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Topic: Which venus/mars/sun combos loves to be chased, which cant stand it?
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Gabby Knowflake Posts: 1795 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted November 12, 2013 05:04 PM
Esp with guys....i would think being chased isnt their favorite thing, but i know there are some that just love it! Which love it and which hate it.....i have libra venus, gemini mars, saggy sun...i dont like to be chased to hard, i get scared and want to disappear but i dont want to chase to much either! LOL I just want a slow steady pace....thats all im comfortable with! IP: Logged |
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 6970 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted November 12, 2013 05:24 PM
Venus in aries is persistent but we already know that.as for me. Venus in Gemini Mars in aries. If you're an interesting person I'm up for anything, I can play a game and win it too or at least let them think they won. I'm never thirsty for anyone and this usually gives me the upper hand. The more witty and clever they are the receptive I am. If I find them really really endearing yet shy I try encourage them to be more confident. I think it takes a lot of guts to approach me, I'm not always the most warm and friendly person. Anyways I like a bit of a back and forth, there needs to be some nice chemistry between us.
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Gabby Knowflake Posts: 1795 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted November 12, 2013 05:40 PM
Venus in Aries i would think would prefer being the aggressor...does it turn you off if someone pursues you?IP: Logged |
12muddy Knowflake Posts: 997 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted November 12, 2013 05:44 PM
cap sun/venus, Taurus mars. No I don't like to be chased, it's annoying. If I like them, they won't have to chase at all. IP: Logged |
libraschoice77 Knowflake Posts: 1367 From: past, present, and future Registered: Aug 2010
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posted November 12, 2013 06:03 PM
Dont like being chased either, even with all my water placements I have always prefered doing the chasing. If I dont feel an ounce of attraction for someone it doesnt matter how much they chase me, I dont budge. But when my desire is set on fire, watch out, I will be in hott pursuit! Venus/Virgo, Mars/Cancer, Sun/Libra IP: Logged |
Gabby Knowflake Posts: 1795 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted November 12, 2013 06:04 PM
quote: Originally posted by 12muddy: cap sun/venus, Taurus mars. No I don't like to be chased, it's annoying. If I like them, they won't have to chase at all.
Taurus and Cap......wow, i bet they dont have to wonder if you like them! Extremely picky though....? IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 5484 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 12, 2013 06:07 PM
I think people only want to be chased by those they don't like too much and will chase those they really want to be with regardless of where Venus and Mars are.IP: Logged |
earthypisces Knowflake Posts: 359 From: Greenville, South Carolina Registered: Jan 2012
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posted November 12, 2013 06:08 PM
I will *only* date people that chase after me, because I sure as hell am not going to do the chasing. Maybe my Venus conjunct Uranus? Hmm...I have: 11th house Pisces Sun 9th house Capricorn Venus 4th house Leo Mars (retrograde) ------------------ Pisces Sun Capricorn Moon/Venus Taurus Ascendant Aquarius Mercury Leo Mars IP: Logged |
12muddy Knowflake Posts: 997 From: Registered: Feb 2013
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posted November 12, 2013 06:08 PM
no they don't. I do most of the worshipping. nah, not "picky", more like very particular about my own feelings. It's hit and miss. If it doesn't "feel" right, there is no way in hell any spark can happen. Attraction usually happens immediately, or it doesn't happen at all. IP: Logged |
Gabby Knowflake Posts: 1795 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted November 12, 2013 06:09 PM
quote: Originally posted by libraschoice77: Dont like being chased either, even with all my water placements I have always prefered doing the chasing. If I dont feel an ounce of attraction for someone it doesnt matter how much they chase me, I dont budge. But when my desire is set on fire, watch out, I will be in hott pursuit! Venus/Virgo, Mars/Cancer, Sun/Libra
Me either...if its not there the second i meet you, it will never be there!
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Gabby Knowflake Posts: 1795 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted November 12, 2013 06:14 PM
quote: Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme: I think people only want to be chased by those they don't like too much and will chase those they really want to be with regardless of where Venus and Mars are.
I dont want to chase anyone....and i only mildly want to be chased...i guess i prefer we both work a little at it. But libra venus is about balance and gemini mars needs something back in order to keep interest alive! Like if ive called someone, i wait for them to call next time and i wont call them until they have reciprocated!
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StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 5484 From: neptune Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 12, 2013 06:17 PM
quote: Originally posted by Gabby: I dont want to chase anyone....and i only mildly want to be chased...i guess i prefer we both work a little at it.But libra venus is about balance and gemini mars needs something back in order to keep interest alive! Like if ive called someone, i wait for them to call next time and i wont call them until they have reciprocated!
I have Venus in Leo, Mars in Sagittarius and if two people both like each other they will chase each other, imo. Who wants to like someone who doesn't like them in return? Find someone who feels the same way. I guess we have the same idea!
