posted February 10, 2014 04:59 AM            

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posted February 10, 2014 06:00 AM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
Does he "tickle your brain"? Does he bore you? Are you not sexually attracted to him? What´s going on exactly?

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posted February 10, 2014 06:01 AM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
Does he "tickle your brain"? Does he bore you? Are you not sexually attracted to him? What´s going on exactly?

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posted February 10, 2014 06:56 AM            

As a Cap Moon with many many planets in Aquarius´ home I will detach on a dime if I am not mentally stimulated. Sadly this stimulation needs to be ever present or I will wilt but not many can keep up with that. Same with sex, I get bored very very quickly and then just move on.

posted February 10, 2014 08:51 AM            

For synastry, are u the one inside or outside?

posted February 10, 2014 08:53 AM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
Funny. I have a very good friend that has the exact same amount of fire in him as your man and his wife is an Aqua Sun with lots of Cap and they have same issue. She is very detached. They are great friends but he wants more warmth. Perhaps you would like some more intellectual aspects?

As a Cap Moon with many many planets in Aquarius´ home I will detach on a dime if I am not mentally stimulated. Sadly this stimulation needs to be ever present or I will wilt but not many can keep up with that. Same with sex, I get bored very very quickly and then just move on.

I think this is just mainly with you and perhaps you need to be honest and ask yourself what it is that you want and value?

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How True, Charlie.
I feel that way, somewhat.
I got a bunches of cap on my placements, that makin me detached and aloof sometimes.
And for whats happening with me and him, I believe that we're a great friends for each others, thats what i feel, and i'm sure about that.
But maybe in my case i'm the one who is seeking for some emotionally fullfillment that i don't know why that i couldn't get in my relationship with him. Just feel that something is missing, in our relationship and in some part of me.
It's weird cause it's all seems smooth, like too smooth and easy but yet it lost it's meaning, to me at least.

There was some days i told him about what i actually feel about this marriage and my feeling, like in a straightforward way as direct as i can to make it clear.
Just like, if there would be a divorce for us in the end, i'm down.
But, he always threw temper tantrum and started all drama.That makin me feel bad and guilty cause i made him that broken after hearing the truth that i feel.
So now i feel trapped, kind of.
I don't wanna lying to myself and him, and forever acting that it's all cool and great yet i don't feel that way. It scared me out to think about that kind of "forever".

We indeed didn't knowing each other for long enough of time, i got married with him after less than 6 months from our first met.

What makin me jumped into this forum is, i thought that would be something in our synastry that might be any indicator for marriage stuff like connection in 7th house thing, cause the fact is we're married now. Do you think there's anything say about this in our synastry, charlie?

lol, this is long i know, my bad. But thank you, i appreciate your help

posted February 10, 2014 09:07 AM            

Aquarius are so detached to me honestly i cant even see them loving their own mother.

posted February 10, 2014 09:13 AM            

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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
Oh. So you think they're even worse than Capricorns?

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Hell no. Cappies can be a bit cold, bossy, and naggy but they are capable of love.

posted February 10, 2014 09:16 AM            

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Originally posted by summerlite:
In composite, your stellium is mainly in 3H. It means the relationship is mainly about communication. I suppose that's why u feel a lack of chemistry.

For synastry, are u the one inside or outside?

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Is that stellium in 3rd house that you found out has a meaning that we're good in communication part?
Because i indeed have no any strong complaints on our basic communication. Since i found that our communication is okay. Though it's mostly we just like chit chattin and all, not too deep. Cause it oftenly ended up in just one-way conversation, since he rarely stating his thoughts about a specific topic we're talkin about. Then it would be an awkward end at last. But, it's not bad.
I enjoy our fun witty talk.

For the synastry, i'm the one in outside.
Tell me more about it, summerlite.
Thank you

posted February 10, 2014 09:29 AM            

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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
6 months...my brain can't comprehend it.

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posted February 10, 2014 09:51 AM            

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Originally posted by Venusian Moon:
And this is the reason why i stay away from aquarius on a romance level. They are better as friends. I feel bad for your husband. Why did u get married if u didnt feel deep feelings for him?

Aquarius are so detached to me honestly i cant even see them loving their own mother.

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Haha
Not sure of how other aquarians feel about it. Well, maybe we appear so detached and all. But, that doesn't mean we have no any feeling at all. Maybe i don't verbally expressed or so on in a lovey dovey way that even strangers would easily figure out that oh she/he really in love with someone theyre with.
To me, when i love someine, i fell so hard.
It's total.
And i express it in my own way, but i make sure that the person i fell in love with have to feel my affection. So, it's all about me and that person only.
But yeah, it's not that easy for me to get that feeling.
That's frustating me though, what a bummer.
I wanna easily feel that feeling too. lol
And for the mother part, i'm standing up and say no waaay. I love her to death. My mom and my fam

Idk, i got a lot of caps in my placement though. And mainly earth and water elements here

posted February 10, 2014 10:00 AM            

For composite,
Moon in 7H. Emotionally, both of you are working together to keep the partnership together.
Jupiter cjt NN in 6H. You two are expanding towards a common goal perhaps in work.
Venus cjt Mars and square moon.
I would say you two are in tune with each other in terms of loving needs but you often feel there's an emotional disconnection in understanding the relationship.
Sun/Mercury/Neptune sq jupiter
This is hard for me to read. Like you said, when it comes communication, when it moves on to "expansion" of topic, it becomes difficult. Perhaps you wanted to talk about future plans about working towards your goals (NN), but it becomes difficult. You find difficulty in expressing those ideals or expression of ideas.

