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Topic: Share your experience with Venus in Gemini males?
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Sarahwood
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posted May 04, 2013 02:00 PM
  
Does Venus with scorpio get along with venus in gemini? IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted May 04, 2013 02:09 PM
From my experience (with the signs in general, no specific placements) Scorpio and Gemini have a mutual fascination and mistrust for each other - however, I think they're similar with the exception of their degree of intensity differing. I think they could give each other a run for their money, but speaking of the Venus signs they would be inconjunct (quincunx?) which indicate a challenging energy.IP: Logged |
Sarahwood
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posted May 04, 2013 02:12 PM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
From my experience (with the signs in general, no specific placements) Scorpio and Gemini have a mutual fascination and mistrust for each other - however, I think they're similar with the exception of their degree of intensity differing. I think they could give each other a run for their money, but speaking of the Venus signs they would be inconjunct (quincunx?) which indicate a challenging energy.
so these two are very challanging hmm. lIke katy perry and russell something. Are they faithful geminis? IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted May 04, 2013 02:17 PM
Don't ask about faithfulness here, lol. I personally have never had a problem with Geminis. I've dated one, and I also had a best friend with Venus in Gemini. One completely fabricated his life story, and the other was promiscuous. I know a third Venus in Gemini as a friend/acquaintance and he does get a lot of female attention but I see the creativity in him more like being in a band, being a hipster, being very online-oriented and loving the different mediums we have for communication. You're probably wondering why I'm not raging mad about the Gemini who fabricated his life story. Well, it was interesting. Geminis, if nothing else, are entertaining. They can be clingy in my experience but perhaps that has something to do with my ASC, Mars, and Jupiter which are all in Gemini. IP: Logged |
Chirp
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posted May 04, 2013 02:31 PM
Honestly, unless something else is going on chartwise in both natals to bridge the gap, there's probably going to be a problem. Unless the guy has a prominent or highly aspected Pluto, or something in Scorpio...you're probably going to be too intense for him to handle. Gemini is a very light sign; they need everything to be very happy and carefree.I have a Taurus ex with a stellium in Gemini (including Venus), and he's not really the type to keep it in his pants, no - I think they get bored easily and always need someone and something new. This could be mitigated by enough fixed sign activity or Saturn in aspect to their Venus though, you'd have to check. Watch out for the potential to be less-than-honest; I've noticed Geminis like to... invent their own version of events. Make sense when you think about the ruling planet and its association with "The Trickster" archetype. IP: Logged |
Sarahwood
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posted May 04, 2013 02:49 PM
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Originally posted by Chirp:
Honestly, unless something else is going on chartwise in both natals to bridge the gap, there's probably going to be a problem. Unless the guy has a prominent or highly aspected Pluto, or something in Scorpio...you're probably going to be too intense for him to handle. Gemini is a very light sign; they need everything to be very happy and carefree.I have a Taurus ex with a stellium in Gemini (including Venus), and he's not really the type to keep it in his pants, no - I think they get bored easily and always need someone and something new. This could be mitigated by enough fixed sign activity or Saturn in aspect to their Venus though, you'd have to check. Watch out for the potential to be less-than-honest; I've noticed Geminis like to... invent their own version of events. Make sense when you think about the ruling planet and its association with "The Trickster" archetype.
:O oh boje (oh dear me)!! he told me he cheated once by kissing another person. However, he would never do that agin but am like hmmm. As I have a capricorn moon 3 dgerees. and He has a libra moon 9 degrees.
