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lovemeruby Knowflake Posts: 52 From: Registered: Apr 2013
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posted June 24, 2013 07:47 PM
I know nothing about Leo males and one just entered my life. As a friend...I think...I dont know. He sure does like to talk about himself I dont mind that at all, considering when Im left with my thoughts I would rather hear someone else talk. Tell me everything you know about the leo male, so intrigued!IP: Logged |
lalalinda Moderator Posts: 3190 From: nevada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted June 24, 2013 08:39 PM
Hello lovemeruby! Welcome to LL ------------------
"For all those who believe, expect a miracle.” Linda Goodman 1925-1995 IP: Logged |
lovemeruby Knowflake Posts: 52 From: Registered: Apr 2013
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posted June 24, 2013 08:43 PM
thanks lookin forward to this thread IP: Logged |
charlie Knowflake Posts: 779 From: los angeles, ca, USA Registered: Jun 2012
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posted June 24, 2013 08:57 PM
The Leos I know and dated (7 yr relationship)are needy for attention, warm, they take care of "their own" and they evoke a very comforting feeling, at least for me. Most of them don't like to be surrounded by "debbie downers" or people that are introverted. This is based on my experiences of course.Oh....SOME may keep a "harem" of women or friends around...I think it alleviates their sometimes panicky sensation of feeling lonely. That sensation passes however. IP: Logged |
lovemeruby Knowflake Posts: 52 From: Registered: Apr 2013
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posted June 24, 2013 09:01 PM
Im ambivert...what if a leo has a bad day?IP: Logged |
lovemeruby Knowflake Posts: 52 From: Registered: Apr 2013
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posted June 24, 2013 09:03 PM
talk more about this "panicky feeling of lonely" I would not have guessed, he always says he's busy and Im not buying it lol, I can see how he would have mostly women around him, very cute IP: Logged |
charlie Knowflake Posts: 779 From: los angeles, ca, USA Registered: Jun 2012
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posted June 24, 2013 09:05 PM
quote: Originally posted by lovemeruby: Im ambivert...what if a leo has a bad day?
Leo on a "bad day" would either retreat somewhere alone or be completely in your face until his/her need has been met. I think they need a lot of reassurance that they mean something to you. And if they do, don't stop the compliments! I also think Leo men need a strong but warm woman. Not a doormat but no refrigerator either.. IP: Logged |
lovemeruby Knowflake Posts: 52 From: Registered: Apr 2013
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posted June 24, 2013 09:08 PM
even when they tell you to back off? IP: Logged |
lovemeruby Knowflake Posts: 52 From: Registered: Apr 2013
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posted June 24, 2013 09:11 PM
well he keeps coming over and asked me to draw a tattoo for him so I dont think hes sick of me, but he kind of snapped at me. I didnt take it personal outwardly, but Im a cancer... inside it hurt a bit. I let him be, but I dont want to because Im bored and hes funny and I need the sunny disposition around (which I have expressed to him)IP: Logged |
charlie Knowflake Posts: 779 From: los angeles, ca, USA Registered: Jun 2012
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posted June 24, 2013 09:22 PM
quote: Originally posted by lovemeruby: well he keeps coming over and asked me to draw a tattoo for him so I dont think hes sick of me, but he kind of snapped at me. I didnt take it personal outwardly, but Im a cancer... inside it hurt a bit. I let him be, but I dont want to because Im bored and hes funny and I need the sunny disposition around (which I have expressed to him)
I'm a Cancer too and I love Leos! I think a caring Cancer woman plus a needy Leo man is a great combo as long as you can deal with the attention seeking sides. Just be somewhat independent and they'll keep chasing you forever. IP: Logged |
lovemeruby Knowflake Posts: 52 From: Registered: Apr 2013
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posted June 24, 2013 09:26 PM
tell me more!IP: Logged |
charlie Knowflake Posts: 779 From: los angeles, ca, USA Registered: Jun 2012
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posted June 24, 2013 09:45 PM
quote: Originally posted by lovemeruby: tell me more!
Well, at the end of the day you are who you are, yes? Maybe you are the clingy and easily hurt type of Cancer or the more independent version (yes we exist..)? Either way, none of them are right or wrong so you just have to stay true to who you are and see where things lead. If he for one second makes you doubt yourself or if you feel less than good, you should just move on. This works for all zodiac signs and all types of relationships. IP: Logged |
lovemeruby Knowflake Posts: 52 From: Registered: Apr 2013
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posted June 24, 2013 10:10 PM
I am the independent type and lonely... and he knows, but have requested his presence a lot lately (oopsie!) I just have not had any other leo in my life except for a female for a little while, and I miss having her around because she is so friendly and listened to my Cancer babble with interest; lost contact. Sometimes being a Cancer really bites the dust though... being a feeler chases people off and I'm told I'm too aggressive... I am confident, but not arrogant. I don't talk much when he's around, i would rather hear him talk. I get the feeling he wants me to impress him, but that's silly. If I want his attention I either got it already or he wouldn't keep talking to me I feel like Im being tested I guess... am I?IP: Logged |
lovemeruby Knowflake Posts: 52 From: Registered: Apr 2013
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posted June 24, 2013 11:44 PM
thats it?IP: Logged |
Sashar Knowflake Posts: 344 From: Alternate timeline future Registered: Mar 2012
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posted June 25, 2013 12:39 AM
