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Topic: Why did this leo man dump me? Anything in his chart that might say something?
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jojo22 Newflake Posts: 5 From: Chicago, IL, USA Registered: Sep 2013
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posted September 04, 2013 08:41 PM
ok my leo ex and i dated for a year and a half. We met eachother a few months before his mother passed away. I was 21 and he was 19. Everything was going completely fine when we dating. He really helped me out with a lot of things. He prob was the most helpful boyfriend/person in my life. He talked bout us moving in together and even having kids one day.His only major problem was the he smokes weed EVERY SINGLE DAY. I begged him to cut down but he said he couldnt cuz he gets nervous a lot and the weed calms him down. My only problem was the i got pretty clingy in the relationship. I was also his first girlfriend.Anways the problems started to happen around the 9 month of dating..He said hes working late, he used to get out of work at 6 and then he told me now he gets out at 8:30..things started to get weird.. Anways one day me, him, and our friends were drinking one night. My bf passes out and his friend/ co worker started telling me how my bf goes clubbing with him from time to time and how he has lied to me about how he couldnt hang out on a certain day, he was actaully drinking with his friends... i confronted my bf about everything, he then went into a rage, started screaming saying that im not normal and all that... He completey ignored me the rest of that day and the next day. The day after he finally called me and asked to see him.. When i saw him he told me he had been lying alot within half of our relationship. He basically lied bout things just to hang out with his friends and smoke. He told me he did coke a few times, and went clubbing 4 times...all of this behind my back! But then he started saying "i just cant be in a relationship and i dont want to be in one". So i told him to give me back stuff i left at his house and he said he will the next day. The next day i saw him i made the biggest mistake, i started crying really bad, asking him why the sudden change of heart and how u couldve done all of this to me... He began saying he lost feelings for me 6 months ago and didnt break up with me then cuz he said he was too attached. But he reminded me its over, he has no feeelings, nothing! but he said he really wanted to be friends. He called me a week after but i didnt answer. However we texted eachother 3 weeks ago and he seemed happy to talk to me but then he started talking bout sex and i b#tched at him, saying "if you talking to me for sex then dont talk to me at all" then he started apologizing like crazy. Then i text him a week after that, just saying hows everything, was a short convo. And text happy bday and his bday and just had a normal convo. However i havent heard from in 2 weeks. My question is, why did he break up with me all of a sudden? What possibly was going through his mind? his chart Ascendant: Gemini '19 Sun:leo '28 Moon:taurus '22 mercury:leo '9 Venus:virgo '16 Mars:gemini '16 he has venus square mars.....venus trine Uranus, venus square ascendant, venus sextile pluto. My placements: Ascendant: Leo '4 Sun isces '13 Moon:scorpio '3 Mercury isces '16 Venus:aries '12 Mars:gemini '15
I have venus square Uranus, venus sextile mars , venus square neptune, venus trine ascendent PLEASE, any feedback?
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StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 3916 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted September 04, 2013 08:46 PM
He just doesn't sound like a very nice guy. He's not relationship material. Maybe as a friend, but nothing serious. He is not trustworthy.IP: Logged |
peachbeigeblue Knowflake Posts: 3280 From: Registered: Apr 2012
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posted September 04, 2013 09:03 PM
He sounds immature. I am a Leo with a Taurus moon with a Gemini Venus and was thinking "this sounds like me when i was younger" until i finally saw his placements. (I also have the sun square moon) I always put my friends first and would barely even date for a long time because i would have rather been there for my friends. I didn't start to grow out of that until about 22ish until I started to get seriously ready to start a forever kind of relationship. You're better off. He needs to grow up. IP: Logged |
SDragon Knowflake Posts: 122 From: Toronto, Ontario, Canada Registered: Sep 2012
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posted September 04, 2013 09:06 PM
Agreed. I know a lot of the stuff had been happening behind your back so to speak but now that it's full in your face, the question is what are you willing to accept because that will tell you how much you truly value yourself.I'm not sure you should even care why he dumped you but be thankful that he did. Best of luck. IP: Logged |
jojo22 Newflake Posts: 5 From: Chicago, IL, USA Registered: Sep 2013
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posted September 04, 2013 09:12 PM
listen guys.. i would never go back to him, i just wanted to know why he wanted to break up so badly if he seemed so attached to me, im just a little confused, so yea and just wanted to see if theres something in his chart that explains his immature behavior..