My venus is 28 scorpio and he has 27 degrees Gemini which is opposite of my moon. Am a libra sun am very lgith hearted but when it comes to Love and relationships here is where my stupid Venus comes and destroys it! -.- I am not jealous nor possessive or clingy. I get attached but dont liek to admit it. and i fall hard in love and to get otu fo it takes me time. Dont want just dating want soemthing serious so yea here is my problem My venus. I also cant be with somneone who is unfaithful cuz i start behaving unfaithfully as revenge but deep down its cuz i dont want to look like am hurt so I behave the other way lol. IP: Logged |
Sarahwood
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posted May 04, 2013 02:50 PM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Don't ask about faithfulness here, lol. I personally have never had a problem with Geminis. I've dated one, and I also had a best friend with Venus in Gemini. One completely fabricated his life story, and the other was promiscuous. I know a third Venus in Gemini as a friend/acquaintance and he does get a lot of female attention but I see the creativity in him more like being in a band, being a hipster, being very online-oriented and loving the different mediums we have for communication. You're probably wondering why I'm not raging mad about the Gemini who fabricated his life story. Well, it was interesting. Geminis, if nothing else, are entertaining. They can be clingy in my experience but perhaps that has something to do with my ASC, Mars, and Jupiter which are all in Gemini.
I noticed that too they do fabricate their life story. There chit chatters I dont mind that I actually love that! its just the faithful thing am worried about. I knw they flirt but does it mean something?
when I flirt it doesnt mean anything. its just I like attention sometimes but not to the extreme.
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Sarahwood
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posted May 04, 2013 02:54 PM
http://www.astro.com/cgi/showgif.cgi?lang=e&gif=astro_61gw_01_02_sarah_tom.67968.11845.gif&res=100&va=&cid=0hufilek2rCaT-u1366796058 here is the chart dont know if you can see it IP: Logged |
hikoro
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posted May 04, 2013 03:02 PM
his mars trines your venus and your venus trines his mars.
that's positive. IP: Logged |
Sarahwood
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posted May 04, 2013 03:05 PM
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Originally posted by hikoro:
his mars trines your venus and your venus trines his mars.
that's positive.
thats a gd sign  yaay!
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hannaramaa
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posted May 04, 2013 03:16 PM
I'm not the best person to ask because I don't think astrology rules us 100% and everyone is responsible for their actions at the end of the day, regardless of sign. Geminis like variety throughout the day but anyone who loves you will not want to hurt you or be unfaithful.IP: Logged |
Haplesschild*
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posted May 04, 2013 09:12 PM
Id not go there if I were you...Moon square sun and mercury would be a problem-he'll always be very back and forth because he won't be easily content. The Venus can be mitigated with lots of fixed and saturn aspects, but seeing that he has a lot of cancer, it's not good imo. But really its all up to you, tread carefully.IP: Logged |
Haplesschild*
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posted May 04, 2013 09:13 PM
Id not go there if I were you...Moon square sun and mercury would be a problem-he'll always be very back and forth because he won't be easily content. The Venus can be mitigated with lots of fixed and saturn aspects, but seeing that he has a lot of cancer, it's not good imo. But really its all up to you, tread carefully.IP: Logged |
jjj
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posted May 05, 2013 06:43 AM
Im a scorpio venus and my sister is a gemini venus (she has a gemini stellium, so I dont know exactly where this influence comes from...) but if i were a man I wouldnt date her. She is my opposite... very flirtacious and always having at least 2 men and she disconnects sex and feelings, talking about sex like a man. Gemini stellium is in her 8th house, this adds a deeper layer. Her feelings are very intense, but yes, sex is only fun for her, while for me it is a soul and body experience---srry... I see that this was about males... IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted May 05, 2013 06:51 AM
Gemini = not for Scorpio.
Sorry but those two just don't mesh well, especially on the Venus level (not speaking about Sun signs cause I know it can work - oddly).Scorpio craves intensity and intimacy.
Gemini is afraid of it. And if your Mercuries aren't well-aspected.. sigh. I've had a similar experience.
My ex was a Cancer with Mars in Cancer and Venus in Gemini. His Mercury squared a ton of my planets and well.. we were just wrong for each other. He was detached, not very intimate or physical. I wanted passion, affection - and that man was completely uncapable of such manifestations of love. He wasn't a bad guy, seemed loyal and pretty caring overall. Just not my type of thing. I have a Scorpio stellium. So, go ahead.