Oh! I gotcha. Ive dated practically nothing but Leos, or people with Venus in Leo. 12 out of 12, either was a Leo or had their Venus in Leo. My husband for 10 years was a Leo too. So, let me think... hmmm... They are the sun in which you orbit. You can be a planet or a binary star, but -you- orbit -him-. And you will enjoy it, or it's not worth your time. You're already a step ahead by being so enthusiastic about wanting to know about the sign. That's the gravitational pull right there. Don't worry about getting angry with a Leo. (Unless they have a super sensitive moon or something)... they can take it. But you must never, EVER EVER wound his pride. Ever. Someone mentioned they don't like to be surrounded by debbie downers... while that may be true, they don't have a problem with dating them. Especially if they think they can make that person happy. Overemotional, no problem. They may not understand it, but they know it has something to do with them, so that's ok. Clingy, no problem. They'll let you know when they don't want you around (they are after all highly compatible to Libra). Independent, no problem, just watch for the sulky feeling neglected growling. Aggressive, awesome, they can tame you. Confident, mmmm, don't out shine them though. I've never really known them to be testers though, they're pretty straight forward. I've also never had to ask a Leo out, not sure how they react to being asked out. Probably not to bad, since it would be a big ego boost if they like you. How are you with cats? They're basically cats. I mean, Leo, lion, cat. Pet him, make him purr, keep him fed and watered, smother him with affection when he asks for it, ask for it yourself too so he doesn't feel like he's doing all the work, play with him, let him play alone, and make sure that he knows he's wanted. Pretty simple stuff. IP: Logged |
lovemeruby Knowflake Posts: 52 From: Registered: Apr 2013
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posted June 25, 2013 01:13 AM
I'm great with cats! Leave a cat alone long enough and they come sit on your lap LOL, show them you love what they got first and then let it be IP: Logged |
lovemeruby Knowflake Posts: 52 From: Registered: Apr 2013
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posted June 25, 2013 01:16 AM
And I'm confident, but timid so this moon maiden won't outshine the sun. I did notice his skin is a bit thick, just needs his space right?IP: Logged |
Sashar Knowflake Posts: 344 From: Alternate timeline future Registered: Mar 2012
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posted June 25, 2013 10:37 AM
quote: Originally posted by lovemeruby: And I'm confident, but timid so this moon maiden won't outshine the sun. I did notice his skin is a bit thick, just needs his space right?
Not as much as a Cancer. You know you, right? How sometimes you get a little moody and just want to be left alone. Well, sometimes Leo's get a little moody and just want to be reminded that they're wonderful. If you're good with cats, I don't think you'll have any problems with this guy. Make it kind of obvious that you adore him, and he'll keep coming around... either because he likes you or because he likes the attention. Either one isn't a bad sign unless he has some major issues in his chart. (Note the term adore). Also, if you don't know his birthday/year/place/and or time, go ahead and ask him. Even if you don't want him to know your interest in Astrology. They're not normally suspicious creatures, you know he's a Leo so his birthday is coming up soon which right now gives you a good excuse, and he'll be too (unconsciously) flattered by the question to wonder much about the reason behind it. Just curious is a perfectly viable excuse. Getting that info will give you more than his Sun sign to go off of. What you're going to be looking for is... his Venus sign (which'll give you a general idea if he's interested in you), his moon sign (which'll give you an idea if he's reading you're flirting right), his mars (cause if you're anything like me you want to know how he is under the sheets), and any major conflicts in his chart. Then of course you want to look at the synastry, but... right now you just want to know about him. So focus on his natal first. IP: Logged |
lovemeruby Knowflake Posts: 52 From: Registered: Apr 2013
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posted June 25, 2013 10:45 AM
So far I only know July 31st is his bday, and mine is the 13th
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CatMote Knowflake Posts: 208 From: New Britain, CT, United States Registered: Apr 2013
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posted June 25, 2013 10:59 AM
all the leo people i know in relationships are crazy. they are way too possessive of things that arent even theirs yet. all of the ones i know "fall in love" almost immediately, and it borders on (what i call) obsession. the person i live with is a leo male. he is a really close friend. however, hes crazy when it comes to women. a girl flirted with him once, a very flirty gemini, and now he thinks she likes him because they talk a lot. my piscean vibes tell me shes not interested, but hes too stubborn to hear me out. (the problem is, she is way more interested in me...). so now, im going to have to wait for my leo friend to fall out of love with her. whenever we all hang out, he tries to possess her, and being the gemini she will casually slip out of his grasp and come to me. another example. two of my friends recently just got together. one is a leo male and the other is a leo female. they too are close friends. they were interested in each other, went on a date and then the next day they were both tellin me they were in love. "shes my annastasia" is what my friend said. and its his first actual relationship too. all this silly leo drama lol. ------------------ Sun Aries Moon Pisces Mars Pisces Venus Pisces Mercury Aries Jupiter in Virgo Saturn in Aquarius Pluto in Scorpio Neptune and Uranus in Capricorn Ascendant Libra IP: Logged |
lovemeruby Knowflake Posts: 52 From: Registered: Apr 2013
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posted June 25, 2013 11:06 AM
Im cancer sun, scorpio rising, gemini moon, mercury leo, mars cancer, venus gemini I'll ask him later about his birthday stuff, I dont want to make him mad... He's quite a bit younger than I am, does that make a difference? I was born in 1985, and he'll be 20 next month lol, he's quite mature for his age though. Not as much as he thinks, but when he's ready to listen Im sure I will surprise him. I don't think he flirts with me, but Im oblivious to that all together. What does a Leo do when he flirts?IP: Logged |
lovemeruby Knowflake Posts: 52 From: Registered: Apr 2013
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posted June 25, 2013 11:29 AM
yes I talk A LOT when Im comfortable around someone and I got the feeling he thinks I'm falling for him, which is adorable! Im flattered, but it's going to take him a lifetime practically to figure me out I get a kick out of that for some reason! He did mention Im mysterious... LOL, I take that as a compliment! I've been talking a lot lately anyway, I just realized...IP: Logged |