, and it isn't a constant rush of people all at once all the time and just all over you and putting you on pedestals you don't want to be on and know you're gonna topple off of because you can't be perfect and be what everybody wants you to be. Reading that back, now it sounds like it was some sort of Neptune transit going on, but what other transits would probably indicate this sort of thing?
You are probably right. Neptune transit. There is an article I read about Neptune transit to Aquarius. that ended in 2012. http://astralreflections.com/html/love2012.html http://astralreflections.com/html/neptune.html A full article about Neptune in Aquarius is either no longer there, or he never wrote it. I can relate to what he wrote for Leo sun in both articles. I don't know your chart, maybe you can relate with that too.
I remember he said something about Uranus in Pisces about the same time Neptune transit in Aqua. wheww mutual reception for over a decade. it was real difficult period in my life for sure. both 7th and 8th house matters (Aqua is Leo's 7th house and Pisces is Leo's 8th house. He is using whole sign system)
I also have Neptune in Sag, which is Leo's 5th house by whole sign system. it also was difficult period 5th house matters. not the whole 15-18 yrs but at least 6 yrs of it.
I haven't looked up other transits. IP: Logged |
JLyn ~
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posted December 03, 2012 02:12 PM
My Pisces ascendant, Venus quintile Jupiter (luck) and Pluto in 8th, i attract ALOT of men, they mostly say I'm intriguing and mysterious but my Venus and mars in 12th stops the an actual committment.I feel like a juicy orange that nobody wants to pluck off the tree lol
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aquaguy91
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From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted December 03, 2012 02:26 PM
i had this happen when transiting neptune was in conjunction to my ascendant and natal venus. i wouldnt say it was everyone by any means, but i did have more people interested in me during that time.IP: Logged |
CosmicKarma360
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posted December 03, 2012 02:32 PM
Agh! Yes! This has happened to me several times through the years.I got *a lot* of attention when t.Pluto was going through my 8th house, opposite my n.Venus and n.Moon. Also, when t.Pluto was just starting in my 7th house, and it was in sextile to my n.Uranus, and later, n.Pluto. However, later when t.Pluto was really parked in my 7th house, I had *zero* action of any kind. I mean, nothing for years. Recently, it happened when t.Jupiter was conjunct my ASC, and in a trine with my n.Uranus and n.Pluto. It didn't last for very long, though. Thanks for this topic. I was totally wondering the same thing myself. It does seem that even on days when t.Mars or t.Venus are making aspects with my natal planets, suddenly someone out of the blue will find me attractive. The next day, it'll be like, forget it! LOL! Gorgeous one day, and then suddenly the next day, it's like I've been hit with the ugly stick.  edit: Maybe having n.Uranus and n.Pluto in the 5th had something to do with it, also. Maybe? IP: Logged | |
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