posted June 24, 2013 12:27 PM            

I'm curvy (not fat but like i'm size 10/11 in pants).

He says that thin girls are hot(i officially hate Aries venus now, always will.)

And that he prefers them just cuz he's thin. Tells me i should lose more weight. I love his personality and i really like him and all but it just annoys me that he likes skinny bxtches.

I wont attack him and **** ,cuz he doesnt like crazy ******* .

Seriously i feel like i should go back to Europe(i was born in Belgium) or go to Brazil, to be accepted by guys with a figure like mine.

I live in Canada and my booboo's Canadian. i'm Congo-Trini-Belgian(Mom's black Libra, dad was biracial Leo).

Just an advice: if you're a curvy woman living in the Canada and the States, if you want a man go to Europe those dudes will appreciate you better.

Like don't get me wrong i love my boo but what he said just got under my skin. I officially hate that i attract Aries & Libra venus men.

You know what i truly need? An Earth man with a bunch of Fire and Air in him, possibly some Sag & Libra & Leo in him, with an Aries mars.

My bf's always tired after we do it and it annoys me. Mars in Gemini aint shxt. pfft

posted June 24, 2013 01:06 PM            

I don't have much to say about this, I elaborated on this already on another thread.

No one's holding a gun to your head, you can leave this guy and find someone who actually respects you.

Choice is yours..
Why lose time / energy on someone who's not worth it? Unless you enjoy being treated badly, but that's another story.

I'd rather be alone than with someone who doesn't like me the way I am.

posted June 24, 2013 01:42 PM            

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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
This is ridiculous. I don't get why he got involved with you if he never found you attractive the way you are. Now he's only going to destroy your self-esteem. Unless you won't let him...Think it all through.

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He does find me attractive and all tells me i'm sexy but he says he prefers thin girls, he says curves are okay but he prefers thin.

I have Libra ASC, obv i'm gonna have a hourglass body.

posted June 24, 2013 02:11 PM            

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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
That doesn't change the fact he doesn't respect you and accept you. He shouldn't pressure you to lose on weight nor make comments about other girls.

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Yeah i know. i have Moon opp Venus - Not satisfied in personal relationships.

He isnt pressuring me but he wants me to.

Are all white guys in Canada/America into skinny ******* or what?

posted June 24, 2013 02:37 PM            

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Originally posted by HannieBananie:

Are all white guys in Canada/America into skinny ******* or what?

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posted June 24, 2013 02:39 PM            

Some men like thin women, others like curvy (or extra curvy) women..

posted June 24, 2013 02:52 PM            

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Originally posted by HannieBananie:
Yeah i know. i have Moon opp Venus - Not satisfied in personal relationships.

He isnt pressuring me but he wants me to.

Are all white guys in Canada/America into skinny ******* or what?

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Lol.. No, not all of them. In fact, quite a lot of them aren't.

It all depends on each individual person. I know some really ridiculously good-looking men who love curvy women, even big women, and won't date any other body type.

I also think this might have something to do with age. A lot of teenage/early 20s guys feel like they have to fit an image vs being who they are. This fits in with what hanna said. A lot of them grow out if it by their mid-late 20s/early 30s.

Then again though, it could just be their preference. I'm an Aries Venus female and I love tall, lean, trim guys. Not skinny, toned with just enough definition to let ya know the muscle is there when they move or lift something..omy

Either way..in this case, I don't think it matters. He shouldn't be telling you that you need to lose weight or telling you he finds other girls more attractive. That's how depression and eating disorders can start. If that's the type of girl he wants by his side then why did he go after you in the first place?

You seem like a fiery, spirited girl..I don't understand why you would let somebody like this:
A: treat you this way
B: continue to be in your life

posted June 24, 2013 03:50 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
As a very curvy girl, I feel they are. But I still get hit on a lot and asked out so I don't know. I think they're just into dominant women, and since thin is stereotypically attractive they correlate it with being beautiful and being the "best" hence the dominance theme.

