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Topic: Do you think I would get along with a Cancer?
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I'm so cappy
Knowflake Posts: 6247
From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron)
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted May 05, 2014 03:14 PM
  
Or a Cancerian person? I have no rl experience I'm aware of and I'm curious.------------------
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Dancing Maenad
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From: The Harvest
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted May 05, 2014 03:20 PM
I don't know why, but I see you best with an Aqua or a Virgo. I think Cancers are too hypersensitive for you and you also might not like the emotional blackmail or their famous dependency issues.  Of course, not all of them are alike. My aunt has a Cancer Moon and she is smothering, much more than my own mother. She also sends this diabetic, cutesy pictures every single damn day. I mean, I appreciate the thoughtfulness and all that but just stop.. -_- ------------------
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Freesia
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posted May 05, 2014 03:26 PM
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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
Or a Cancerian person? I have no rl experience I'm aware of and I'm curious.
Oh! You deserve someone more calm and predictable... Honestly. Just my 2 cents lol
Of cource if you desire an emotional rollercoaster go ahead. Good luck anyway.
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Kerosene
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From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted May 05, 2014 03:30 PM
Hmmmm not with sag mercury, but maybe if they had leo placements,Idk I agree with Virgo and maybe aqua with cap placements. I initially thought scorpio I think they are too raunchy for you from what I gathered and how you react to certain things.
Scorpios are intense but they can be really depraved about certain things, I mean aries is sexual but its more of like an innocent child like enthusiasm in which you can easily distract them but I think Aries would be okay for you too especially if they taurus venus or something. LOL IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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From: neptune
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted May 05, 2014 03:33 PM
My cousin is double Cancer and very difficult to deal with.
Not sure if you are talking about friends or bf/gf. My cousin does not get along as well with women as she does with her partner. She focuses on that pretty much and her career. So if you are a part of her career, she would network you into her life. Otherwise, probably wouldn't be bothered unless she grew up with you, even then, she doesn't really like the ones she grew up with unless they are the opposite gender.
She is veeeeery insecure around other women.
As for the guys, they are great!
Cancers do best with the opposite gender from what I have seen, especially the women. Don't expect much from a same sex friendship with one but if a Cancer male chooses you for a partner, he can be wonderful and very loyal! IP: Logged |
lifefullofwords
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posted May 05, 2014 03:33 PM
I know a lot of Cancers and I also have a Cancer Sun plus I'm a 4th H person. I find that Cancers are very different from one another, more so than most of the other signs. I think it's because the Moon's energy is so malleable. Pisces are the same way only more so. The only stereotype about Cancers I've found to be consistently true is they care about family. They're definitely not all sensitive or caring or emotional or anything like that. So I'd say it would depend on the Cancer and also of course on your own natal chart. If you have a bunch of planets in Cap then I think it depends partly on how much you like oppositions. Some people find them to be balancing but obviously they are a hard aspect. Personally, I often get along with Caps (depending on the rest of the chart) but I have a Cap Mars so I don't know that I'm a typical Cancer in that particular way. IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
Knowflake Posts: 6247
From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron)
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posted May 05, 2014 03:51 PM
*facepalm*
I meant Cancers and Cancerian people in general. quote:
I initially thought scorpio I think they are too raunchy for you from what I gathered and how you react to certain things.
Scorpios are intense but they can be really depraved about certain things, I mean aries is sexual but its more of like an innocent child like enthusiasm in which you can easily distract them but I think Aries would be okay for you too especially if they taurus venus or something.
Apparently you weren't reading carefully enough 
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ail221
Moderator Posts: 4118
From: Hanging Gardens of Babylon
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted May 05, 2014 04:06 PM
quote:
Originally posted by lifefullofwords:
I know a lot of Cancers and I also have a Cancer Sun plus I'm a 4th H person. I find that Cancers are very different from one another, more so than most of the other signs. I think it's because the Moon's energy is so malleable. Pisces are the same way only more so. The only stereotype about Cancers I've found to be consistently true is they care about family. They're definitely not all sensitive or caring or emotional or anything like that. So I'd say it would depend on the Cancer and also of course on your own natal chart. If you have a bunch of planets in Cap then I think it depends partly on how much you like oppositions. Some people find them to be balancing but obviously they are a hard aspect. Personally, I often get along with Caps (depending on the rest of the chart) but I have a Cap Mars so I don't know that I'm a typical Cancer in that particular way.
