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Topic: Do Sag males have a rep for being unfaithful?
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AriesCambriaBurningStar4 Newflake Posts: 22 From: usa Registered: Dec 2013
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posted December 10, 2013 08:11 PM
or is their charming, flirty, and carefree attitude just a part of their personality? Let me know any of your experiences with a Sag male IP: Logged |
Josh LA Knowflake Posts: 76 From: Dale City, Va Registered: Nov 2013
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posted December 10, 2013 08:25 PM
Its part of their personality but not all Saggies are like this. I am a Sadge and sometimes im like this and the next instant im the one hiding in the corner of the room. Depends on our comfort level.IP: Logged |
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 7548 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted December 10, 2013 08:28 PM
Actually a lot of them can be obsessive and controlling when they have feelings for you.. It's weird because they expect freedom lol. I guess they can be players too but I think people from any sign can be one.IP: Logged |
Josh LA Knowflake Posts: 76 From: Dale City, Va Registered: Nov 2013
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posted December 10, 2013 08:33 PM
Haha well controlling and obessive idk that may be kinda rare but I may just be speaking about myself my chart may tell a different story though doesn't help that my moon is in Cap and my chinese sign is The Snake.IP: Logged |
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 7548 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012
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posted December 10, 2013 08:41 PM
Idk how that's strange I mean sag produces plenty of psychopathic killers. I don't see how being obsessive and controlling is really that uncharacteristic. I mean sure they are charming and flirty with pretty much everyone, I suppose they can be unfaithful if in their mind they feel this is just a fling. A lot of them seem really hypocritical and unbalanced they have these perfect ideals but do not actually follow any of them lol. IP: Logged |
Josh LA Knowflake Posts: 76 From: Dale City, Va Registered: Nov 2013
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posted December 10, 2013 09:11 PM
Did someone say strange? You also with that just described a Pisces.IP: Logged |
Padre35 Knowflake Posts: 2850 From: Asheville, NC, US Registered: Jul 2012
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posted December 10, 2013 09:29 PM
I'm a Saggie, and no, never have been unfaithfulHowever...accusations FLY my way at times, mostly b/c Saggie builds rapport quickly and it can get flirty, but no real intention behind it. IP: Logged |
PixieJane Moderator Posts: 3383 From: CA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted December 10, 2013 10:06 PM
One Sag male I knew was faithful BUT it wouldn't take too much grief for him to leave a girl to find greener pastures...but he was a teenager (presumably he has more patience today). My dad is a Sag and though he has many faults he always lived up to his obligations...well, maybe not emotional, but if he cheated on Mom I'd be surprised (despite that Mom cheated on him) and he faithfully showed up to work and paid his bills anyway. But Mom screwed him so bad in the divorce that he never got married again and now (or at least the last I checked years ago) always kept girls who were young & dumb and he's clear that he's not interested in another marriage, and if any of his girl toys think they can change his mind then that's their problem. Nevertheless, he does keep the promises he does make to them (I think he's more of a sugar daddy). IP: Logged |
Venusian Moon Knowflake Posts: 1241 From: Nyc Registered: Feb 2013
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posted December 10, 2013 10:14 PM
I wouldn't say unfaithful but commitment phobes yes. But it depends who they click with.------------------ Gemini sun 12th.(Gemini/cancer cusp) Cancer asc 1st Taurus moon 11th Taurus venus 11th Libra mars 3rd Gemini mercury 11th IP: Logged |
AriesCambriaBurningStar4 Newflake Posts: 22 From: usa Registered: Dec 2013
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posted December 11, 2013 11:21 AM
thanks everyone for sharing your stories id love to hear more to give a little background on our relationship... Ive known him for a little over a year now...we met through odd circumstances and i actually ended a 5yr relationship to begin a new one with this guy....i felt that strongly towards him..it feels as if im looking into a mirror sometimes..ive always read that aries and sag were great together but ive never had the opportunity to date one lol....i have had maaaaannnnyyy best friends who shared the same sign though ..anyways..We get along great most of the time...although sometimes my insecurities get in the way..but when were together we always know how to make eachother smile and can read eachothers minds...what advice can you give a sometimes jealous and overbearing aries female for dealing with a charming freedom-loving sag? lol he is the intellectual type who will conversate with anyone and attempts to educate the world..im more on the shy side, wishing i was as confident as him..its not that im not attractive, i am..its just i guess i have a fear of being rejected for whatever reason..and have low self esteem..i have venus in pisces and tend to be overly sensitive sometimes ..but he will talk to me about it so it helps...he always knows how to make me feel better-like im someone special IP: Logged |
malicefey Knowflake Posts: 275 From: NY Registered: Sep 2011
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posted December 11, 2013 03:29 PM
My bf of 6 years is a sag. One of my best friend is a sag male. They are faithful guys, it is just that they are charming and carefree that sometimes people might take it wrong. But there is no doubt that they are faithful -- they just have to meet the right one. My sag male friend always said that if and when he meets the right girl, then there is and will be nobody else...and he expects the same from her. My bf is the same. I'm a libra so I also can be a little loose with my words but it doesn't mean I am flirting with people. As for controlling and obsessive...I guess a little. Not controlling in a way that you would normally think, but more like...taking lead and getting what you want-type. My sag bf has a Scorpio mars, and he can get a bit demanding but it is all underneath the surface. Subtle but demanding. He likes to get what he wants....and he will get it. Lol Same with my male sag friend. A poor example--him buying a condo. He has been eyeing one for god knows how long, and he said that he will get it. The guy saved up years for it and never lost sight of his goal. Even if you sat there and told him there's a better house for free he would not even bend the slightest. IP: Logged |
AriesCambriaBurningStar4 Newflake Posts: 22 From: usa Registered: Dec 2013
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posted December 11, 2013 04:13 PM
@pixiejaneyeah thats how my sag says he is..that he would just up and leave if he felt the need...not cheat..but hes very popular and very attention seeking ..which tends to make me uneasy at times..even when i try to be more accepting..thank you for sharing! IP: Logged |
AriesCambriaBurningStar4 Newflake Posts: 22 From: usa Registered: Dec 2013
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posted December 11, 2013 04:14 PM
quote: Originally posted by PixieJane: One Sag male I knew was faithful BUT it wouldn't take too much grief for him to leave a girl to find greener pastures...but he was a teenager (presumably he has more patience today). My dad is a Sag and though he has many faults he always lived up to his obligations...well, maybe not emotional, but if he cheated on Mom I'd be surprised (despite that Mom cheated on him) and he faithfully showed up to work and paid his bills anyway. But Mom screwed him so bad in the divorce that he never got married again and now (or at least the last I checked years ago) always kept girls who were young & dumb and he's clear that he's not interested in another marriage, and if any of his girl toys think they can change his mind then that's their problem. Nevertheless, he does keep the promises he does make to them (I think he's more of a sugar daddy).
