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Heartless
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posted February 02, 2013 02:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Heartless     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i have a good relationship with my very competent supervisor whom i deeply respect in every aspect professionally. we have a few things in common being perfectionists and old-fashioned. that's the easy part. directness, criticism, feedback etc is also not a problem. that we've made very clear as we work together intensively. her conversational technique is what i call "conversational terrorist" style, which i witness every day in her dealing with others (and me of course).

once again, she's great as my supervisor, and i know that she's been trying to get me to open up more. it's hard for me being intensely private! she always says my name, praises me in front of others. there is such a thing as assumed emotional intimacy on her part that i'm not aware of. the truth is it's inferred and she can sense it!

have you any tips for me?


Sun Sagittarius
Moon Leo
Mercury Scorpio
Venus Scorpio
Mars Sagittarius
Jupiter Aquarius
Saturn Capricorn
Uranus Virgo
Neptune Scorpio
Pluto Virgo

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hannaramaa
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posted February 02, 2013 02:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What do you mean "conversational terrorist", like she talks to much or she barks at people unintentionally, what?

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starfairy
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posted February 02, 2013 02:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for starfairy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sags are very blunt and open, and scorp mercuries are quite sharp tongued. Her Jupiter is in aqua- does it square her mercury by orb? And on top of that her mars is in sag (conjunct her sun?) and a fire moon lol. Wowzers. She's definitely confrontational and may have trouble holding back her thoughts and opinions.

As a sag with a fire moon, I definitely have difficulty with people who are too private. Sags are so open and breezy and honest that it's difficult for us to understand why others aren't the same way.

What's your chart like?

What are your placements?

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Heartless
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posted February 02, 2013 02:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Heartless     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@Hanna, to others it seems like being slapped across the face. very confrontational, and she always 'wins'.

@Star, you nail it! (unfortunately i don't have her birth time so no clue as to her aspects). since i don't know her full chart i have a better idea of her personality using Jung typology, me being INTJ and she ENTJ.

me (100% introvert and have many hard aspects):

Moon Gemini
Mercury Aries
Venus Taurus
Mars Taurus
Jupiter Capricorn
Saturn Gemini
Uranus Libra
Neptune Sagittarius
Pluto Libra

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starfairy
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posted February 02, 2013 02:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for starfairy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Omg Sags always have to win lol it's our most annoying trait. I even get annoyed at myself. We're such know-it-alls. The Jupiter-Mercury square would indicate her views are very strong. She'll have a hard time admitting she's wrong.

What's your Sun and Ascendant?

Your Moon opposes her Sun, which indicates compatibility. HOwever, the Sun person can come off too harsh and insensitive to the Moon person. Your Mercury aspects her Sun and Moon well, so she finds it easy to talk to you. Your Mars square her Mercury, which can be difficult. Her communication style and the things she says might really **** you off sometimes! Your Venus squares her Mercury, which can also be difficult. You may find her insensitive to your feelings. No wonder you don't appreciate her communication style!

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Heartless
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posted February 02, 2013 03:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Heartless     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i actually do appreciate her communication style. we are direct and critical with feedback so no problem there. when she confronts others i get to learn my indirect lessons, too! what others don't see, or don't want to see, is her kind heart and tenderness behind all that blunt confrontational bossiness.

i do everything slowly, from eating to thinking to reacting, to letting people in. i'm competent and at the same time somewhat a mystery to her. her Scorp Merc conversational terrorism is legendary. i have a feeling she must get it out of me one way or another, sooner or later! crossing her is not an option in our professional relationship that's a given.

how do Sag sun/Leo moon people handle their anger? it's explosive but is it also quickly forgotten? but then again her Scorp placements...

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