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Topic: What placements/aspects indicate chronic lateness?
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Jessica2407
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posted March 19, 2013 11:53 AM
  
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Originally posted by 7thGuardian:
I'm not fond of waiting either ^^ - i really dislike being the first one there and waiting another 20 - 30 minutes. ^^ I've been late for work and casual meetings among friends - but i don't remember being late for "an important meeting". If I acknowledge a meeting as important - i can't get that event out of my mind... and I tend to get prepared 2 hours in advance - trying to make sure that nothing goes wrong. ^^
Exactly. That meeting was my first one after having been promoted so my peers thought since everyone makes do with later comers I would do the same. I can accept someone running late say 5 to 10 mins. It's not as if I don't run late occasionally. The last person to arrive was 37 mins,TBH he had a good reason but by then I was seething mad already,it didn't really matter.
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watermonkey
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posted March 19, 2013 12:38 PM
I am ALWAYS late because i always get distracted by something which astrologically it is said to be as a gemini. I have ADD too which is scientifically a real reason why i am late - time blindness, from dr russell barkly.Off topic, but i remember you said you have adhd before right peige? IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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posted March 19, 2013 12:43 PM
I always miss a train or a bus but its usually not my fault..
I always tell my friends I will be running a little late before I even know I will be late..
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moonlightx
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posted March 19, 2013 05:19 PM
I run late to places I don't particularly want to be but have to. Sometimes I'll be late even if I want to be there though.  My procrastination habit gets me into trouble at times. Gemini moon, Sagittarius Mars.IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted March 19, 2013 05:39 PM
laziness conjunct lack of gumptionIP: Logged |
YoursTrulyAlways
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posted March 19, 2013 07:11 PM
So I guess I'm a Gemini Moon and I run completely against convention lol. I have the combination of German efficiency and Japanese analness when it comes to keeping time. I'm fastidiously early all the time. Lol. I'm probably the only moron who shows up at the airport at 3 pm for a 6:30 pm flight. Lol. IP: Logged |
starmoon
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posted March 19, 2013 07:27 PM
the people i know who are always late by a lot... aqua sun, aqua rising, gemini sunIP: Logged |
sweet-scorpion
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posted March 19, 2013 09:42 PM
Um, Mars-Neptune people. Definitely. I am one of them. Also know someone else with this. CHRONIC LATENESS and never getting one's **** together, sort of last minute, lax or just too tired to move, wallowing around, sleeping in way too late... not knowing/forgetting deadlines... LOL list goes on and on.  It's not like it's so bad I am a failure but man, it has been always challenging to deal with. (Thank goodness my Mars trines Pluto, Pluto kicks its butt into action at the prime moment!)I'm also a Libra sun and yes... I get the Libran Laziness described on the internet. I have a himming-hawing [sp] approach and I just sometimes get so wrapped up in my thoughts volleying them back and forth about what to wear, bring to a party, etc. etc (many scenarios come to mind) that I often arrive late from indecision and bad timing. :') Two Gemini risings I know are also this way, both struggle with sleeping in and chronic lateness to appointments. IP: Logged |
PhoenixFire
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posted March 19, 2013 10:00 PM
Ummm well yes I am constantly late /: Maybe it is a mutable energy thing? I do have Sun conj Mercury (Rx) in the 12th, w my Pisces Moon in the third. Oh and the Sag rising as well. I am really trying to be on time, because being rushed stresses me out. I am just not a morning person at all. SO hard to get ready for work /:IP: Logged |
peachbeigeblue
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posted March 19, 2013 11:08 PM
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Originally posted by watermonkey:
I am ALWAYS late because i always get distracted by something which astrologically it is said to be as a gemini. I have ADD too which is scientifically a real reason why i am late - time blindness, from dr russell barkly.Off topic, but i remember you said you have adhd before right peige?
Yes yes yes. I have that. It's strange though, my little brother is diagnosed too but he doesn't seem to have the same problems as I do. I think mine is more severe though. He's Virgo/Pisces/Leo. I'm Leo/Taurus/Scorpio
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Jessica2407
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posted March 20, 2013 12:52 AM
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Originally posted by sweet-scorpion:
Um, Mars-Neptune people. Definitely. I am one of them. Also know someone else with this. CHRONIC LATENESS and never getting one's **** together, sort of last minute, lax or just too tired to move, wallowing around, sleeping in way too late... not knowing/forgetting deadlines... LOL list goes on and on. It's not like it's so bad I am a failure but man, it has been always challenging to deal with. (Thank goodness my Mars trines Pluto, Pluto kicks its butt into action at the prime moment!)
I'm one of the mars-neptune people. I don't think it's an indication of chronic lateness. I have Mars sq neptune EXACT. Actually if I'm aimless that's when I become kinda lethargic, but if I have things to do am dead focused on what I have to do. IP: Logged |
peachbeigeblue
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posted March 20, 2013 01:39 PM
Sweet scorp - that makes sense - I have the square by 22 minutesIP: Logged |
AriesKat
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posted March 20, 2013 07:25 PM
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^^ I agree.The tardiest person I know has sag sun conjunct Uranus and Gemini rising. Like omg! She is hours late sometimes. I have sun/Uranus/ascendant conjunct in sag with mercury in the first and Im frequently late. My aqua ex was always late. Sun conjunct mercury retrograde in aqua.