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StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 3916 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted September 04, 2013 09:15 PM
quote: Originally posted by jojo22: listen guys.. i would never go back to him, i just wanted to know why he wanted to break up so badly if he seemed so attached to me, im just a little confused, so yea and just wanted to see if theres something in his chart that explains his immature behavior..
He's got Venus and Mars square in mutable signs and Mars is on his ascendant but in house 12 of self undoing and sabotage. He sabotaged your his relationship, looks like.
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SDragon Knowflake Posts: 122 From: Toronto, Ontario, Canada Registered: Sep 2012
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posted September 04, 2013 09:18 PM
Venus trine Uranus can tend to have infatuations that start quick but end just as fast. Being young and immature would definitely not help that aspect.IP: Logged |
jojo22 Newflake Posts: 5 From: Chicago, IL, USA Registered: Sep 2013
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posted September 04, 2013 09:20 PM
thanks! i would also like to know if theres anything in my chart that may cause any trouble in my relationships?IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 3916 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted September 04, 2013 09:22 PM
You have Venus square Neptune and Neptune is your sun ruler. People could try to deceive you IP: Logged |
jojo22 Newflake Posts: 5 From: Chicago, IL, USA Registered: Sep 2013
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posted September 04, 2013 09:24 PM
oh that sounds very familiar. My friends and family have all told me that i am a very intelligent person BUT when it comes to relationships its the complete opposite. I hate it IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 3916 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted September 04, 2013 09:28 PM
quote: Originally posted by jojo22: oh that sounds very familiar. My friends and family have all told me that i am a very intelligent person BUT when it comes to relationships its the complete opposite. I hate it
I am like that too about relationships. If I believe I have found true love and someone I know says something about it, I feel like they are against me and just want me to be miserable so they are trying to break up my relationship. I don't have tense aspects from Venus to Uranus and Neptune, just a square from Saturn and Mars is mostly alone in the third except for one square with a wider orb. IP: Logged |
SDragon Knowflake Posts: 122 From: Toronto, Ontario, Canada Registered: Sep 2012
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posted September 04, 2013 09:29 PM
With your pisces placements and venus square neptune you need to be very careful not to be in a relationship because you want to save the other person from themselves.IP: Logged |
jojo22 Newflake Posts: 5 From: Chicago, IL, USA Registered: Sep 2013
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posted September 04, 2013 09:31 PM
yea i hate it btw in my ex's chart is there anything that could indicate that hes abusive? He's never hit me but he was extremely aggressive towards me..IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 3916 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted September 04, 2013 09:41 PM
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StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 3916 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted September 04, 2013 09:41 PM
Nothing jumps out, just the square between Venus and Mars. Leo sun is a powerful placement so just having the sun in Leo can make someone more assertive than having the sun in sign like Libra.IP: Logged |
FruitTreeFresh Knowflake Posts: 173 From: Registered: Aug 2013
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posted September 04, 2013 11:21 PM
Leo man needs to be trapped. Lol that's what I think.IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 32053 From: Saturn next to Charmainec Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 05, 2013 11:53 AM
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Zander916 Knowflake Posts: 529 From: Mercury Registered: Aug 2013
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posted September 05, 2013 01:23 PM
Yeah that sounds a little familiar. I went through a little period like that about 10 years ago. Not smoking weed or lying - just his attitude. He felt trapped and didn't want to give up his freedom. He probably felt afraid that he was getting in too deep without having had any other girlfriends. He probably did just stick around for the sex and to him the break up wasn't sudden. In his mind he had kind of done it months ago while lying to you and you were left blindsided with a "sudden" breakup". He was likely very annoyed for having to lie and for having to come back at such and such time because that's what he told you the time was. Eventually he broke up to not have to bother lying and could truly do what he wants. He was incredibly selfish. I think you're better off just moving on and don't look back. Things might change years later, not that you should wait of course, but they won't change any time soon. I've seen sudden changes like that but it was people in their 30's or older. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 32053 From: Saturn next to Charmainec Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 05, 2013 03:53 PM
Moving to Personal Readings.IP: Logged |