Moon opp Pluto
There's some sort of emotional power struggle between you two.

posted February 10, 2014 10:27 AM            

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Originally posted by summerlite:
I'm still struggling with reading charts. I'll try.

For composite,
Moon in 7H. Emotionally, both of you are working together to keep the partnership together.
Jupiter cjt NN in 6H. You two are expanding towards a common goal perhaps in work.
Venus cjt Mars and square moon.
I would say you two are in tune with each other in terms of loving needs but you often feel there's an emotional disconnection in understanding the relationship.
Sun/Mercury/Neptune sq jupiter
This is hard for me to read. Like you said, when it comes communication, when it moves on to "expansion" of topic, it becomes difficult. Perhaps you wanted to talk about future plans about working towards your goals (NN), but it becomes difficult. You find difficulty in expressing those ideals or expression of ideas.

Moon opp Pluto
There's some sort of emotional power struggle between you two.

Chiron in 9H
Do you find a lack of spirituality/religion/travels in your relationship? Perhaps that can help you heal the relationship.

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Originally posted by summerlite:
I'm still struggling with reading charts. I'll try.

For composite,
Moon in 7H. Emotionally, both of you are working together to keep the partnership together.
Jupiter cjt NN in 6H. You two are expanding towards a common goal perhaps in work.
Venus cjt Mars and square moon.
I would say you two are in tune with each other in terms of loving needs but you often feel there's an emotional disconnection in understanding the relationship.
Sun/Mercury/Neptune sq jupiter
This is hard for me to read. Like you said, when it comes communication, when it moves on to "expansion" of topic, it becomes difficult. Perhaps you wanted to talk about future plans about working towards your goals (NN), but it becomes difficult. You find difficulty in expressing those ideals or expression of ideas.

Moon opp Pluto
There's some sort of emotional power struggle between you two.

Chiron in 9H
Do you find a lack of spirituality/religion/travels in your relationship? Perhaps that can help you heal the relationship.

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OMG OMG.
Summerlite!
So true. I found and feel those things in our relationship.
It's like you read it all, you nailed em.

About the spirituality/religion. We're having a different view of spiritual base. But, we're honest to each other about it, we're talkin about it But, yeah. In a level of good-to-know understanding and respect it.

I don't really get the point about the travels thing that you mentioned, summer.
But i think there's some thoughts about i kind of want to explore the world and go as far as i can go to learn lot of things, yet he is satisfied enough of his comfort and stabble place and position right now. Is that what you mean, summerlite?

Again and again, thank you so much for your help, girl

posted February 10, 2014 10:46 AM            

Believe me, I date tons of them , my father is one too and so is my roommate. it's always the same pattern with them. They're colder than fricking Alaska. I prefer to stir away from them romantically speaking since they can't get my fiery nature. They're much better being simply friends.

posted February 10, 2014 11:41 AM            

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Originally posted by Kerosene:
Get out of it before you have kids or you will be obliged to be together, otherwise you would have that guilt of breaking a part a family.
People can give you advice on how to deal but if you really don't love him than eventually you will be miserable because marriages are not glamorous if you could tell by now lol?

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posted February 10, 2014 12:18 PM            

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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
Look, marrying someone just because you get along with him and he seems to be husband material is not a good idea. Not when you ever want to be emotionally fulfilled by the relationship and not when he's in love and thinks you are too. And less than 6 months of knowing each other on top of that...In short, that was f... stupid. I hope you solve this problem, whatever that means.

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What a cappy, thanks.
Right, how naive it was when i idealizing something for a simple fairytale that things would be okay. But, i don't wanna keep looking back on the past, lesson learned.
There's always ways to solve any problem, and if it is so, i'll working on the best for each of us.
I really appreciate your great input

posted February 10, 2014 12:24 PM            

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Originally posted by SilverFeather:
Aquas = Emotional detachment at its finest.

Believe me, I date tons of them , my father is one too and so is my roommate. it's always the same pattern with them. They're colder than fricking Alaska. I prefer to stir away from them romantically speaking since they can't get my fiery nature. They're much better being simply friends.

Btw, Who the heck said Sagittarius and Aqua are a good match ??

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Well, i have some great friends who are sags.
They're cool, like for real.
Never boring.
Chucklin @ colder than frickin alaska. lol