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Gabby Knowflake Posts: 1795 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted November 12, 2013 06:18 PM
quote: Originally posted by earthypisces: I will *only* date people that chase after me, because I sure as hell am not going to do the chasing. Maybe my Venus conjunct Uranus? Hmm...I have: 11th house Pisces Sun 9th house Capricorn Venus 4th house Leo Mars (retrograde)
LOL....i think its that leo mars wants to be worshiped and shown grand gestures of devotion before exerting any of their precious energy into someone else! They must qualify themselves as worthy! IP: Logged |
Gabby Knowflake Posts: 1795 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted November 12, 2013 06:21 PM
quote: Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme: [QUOTE]Originally posted by Gabby: [b] I dont want to chase anyone....and i only mildly want to be chased...i guess i prefer we both work a little at it.But libra venus is about balance and gemini mars needs something back in order to keep interest alive! Like if ive called someone, i wait for them to call next time and i wont call them until they have reciprocated!
I have Venus in Leo, Mars in Sagittarius and if two people both like each other they will chase each other, imo. Who wants to like someone who doesn't like them in return? Find someone who feels the same way. I guess we have the same idea![/B][/QUOTE] Yes, meet me in the middle!! Maybe its our venus's, they both like to get attention just as much as give it! I love catering to someone as long as i feel appreciated! IP: Logged |
earthypisces Knowflake Posts: 359 From: Greenville, South Carolina Registered: Jan 2012
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posted November 12, 2013 06:21 PM
quote: Originally posted by Gabby: LOL....i think its that leo mars wants to be worshiped and shown grand gestures of devotion before exerting any of their precious energy into someone else! They must qualify themselves as worthy!
Haha! It's kind of true. I'm always willing to give people a chance if they show interest, though. But I usually know pretty quickly if the interest is mutual or not. ------------------ Pisces Sun Capricorn Moon/Venus Taurus Ascendant Aquarius Mercury Leo Mars IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy Knowflake Posts: 3357 From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron) Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 12, 2013 06:24 PM
If no one chases me like a missle then there's no chance I'll ever have a boyfriend lol. But of course I would have to be attracted too. Otherwise it would be a pain in the ass. I'm not hungry for male attention. My combo is Aquarius/Taurus/Capricorn.------------------ I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy. IP: Logged |
libraschoice77 Knowflake Posts: 1367 From: past, present, and future Registered: Aug 2010
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posted November 12, 2013 06:28 PM
quote: Originally posted by Gabby: Me either...if its not there the second i meet you, it will never be there!
True, if I didnt chase then I found myself either alone or with super annoying guys after me. Sometimes you have to go after what or who you want. IP: Logged |
ail221 Moderator Posts: 3791 From: Hanging Gardens of Babylon Registered: Feb 2012
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posted November 12, 2013 06:48 PM
I liked to be chased at a steady pace. Actually I'd change the word chased to courted. When I think of Chase I think of street harassment, so...... yeah courted at a steady pace. I don't chase men .Gemini/Taurus/Cancer IP: Logged |
MsPrism Knowflake Posts: 1037 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted November 12, 2013 06:57 PM
Venus - Gemini - 3rd House Mars - Aquarius - 11th House Sun - Taurus - 1st HouseI don't like being chased and I always know exactly what I want when I see it but I have to have time to decide. I think it's just that the type of guy I want tends to be magnetic so I have to be the one to approach. Story time: It's my lunch break and I'm walking out of my building to cross the street into the business center plaza. I don't want to walk through a lot of people so instead of going straight through the plaza I decide to go around it. I don't usually notice anything surrounding me while I'm outside but I feel someone looking so I glance up to find a stranger staring. This man is taller, lanky, dark hair and casually dressed but it's his eyes that I'm instantly glued to. I literally feel like I cannot look away. He has a blank expression on his face but those eyes are frigging blazing! There's some sort of penetrating quality to them. It's like I've discovered myself naked but he's the only one that can tell. It felt like a dance almost, I'm circling to avoid the plaza and he's circling toward it and it feels like there is nothing but us in some weird bizarro world. All of a sudden, his blank expression comes to life with a slow, wide smile. His whole face lights up with some dark glee. My intuition says "He's a shark." I'm scared of him! The Aries within is astounded "How dare he make me afraid in broad friggin daylight!" Oh I was furious! All the time, this smile. Like he knows something I do not and like he won't do anything unless I do something first. This sort of calculated victory feels imminent and I'm going to be the loser. His whole demeanor screams "Come into the alley with me. . . " I'm so terrified because he's pulling on some strings that NO one pulls. It's like I have some deep monster that wants to come charging out with uncontrollable animal desire. The worst part is that he's looking at me as if saying "I can see what you want." Me = PFFFFFAALKDFALDK NALKAJDFL; ACK! I can't turn my head to gaze at this hideous creature any further and the connection breaks. The fire in me screams "TURN AROUND! GO SAY SOMETHING!" I cooly reply "I am practical and he is a stranger." Raging now "You're making a mistake. Go back!" It's embarrassing for me to say this but I actually turn around to look. *shame* But he's gone. ------------ Now that is how much I have to want the person, no amount of sexy stranger eyes will make me do what I don't already want to. I regret not saying something so much though! LOL IP: Logged |