Just remember: if things don't turn out very well, leave. Don't expect him to change! Good luck ~
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KarkaQueen
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posted May 05, 2013 07:01 AM
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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Gemini = not for Scorpio.
Sorry but those two just don't mesh well, especially on the Venus level (not speaking about Sun signs cause I know it can work - oddly).Scorpio craves intensity and intimacy.
Gemini is afraid of it. And if your Mercuries aren't well-aspected.. sigh. I've had a similar experience.
My ex was a Cancer with Mars in Cancer and Venus in Gemini. His Mercury squared a ton of my planets and well.. we were just wrong for each other. He was detached, not very intimate or physical. I wanted passion, affection - and that man was completely uncapable of such manifestations of love. He wasn't a bad guy, seemed loyal and pretty caring overall. Just not my type of thing. I have a Scorpio stellium. So, go ahead.
Just remember: if things don't turn out very well, leave. Don't expect him to change! Good luck ~
thats funny, im a cancer sun venus gemini mars cancer girl but Im clingy and very affectionate in my relationships and not at all detached. Why do people use their energies differently? Most importantly, why do I? IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve
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posted May 05, 2013 07:14 AM
It was probably his Venus opposite Uranus and Aqua ASC. I should have specified that!Of course I'm not saying every Cancer with a Gemini Venus will be cool and not passionate, that'd be a gross generalization. Karka, I'm pretty sure your Taurus Moon accounts for your sensual nature.
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hikoro
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posted May 05, 2013 07:51 AM
you should repost the chart and also, composite.
if i remember correctly, the op is not a scorpio....
their moons square, one has a libra moon, the other, a cap moon.
i recall a number of squared aspects in their synastry. IP: Logged |
Sarahwood
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posted May 05, 2013 10:17 AM
[IMG]http://i1312.photobucket.com/albums/t522/Nada_Giardina/623 94be1-d6ce-43b3-846c-593595ae1f23_zpsd452285d.jpg[/IMG]here is his chart IP: Logged |
Sarahwood
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posted May 05, 2013 10:20 AM
[IMG]http://i1312.photobucket.com/albums/t522/Nada_Giardina/623 94be1-d6ce-43b3-846c-593595ae1f23_zpsd452285d.jpg[/IMG]IP: Logged |
Sarahwood
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posted May 05, 2013 10:21 AM
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Sarahwood
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posted May 05, 2013 10:33 AM
I think am starting to like him. Its just he was texting me a lot on whats app and then He stopped talking to me when I left the country its been two days I havent herd from him. His online but obviously chatting with someone else.
I invited him to come to paris to continue seeing each other he said ok. But do not know if he was serious. He said he rather come to my hometown than go to paris cuz am going there in three weeks. About gemini and scorpio venus, am worried about that and i agree with JJJ
I need affection and intimicay deep feelings. sex to me means something. means were getting deep and I dont want one night thing, I experienced horrible pyschological things from it. Am cautious but he is 26 so thats why am thinking maybe he is mature enough dont know. My ascendant and sun is in libra that get alongs with his venus , no ? although our degrees are far IP: Logged |
Sarahwood
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posted May 05, 2013 10:50 AM
here is the composite chart [IMG]http://i1312.photobucket.com/albums/t522/Nada_Giardina/as tro_621gw_01_02_sarah_tom5330630981_zpsc9672212.gif[/IMG] IP: Logged |
hikoro
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posted May 05, 2013 03:07 PM
i can see what hapless is saying...
lots of squares not only in his natal, but also in the synastry. he has venus opposite uranus. take it slow... 
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Sarahwood
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posted May 05, 2013 03:31 PM
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Originally posted by hikoro:
i can see what hapless is saying...
lots of squares not only in his natal, but also in the synastry. he has venus opposite uranus. take it slow...
take it slow ? what do u mean ?
it is very slow am very impatient as u can tell lol. IP: Logged |
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