posted August 04, 2013 05:08 PM            

Not the best title I know :/

I personally have a really hard time, I mean I know everyone does, but it takes me years (1 at least) to actually get over someone (took me months to get over a 3 week non-existent one - I'm horrible D: ). However I stick it out, and reaaalllllyyy feel it.

And then there's other people and some of my friends, whom get over someone in a couple of months, which completely amazes me, and they jump right into the next relationship.

posted August 04, 2013 05:20 PM            

Gemini Venus and Aries Mars has no time to shed tears for someone I never loved.

posted August 04, 2013 05:22 PM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
Well you almost never get over true love, it probably takes decades but it's not hard for me to get over break ups.

Gemini Venus and Aries Mars has no time to shed tears for someone I never loved.

I don't fall in love easily, believe me I try...

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posted August 04, 2013 05:34 PM            

I'm pretty straight forward if I genuinely like someone.

posted August 04, 2013 06:36 PM            

Well, the same still applies!

The more watery a chart, the more difficult it is.
Fixed signs aren't good at letting go.
A prominent Saturn, Pluto & Moon will make it difficult to let go and move on.

posted August 04, 2013 07:33 PM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
Well you almost never get over true love, it probably takes decades but it's not hard for me to get over break ups.

Gemini Venus and Aries Mars has no time to shed tears for someone I never loved.

I don't fall in love easily, believe me I try...

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posted August 04, 2013 11:07 PM            

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Originally posted by Nicole401:
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I personally have a really hard time, I mean I know everyone does, but it takes me years (1 at least) to actually get over someone (took me months to get over a 3 week non-existent one - I'm horrible D: ). However I stick it out, and reaaalllllyyy feel it.

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I'm exactly the same. It's a curse!
I attribute it to my Scorpio (Sun & Venus) and my Taurus moon. All fixed. I love deeply and hurt for a long time after breakups.

posted August 04, 2013 11:31 PM            

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Originally posted by acousticbob:
I'm exactly the same. It's a curse!
I attribute it to my Scorpio (Sun & Venus) and my Taurus moon. All fixed. I love deeply and hurt for a long time after breakups.

What in your chart do you think causes it?

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Me too

posted August 05, 2013 08:34 AM            

But what a timing! (this thread)

*I* broke up with mine yesterday, or specif. such an 14 hours ago now. And believe me I cried waterfalls this night and I f*** loved this guy I swear. It was Mutual, otherwise I can't love like that. But well circumstances circum.. cir..!! I had no choice really (there was already some steam for 2 days btw)

I just looked at the transits.. my gosh! Our most strongest geometry (the *double iron butterfly*) heavily touched by T. CHIRON/URANUS/SUN/VENUS/MARS/NN pffffft!

In-there the transiting Uranus-Mars square made a T-square to his tight natal Neptune/Venus conjunction.
T. Uranus also conjunct my natal Chiron/Eris in the butterfly.
We needed some *space*? Probably both yess!
But space means to me an irreparable SPLIT. Don't ask me why, it simply IS. I'm very fixed myself with Leo-Sun & Scorp-Moon.

Ok, let's not forget the good news

I feel pretty relieved! And this is not something I'm used to.. (very fixed chart altogether me). Ok, not knowing ofcourse what the upcoming days will bring emotionally .. but maybe it's something which the transits also confirm.. breakups don't have to be THAT terrible?? (even if you're normally verry prone to longgggggterm pain and not coming over the whole stuff)

I'll keep in touch to likely confirm the best of 2 worlds

posted August 05, 2013 11:02 AM            

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Originally posted by mir:
Btw, according to magi-astro we have some GRREAT Cinderella transits during-this-forever-separation both (connected to our already established Cinderella *iron but*), .. could be great to 'settle' something like this. Who knows

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Unbelievable. I just read on one of their sites that a divorce/separation under Cinderella transits - which we have now, and even the strongest we ever had at-the-same-time + connected to our already settled Cinderella iron butterfly - is really the best you can have as it makes the separation less traumatic/dramatic. They even state that Cinderella transits are very helpful to break the spell of a 'captivation' while bringing you closer to everyone who is good for you and pushing away the ones bad for you.

Interesting. Verrrry interesting, although it sounds a bit negative, but well..

I *AM* impressed, whatever words they use.
(mainly by the less traumatic part).

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written during my tear waterfall (after the final 'war') I feel it's suitable to underline the above with my last text words to him, also as a matter of processing and to keep the words forever in the LL archives if you don't mind;

I will never ever ever ever ever forget you too darling... never.. *crying* *crying*... I will never ever forget my *love*, my *sweety*.. my *everything* ..x jezxzxz

posted August 05, 2013 01:43 PM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:

Gemini Venus and Aries Mars has no time to shed tears for someone I never loved.

I don't fall in love easily, believe me I try...

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I have those two, takes 3 months on average for me, whether that's a long time or not, I don't know.

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:

The more watery a chart, the more difficult it is.
Fixed signs aren't good at letting go.
A prominent Saturn, Pluto & Moon will make it difficult to let go and move on.

Uranus, Mercury, Jupiter & Air in general may find it easier to move on and look for something new / better.

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Originally posted by acousticbob:

So Taurus placements seem to be a recurring theme with a splash of water sign placements thrown in for added sensitivity?

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posted September 05, 2013 01:30 PM            

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Originally posted by Nicole401:
My question is, is the way you deal/cope with breakups shown in your chart?

Not the best title I know :/

I personally have a really hard time, I mean I know everyone does, but it takes me years (1 at least) to actually get over someone (took me months to get over a 3 week non-existent one - I'm horrible D: ). However I stick it out, and reaaalllllyyy feel it.

And then there's other people and some of my friends, whom get over someone in a couple of months, which completely amazes me, and they jump right into the next relationship.

I'm just here like, how can you do that? Did you even care about your ex in the first place?

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Well I've only had a really hard time with a break-up once. It was my first true love, and I don't think I ever move completely on to be honest. If I meet him some random day in the future, I still think my heart will leap 3 times and if he ever asked me on a date I would still go. I don't know why, I will always have a soft spot for this guy, it's horrible. It's 6 years ago, really, and I still kinda compare potential guys with him. He was a scorpio guy with cancer moon and capricorn venus.
I've had many relationship since him, and also long lasting ones, but somehow it has never really been hard to get over them the same way. I really cried at lot and felt awful but it was always me ending it, so I never really cared that much to be honest.
After the break up with the scorpio guy I was single for 3 years, but already a week after our break up I kissed some random guy, probably becuse I was so hurted I didn't know what to do. It was the worst thing I ever did in my life, and I still regret it. I obviously wanted him back, and kept hoping for years, but nothing ever happened and now he has a new girlfriend. SO that story ends there!

posted September 05, 2013 01:37 PM            

It's kind of on or off -- the famous (or infamous) Scorpio "black and white" view of things. And I guess Virgo makes it practical. Once it's over, it's over. I may brood for weeks afterward, but there will be no more calls or emails, no trying to get back together. If there was anything worth hanging on to, there wouldn't have been a breakup in the first place. It's time to move on.

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Sun signs don't tell the whole story. Every sign has good and bad traits.
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