yeah thats how my sag says he is..that he would just up and leave if he felt the need...not cheat..but hes very popular and very attention seeking ..which tends to make me uneasy at times..even when i try to be more accepting..thank you for sharing! IP: Logged |
NeptunianSag Knowflake Posts: 330 From: Your imagination Registered: Aug 2013
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posted December 11, 2013 04:18 PM
Sag ascendant men are great heartbreakers, I'm pretty sure their job is to just collect hearts and put them in jars. IP: Logged |
LovelyKitty Knowflake Posts: 323 From: 12th House with pr.moon Registered: Jun 2012
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posted December 12, 2013 07:37 AM
quote: Originally posted by NeptunianSag: Sag ascendant men are great heartbreakers, I'm pretty sure their job is to just collect hearts and put them in jars.
I hope this couldn't embeded in his DNa... my ex is Leo sun and sagg AC , it's lucky that he told what he think direct from his mouth. One day he said ... he couldn't lie to me but if the things get tough , he might have a fling that can release his tension . It's so good that he's just an ex ! Correct me people!! If I'm wrong ! IP: Logged |
Rosalind Knowflake Posts: 2509 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted December 12, 2013 07:43 AM
Are we gonna take and analyze men of all signs? Sounds cool!IP: Logged |
Odette Knowflake Posts: 3016 From: Registered: May 2012
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posted December 12, 2013 07:55 AM
They avoid commitment so they are rarely "unfaithful".Once they are in a relationship.. which doesn't happen often lol.. If they became interested in someone else.. they would probably end their current rel. before they moved on. Sagittarius (as a sign) has a reputation for being bluntly honest - not unfaithful. Some Sags are philanderers but it's uncommon for them to hide it under a facade... or to pretend they are faithful whilst being with other women. They would let you know where you stand with them. But his Sun sign alone won't describe his entire personality. IP: Logged |
summerlite Knowflake Posts: 206 From: Registered: Nov 2013
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posted December 12, 2013 08:00 AM
quote: Originally posted by LovelyKitty: I hope this couldn't embeded in his DNa... my ex is Leo sun and sagg AC , it's lucky that he told what he think direct from his mouth. One day he said ... he couldn't lie to me but if the things get tough , he might have a fling that can release his tension . It's so good that he's just an ex ! Correct me people!! If I'm wrong !
Sags aren't unfaithful. If they are done with you, they are done with you. That's just the Sag Asc trying to be blunt about your relationship. IP: Logged |
Rosalind Knowflake Posts: 2509 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted December 12, 2013 08:00 AM
quote: Originally posted by Odette: They avoid commitment so they are rarely "unfaithful".Once they are in a relationship.. which doesn't happen often lol.. If they became interested in someone else.. they would probably end their current rel. before they moved on. Sagittarius (as a sign) has a reputation for being bluntly honest - not unfaithful. But his Sun sign alone won't describe his entire personality.
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florence Knowflake Posts: 107 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted December 12, 2013 12:13 PM
quote: Originally posted by Kerosene: . A lot of them seem really hypocritical and unbalanced they have these perfect ideals but do not actually follow any of them lol.
this is true. i had one tell me i should be more flirtatious and fun loving. i was and he fell out with me. i stopped flirting with anyone to the point of self-isolation and it turns out he was in a relationship and mocking me for being devoted. all to *teach* me. i just had to get that out somewhere IP: Logged |
florence Knowflake Posts: 107 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted December 12, 2013 12:14 PM
quote: Originally posted by Kerosene: . A lot of them seem really hypocritical and unbalanced they have these perfect ideals but do not actually follow any of them lol.
this is true. i had one tell me i should be more flirtatious and fun loving. i was and he fell out with me. i stopped flirting with anyone to the point of self-isolation and it turns out he was in a relationship and mocking me for being devoted. all to *teach* me. i just had to get that out somewhere IP: Logged |