Maybe a cancer with some saturn influence and a aquarius moon. IP: Logged |
lifefullofwords
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posted May 05, 2014 04:07 PM
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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
*facepalm*
I meant Cancers and Cancerian people in general.
I thought I talked about Cancers in general.... IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
Knowflake Posts: 6247
From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron)
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted May 05, 2014 04:10 PM
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Originally posted by lifefullofwords:
I thought I talked about Cancers in general....
Yes. That was to those who forgot there is more to human relationships than romance  Ok, here's my chart. I'm too lazy now to do a new one so ignore the asteroids. Do you think they could handle me? poof ------------------
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lifefullofwords
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posted May 05, 2014 04:17 PM
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Originally posted by I'm so cappy:
Yes. That was to those who forgot there is more to human relationships than romance
Ah, okay. Yeah, that bugs me too. IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
Knowflake Posts: 6247
From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron)
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted May 05, 2014 04:21 PM
Actually...I don't know if it counts as a Cancerian person but I used to be friends with a girl with a Cancer Moon, my peer and fellow Capricorn. She annoyed me quite often. It could have been her Moon. Unfortunately I don't have her TOB.------------------
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Tulipe
Knowflake Posts: 486
From: France
Registered: Feb 2014
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posted May 05, 2014 04:30 PM
Hmm, I think another earthy fellow with Cancer ASC will soften you up nicely.------------------
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I'm so cappy
Knowflake Posts: 6247
From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron)
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted May 05, 2014 04:33 PM
So you think my s.hit in their 7th house would make things easier?  To be honest, I'm glad I don't have personal Cancer planets. If I did, my life would probably suck much more. ------------------
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Sibyl
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Registered: Dec 2010
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posted May 05, 2014 06:54 PM
Cancerians are needy. I don't see it for you.IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted May 05, 2014 07:00 PM
Sometimes i can see that your mercury is in detriment. LOL
Like yeah I get your asking about cancers and gave my two cents in which I said unless they had leo placements..When communicating with other people it isn't always about what you want to hear and talk about its people exchanging and ideas and opinions. I was also going off what Hera said too.
That's how communication works and the funniest thing is we were talking about you instead of having side conversations. i guess that is the difference between domicile and detriment signs.
Interesting! and I see you having random conversations in my thread too that has nothing to do with your briggs myers test or your mercury..
But notice I'm not annoyed by that because open communication is okay with me because mercury is social planet so the sign opposite its own sign from that suggests a very self absorbed mentality? IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
Knowflake Posts: 6247
From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron)
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted May 06, 2014 09:25 AM
 Btw, Leo placementS wouldn't work for me, I'm afraid. 1 personal planet could be ok. ------------------
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Rheanna
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From: The Orient
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted May 06, 2014 08:27 PM
As a fellow Cappy, I wished you would have been loved by a Cancerian at least ONCE. Loved at the most physical and emotional realm. A Cancerian men know how to nurture and nourish, at every level.But I agree with Dancing Maenad that an Aqua or Virgo would be a more suitable partner for a cappy. My Aqua husband provides me with a space to grow to my fullest. I find a teacher in him - though sometimes I do not want to learn as fast but I have to say, I am a better person today than I was yesterday.
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LeeLoo2014
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posted May 07, 2014 04:42 PM
Looking at your chart, Cappy, I think you would do great with a Taurus with Venus in early Gemini or late Taurus, Mars in Aries or Leo and a fixed Moon.I stand corrected, that Mars better in Aries or Aquarius, in Leo, falling in your 12th ..ugh. IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
Knowflake Posts: 6247
From: Saturn (summer house on Chiron)
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted May 07, 2014 04:52 PM
If you meant it romance wise, I don't want Venus Gemini Mars in Leo could be in my 11th opposite my Venus conjunct my Jupiter. Not bad. Fixed Moon...Moon is Scorpio conjunct my Pluto would be fun
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