DaniPepper87 Knowflake Posts: 555 From: Curitiba, Brasil Registered: Sep 2013
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posted November 12, 2013 07:01 PM
Venus in Sag here, and yes, I chased a lot. And I was chased recently, and I loved that. I'mm retire my Venus here! BTW, I have Sun in Scorpio and Mars in Libra. IP: Logged |
Gabby Knowflake Posts: 1795 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted November 12, 2013 07:17 PM
quote: Originally posted by MsPrism: Venus - Gemini - 3rd House Mars - Aquarius - 11th House Sun - Taurus - 1st HouseI don't like being chased and I always know exactly what I want when I see it but I have to have time to decide. I think it's just that the type of guy I want tends to be magnetic so I have to be the one to approach. Story time: It's my lunch break and I'm walking out of my building to cross the street into the business center plaza. I don't want to walk through a lot of people so instead of going straight through the plaza I decide to go around it. I don't usually notice anything surrounding me while I'm outside but I feel someone looking so I glance up to find a stranger staring. This man is taller, lanky, dark hair and casually dressed but it's his eyes that I'm instantly glued to. I literally feel like I cannot look away. He has a blank expression on his face but those eyes are frigging blazing! There's some sort of penetrating quality to them. It's like I've discovered myself naked but he's the only one that can tell. It felt like a dance almost, I'm circling to avoid the plaza and he's circling toward it and it feels like there is nothing but us in some weird bizarro world. All of a sudden, his blank expression comes to life with a slow, wide smile. His whole face lights up with some dark glee. My intuition says "He's a shark." I'm scared of him! The Aries within is astounded "How dare he make me afraid in broad friggin daylight!" Oh I was furious! All the time, this smile. Like he knows something I do not and like he won't do anything unless I do something first. This sort of calculated victory feels imminent and I'm going to be the loser. His whole demeanor screams "Come into the alley with me. . . " I'm so terrified because he's pulling on some strings that NO one pulls. It's like I have some deep monster that wants to come charging out with uncontrollable animal desire. The worst part is that he's looking at me as if saying "I can see what you want." Me = PFFFFFAALKDFALDK NALKAJDFL; ACK! I can't turn my head to gaze at this hideous creature any further and the connection breaks. The fire in me screams "TURN AROUND! GO SAY SOMETHING!" I cooly reply "I am practical and he is a stranger." Raging now "You're making a mistake. Go back!" It's embarrassing for me to say this but I actually turn around to look. *shame* But he's gone. ------------ Now that is how much I have to want the person, no amount of sexy stranger eyes will make me do what I don't already want to. I regret not saying something so much though! LOL
LOL....good writing! Keep your fingers crossed you'll see him again! IP: Logged |
Gabby Knowflake Posts: 1795 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted November 12, 2013 07:36 PM
quote: Originally posted by I'm so cappy: If no one chases me like a missle then there's no chance I'll ever have a boyfriend lol. But of course I would have to be attracted too. Otherwise it would be a pain in the ass. I'm not hungry for male attention. My combo is Aquarius/Taurus/Capricorn.
it is a pain when they chase and wont quit....its not flattering just annoying! IP: Logged |
Gabby Knowflake Posts: 1795 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted November 12, 2013 07:38 PM
quote: Originally posted by ail221: I liked to be chased at a steady pace. Actually I'd change the word chased to courted. When I think of Chase I think of street harassment, so...... yeah courted at a steady pace. I don't chase men .Gemini/Taurus/Cancer
Court is a better word than chase! IP: Logged |
Gabby Knowflake Posts: 1795 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted November 12, 2013 07:40 PM
quote: Originally posted by DaniPepper87: Venus in Sag here, and yes, I chased a lot. And I was chased recently, and I loved that. I'mm retire my Venus here! BTW, I have Sun in Scorpio and Mars in Libra.
Really saggys in venus chase a lot? Hmmmm, i wouldnt have thought that! Good to know though! TY IP: Logged |
nove731 Knowflake Posts: 177 From: Registered: Jun 2009
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posted November 12, 2013 08:05 PM
I like being chased, but I've come to find that it's easier to chase. Mostly because I have too much of a tendency to idealize men, and I find that a lot easier to do when I'm letting him make all the moves.When I'm doing the chasing, though, I have more of an ability to set the tone, and embarrassingly enough, I really enjoy the opportunity to make grand gestures, hah I have: Sun in Aries (7th) Venus in Pisces (6th) Mars in Aquarius (5th) ------------------ Sun -> Aries Moon -> Sagittarius Ascendant -> Virgo IP: Logged |