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Topic: Natal Venus seated in that 12H
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Plutonian_Gal8
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posted August 24, 2014 09:56 PM
  
I've had a long-term relationship with a guy who has this placement. It is far from easy. His masculinity is dimmed a bit and it goes against what I am naturally drawn to/turned on by. [Edit: there are other factors to that of course] He truly questions his own appeal, and intimately, comes off very timid. I digress…
This time there's yet another 12H Venus guy who is super attracted to me. I find him appealing and repulsive at the same time lol but for a separate reason. Anyway! In this case, my Sun conjuncts his Venus there. Would like to know familiar experiences with that. I can't deduce if I may energize that placement, or more-so cause apprehension. Feeback?
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NYCdodger
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posted August 24, 2014 10:20 PM
Venus is exalted in the 12th house. Meaning, it's greatest purpose and abilities are found there. But exalted doesn't always mean easy, it also means challenging which is why you're feeling what you're feeling.Your Sun there emphasizes it more IP: Logged |
Plutonian_Gal8
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posted August 24, 2014 11:02 PM
Thank you for breaking that down. Neptune is his chart ruler, and I could assume that it wouldn't be a big nuisance, but I could sure use the clarity. Generally speaking, would I basically help to bring that vulnerability out? quote:
Originally posted by NYCdodger:
Venus is exalted in the 12th house. Meaning, it's greatest purpose and abilities are found there. But exalted doesn't always mean easy, it also means challenging which is why you're feeling what you're feeling.Your Sun there emphasizes it more
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LucieLemonade
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posted August 25, 2014 07:45 AM
I'm not even sure what your question is TBH.  Do you want to know about 12H Venuses or do you want to know how you influence them? You talk about two 12H Venuses but you only give on placement for the 2nd person. Does your sun fall in the 12H of the first person too? What sign are their Venuses in? I'm not sure 12H Venus is the cause of the first person's "dimmed masculinity" (what is that?) nor timidity in intimacy. But that's just my experience with this placement Where is up with his Mars? IP: Logged |
Plutonian_Gal8
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posted August 25, 2014 07:55 AM
@LucieLemonade In that first paragraph, I did have that EDIT in brackets saying his dimmed masculinity correlates with other factors. Dim, meaning not as bright/lively. Still don't get it?
Mentioned the first guy, only to highlight that he was my first "venus in 12H" involvement.
2nd guy is different, because my Sun tightly conjuncts his Venus in the 12th. Simply asked for feedback if anyone experienced this placement "Sun Conjunct Venus overlay 12H" with another before….
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LucieLemonade
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posted August 25, 2014 09:27 AM
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Originally posted by Plutonian_Gal8:
@LucieLemonade In that first paragraph, I did have that EDIT in brackets saying his dimmed masculinity correlates with other factors. Dim, meaning not as bright/lively. Still don't get it?
umm, yes, i get it now that you explained what you meant. If I had understood it I wouldn't have asked. Again the not lively masculinity coukd be his Mars, like a Libra Mars. Venus in 12th can be hidden feelings/emotions or a difficulty in expressing them. which I guess could come across as timid but mostly I find it cold. But, again, that could be different per Venus sign. quote:
Mentioned the first guy, only to highlight that he was my first "venus in 12H" involvement. 2nd guy is different, because my Sun tightly conjuncts his Venus in the 12th. Simply asked for feedback if anyone experienced this placement "Sun Conjunct Venus overlay 12H" with another before….
I have not experienced specifically 12H Venus sun conjunctions but a few 12H Venuses. Again they seem to be more cold, closed, about emotional issues either within the couple or not sharing their love details with others, not introducing the person to friends and family. Or they wait until the other expresses love first. I have a 12H Venus myself and two of them together leaves each waiting for the other to make the first move, in my experiece, though that is not yoir question , i digress! I think perhaps you having sun conj Venus in his 12H could help him be more expressive and draw out his feelings. Do you find the 2nd guy more expressive than the first? Also, I think the attraction repulsion thing is more about a square somewhere. Venus conj sun is an attracting aspect. IP: Logged |
Plutonian_Gal8
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posted August 25, 2014 08:04 PM
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Originally posted by LucieLemonade:
I have not experienced specifically 12H Venus sun conjunctions but a few 12H Venuses. Again they seem to be more cold, closed, about emotional issues either within the couple or not sharing their love details with others, not introducing the person to friends and family. Or they wait until the other expresses love first. I have a 12H Venus myself and two of them together leaves each waiting for the other to make the first move, in my experiece, though that is not yoir question , i digress! I think perhaps you having sun conj Venus in his 12H could help him be more expressive and draw out his feelings. Do you find the 2nd guy more expressive than the first? Also, I think the attraction repulsion thing is more about a square somewhere. Venus conj sun is an attracting aspect.
Ok, I believe you helped me to understand this conjunction much better. This 2nd guy and I have actually only been on a platonic level. However, I feel inclined to divulge the progressing feelings. For other reasons, I have to give this inclination time. It's too soon to let it all hang out IMO. He's an all-around complex puzzle according to me though! lol Neptune is his chart ruler. This sun/venus conjunction is in Aquarius as well. But uhh, what you've shared resonates.
In comparison to the first, I just can't compare yet unfortunately. The 1st guy, it took him a LONG time to trust his vulnerabilities to me. I had the patience; I enjoy the challenge actually. When I know what I want, well, you may know the rest. But yes, once he opened up, it was all good  Thank you for taking the time to elaborate!
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