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Not my booboo cuz his mom was crazy and dominant(Scorpio moon). He wants a nice, sweet girl, not a crazy, dominant one that fights other people.

I have Mars opp Saturn with Leo moon if someone's gonna touch what's mine i'm gonna flip sh*t.

posted June 24, 2013 04:54 PM            

whatever you do, dont conform to how he wants you to be.

posted June 24, 2013 05:06 PM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
Looks like you keep attracting guys who belittle you in some way.

I don't have much to say about this, I elaborated on this already on another thread.

No one's holding a gun to your head, you can leave this guy and find someone who actually respects you.

Choice is yours..
Why lose time / energy on someone who's not worth it? Unless you enjoy being treated badly, but that's another story.

I'd rather be alone than with someone who doesn't like me the way I am.

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yep...she had already posted all kinds of issues with exes and this current boyfriend...
when you try to shed some light, she justifies him...
and, obviously, the cycle goes on and on...one day happy, the next day..disappointed.
i expect plenty of repetitive posts surrounding op's relationships in the future, that imo, should go into soul unions....

she'll grow out of it once she regains some self-esteem and confidence...

posted June 24, 2013 06:06 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
As a very curvy girl, I feel they are. But I still get hit on a lot and asked out so I don't know. I think they're just into dominant women, and since thin is stereotypically attractive they correlate it with being beautiful and being the "best" hence the dominance theme.

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thats because white guys have a complex and like tiny girls they can over power... -_-

posted June 24, 2013 06:09 PM            

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Originally posted by CatMote:
stand up to your BF if you feel this way.
thats my only advice. its okay if he thinks skinny women are attractive, who cares, you are the one hes having sex with.

whatever you do, dont conform to how he wants you to be.

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Thanks dude! I just went to go talk to him though about this stuff, i asked him if he liked thin girls, then why did he go for me?

He said: at least youre not fat, you're hot. Aww my hades moon ♥ xo

posted June 24, 2013 06:15 PM            

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Originally posted by SilverFeather:
If he likes skinny girls, then tell him to go date one !
What a jerk..

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I talked it out with him. It's better now. I was almost gonna go kill him but i talked to him about all this, and he calmed me down and said that he went for me, because he finds me sexy, and that at least i wasnt fat.

posted June 24, 2013 06:18 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
its not just guys who are like this, most girls want the skinny emo/skateboarder look. As a guy who is husky, I am not good enough for american girls lol so dont feel bad.

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Oh poor you .

Well i talked to my boo and you know we worked it out. brb gonna go call him.

posted June 24, 2013 06:37 PM            

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Originally posted by HannieBananie:
I talked it out with him. It's better now. I was almost gonna go kill him but i talked to him about all this, and he calmed me down and said that he went for me, because he finds me sexy, and that at least i wasnt fat.

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Sorry for being blunt but it drives me mad to see women mistreated by their so called boyfriends this way.
If a man truly loves his woman, even if she was the ugliest thing around, she will always be beautiful in his eyes no matter what. If he truly loves you, he shouldn't have said that to you !!
I'm pretty curvy too and some people would me "fat". It used to bother me at first but one day I asked my boyfriend if it I was truly fat and if he found me unattractive. Did you know what he told me ?
he smiled and said " I like you just the way you are, baby. Screw what others think."
In that very moment, I knew that he was the right one for me.
If a man can't appreciate his woman the way she is then she was never meant to be his from the very first place.
Don't you ever sell yourself short, girl !

posted June 24, 2013 07:34 PM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
wtf gurl. He sounds like a douche...
He's one of those guys that will put you down when he's cranky. Verbal abuse is never okay, Leave him.

You can do better.

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Thanks Kerosene.
But me and my boo are prob gonna last my Leo & Aquarius planets are trining his Saturn, Venus-mars good contacts, North node stuff, his planets are in my 7th and 8th houses, His Juno conjuncts my sun.

posted June 24, 2013 07:58 PM            

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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
Girl, wake up!!!

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Let her be Cappy. She will learn with time what we are trying to tell her. It's her choice.