I have Sun trine uranus and im always late..like always...its annoying. But i have been actively trying to change that...and i have...now I just have to consistent. IP: Logged |
inthemisosoup
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posted March 20, 2013 07:44 PM
Im chronically late...I have aqua rising, strong mutable energy (6 planets, 3 personal planets including sun and moon), sun conjunct uranus.My bf is also quite late and he has strong mutable energy as well, 4 planets, and 3 of them in the 12th house as well as sun conjunct Neptune. Hes actually much worse than me in regards to lateness. We both have sun in sagittarius but none of the same aspects or house placements to go by. We both have ruler of 6th afflicted...his is square saturn and mine is square chiron, square sun, square uranus, and a wide square to saturn (8 degrees) which is not shown on the astro.com chart. For what its worth. Thats the main similarity I see. My other friend who is chronically horrificly late is a gemini sun and probably moon, too. He was born the day before my sister who is not really chorinically late at all. This leads me to believe its more house rulers aspecting each other than natal planets. IP: Logged |
diamondbaby
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posted April 19, 2016 02:29 PM
In my opinion Mars in Libra and other Libra placements.IP: Logged |
Violets
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posted April 19, 2016 02:32 PM
Another ancient thread revived for no apparent reason.  Seriously. Just stop. IP: Logged |
Nyctea
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posted April 19, 2016 04:46 PM
I'm always late for everything.Taurus Moon - I'm slow
4 Aquarius planets in the 7th house - Idk IP: Logged |
diamondbaby
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posted April 19, 2016 05:36 PM
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Originally posted by Violets:
Another ancient thread revived for no apparent reason. Seriously. Just stop.
Next time I will ask for your permission. IP: Logged |
Violets
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posted April 19, 2016 05:42 PM
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What's wrong with it?
Speaking only for myself, the only thing that's wrong with it is that it's incessant, and it buries newer threads that are reasonably interesting (in my opinion). And some of the threads are contentious and create arguments (see recently locked thread that was dug up). Obviously you're free to keep digging up long buried and forgotten threads, but it's irritating when you do it like ten times a day or whatever. But that's just me. IP: Logged |
Violets
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posted April 19, 2016 05:45 PM
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Next time I will ask for your permission.
You might have waited to see my response before editing. But yeah, sure. Ask away. IP: Logged |
Violets
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posted April 19, 2016 06:04 PM
Anyway, sorry if that was rude on my part. I generally assume people will be minimally annoyed when I air my gripes, and get over it. Hopefully that's the case.Sometimes I end up hurting people's feelings when that's not my intention, so I'm just going to throw that out there as well. I'm human. I have pet peeves. IP: Logged |
LionFish
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posted April 19, 2016 06:27 PM
All of mine *sigh*IP: Logged |
diamondbaby
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posted April 19, 2016 07:11 PM
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Originally posted by Violets:
Anyway, sorry if that was rude on my part. I generally assume people will be minimally annoyed when I air my gripes, and get over it. Hopefully that's the case.Sometimes I end up hurting people's feelings when that's not my intention, so I'm just going to throw that out there as well. I'm human. I have pet peeves.
Whatever. You didn't hurt my feelings. I have pet peeves too. It's people who tell others what to do. I don't see anything wrong with reviving old threads. There are a lot of great and interesting ones among them. The newer ones are often repetitive. If moderators wouldn't want users to be able to revive old threads, they would have archived them. IP: Logged |
bonsai
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posted April 19, 2016 07:32 PM
I'm the opposite and am often quite punctual. I have been late a few times but it's typically 15-20 minutes and I let the person know, but usually I'm punctual and i'm NEVER late for appointments or interviews or meetings. Anyone who's frequently late will drive me up the wall and they'd better have a damned good explanation. I figure if you can't make it at that time, then don't organise for that time or agree to meet at that time, and respect other people's time. They might have something on afterwards. I have Gemini moon but my ascendant and Venus are in Virgo and Mars in Capricorn. Maybe the earth influence in my personal planets does that? IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted April 19, 2016 07:35 PM
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Originally posted by diamondbaby:
Whatever. You didn't hurt my feelings. I have pet peeves too. It's people who tell others what to do. I don't see anything wrong with reviving old threads. There are a lot of great and interesting ones among them. The newer ones are often repetitive. If moderators wouldn't want users to be able to revive old threads, they would have archived them.
She apologized. Can't you just accept her apology? I think it was good of her.
I understand feelings being hurt, but some people wouldn't have apologized at all. (And I'm not feeling annoyed at all, so please don't take this that way.) I had a friend on another forum, who bumped a lot of older threads when she first signed up. She was banned, because someone assumed she was trying to mess up the board, since she wasn't known to anyone. She signed up again, and was one of the better members I'd met over there. The forum owner also made sure that threads over three months old, could no longer be bumped, unless it was by the thread-starter. IP: Logged |
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