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Dreaminess
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posted October 26, 2014 06:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dreaminess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
and can someone also explain to me in detail how a contradictionary person behaves/is?

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libran_dream
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posted October 26, 2014 07:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for libran_dream     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oppositions. Lots of them.

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posted October 26, 2014 07:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Mutable signs

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Leorpio
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posted October 26, 2014 08:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Leorpio     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Look for lots of Gemini lol

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posted October 26, 2014 09:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for starmoon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by libran_dream:
Oppositions. Lots of them.

yeah, oppositions between the close planets. super typical is sun opp. moon, moon opp. mercury, etc.

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posted October 26, 2014 09:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Leorpio:
Look for lots of Gemini lol

This is true. :hides:

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Odette
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posted October 27, 2014 12:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Uranus aspects...

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GypseeWind
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posted October 27, 2014 01:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GypseeWind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Virgo placements, they always take an opposing opinion or at the very least they try to refine your point or correct it somehow. Aqua I know do this too, but not as readily.

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posted October 27, 2014 06:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for rebelqueen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lol, me.
Gemini Moon
Sag Rising
Neptune in 1st House

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Heather
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posted October 27, 2014 08:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Heather     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Contradictionary meaning someone who doesn't say what they actually mean? or someone who seems to have multiple personalities?
Elaborate?

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Dreaminess
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posted October 27, 2014 08:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dreaminess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Heather:
Contradictionary meaning someone who doesn't say what they actually mean? or someone who seems to have multiple personalities?
Elaborate?


Like i want someone to define what it means to be "contradictionary" ? how a contradictionary person behaves etc etc.

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PisceanDream
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posted October 27, 2014 09:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PisceanDream     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This is just a very basic definition but to me, a contradictory person is one whose behavior, personality, beliefs or opinions are apt to major fluctuations in a very short period of time. One day they will be one thing, and before you know it, the next day they will be something else, negating what they once claimed they were.

What indicates that in the chart? Oppositions between personal planets only, in my opinion. I think with outer planets it creates an internal tension that doesn't necessarily manifest in a way that would deem someone contradictory but I believe oppositions and even squares between Sun and Moon and especially Mercury and Moon (as someone noted) would be extremely apparent as opposed to Moon/Pluto, for example. I also think squares to the ASC by Sun, Moon, and Mercury could be a culprit.

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posted October 27, 2014 10:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for next to neptune     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This is me, I am this way! Both good and bad I guess...

I am a virgo sun opposite pisces moon, so thats lots of mutable and oppositions. Also moon opposite mars in virgo.

Then my jupiter makes a lot of oppositions to all my cap-outer planets, and my mercury is badly squares by them too. My mercury and moon/mars is also involved with a t-square with Uranus.

I have a great intuition though. Whenever I FEEL something, its almost always right. I easily pick up peoples moods and secret intentions. But I just dont really know what to DO with it, you know. So I just adapt to whatever situation I am in. I just deliver what people expect from me, most of the time.

But when I get over that point with people who are together with me for a longer time-span, I cant hide anymore, and I become myself more and more and relax. My mood swings constantly still, so I think I can seem really confusing (even to myself also) and contradicting (first when you saw me I was so happy and nice, but now I'm just angry and sad). I constantly change, even my opinion about stuff.

But I do believe my core-values are much the same, and in my home, I am myself, and in front of people I know well.

I am also very cancer/capricorn-influenced, and I know this cardinal people are also very "simple". I am not THAT complex, but confused, sensitive, adaptable and intuitive yes

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posted October 27, 2014 08:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Dreaminess:

Like i want someone to define what it means to be "contradictionary" ? how a contradictionary person behaves etc etc.

So even you don't know what "contradictionary" means? Does this mean you read the word and need a definition? (If not then you should read Heather's question again because you didn't understand it when you answered.)

Btw, is it "contradictionary" or "contradictory"?

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posted October 27, 2014 08:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dreaminess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by PixieJane:
So even you don't know what "contradictionary" means? Does this mean you read the word and need a definition? (If not then you should read Heather's question again because you didn't understand it when you answered.)

Btw, is it "contradictionary" or "contradictory"?



I think i know what it means but i want someone to explain it to me so i can be sure of it. And the last part i dont know i just wrote it like that but most importantly people understood what i meant.

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posted October 27, 2014 08:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
They may not know what you mean. I've noticed people on LL tend to work with their own definitions which lead to a lot of confusion as people are talking about completely different things while believing they're talking about the same thing. As far as you know they may have something very different in mind than you do.

OTOH, since you don't seem that sure yourself I guess it doesn't matter in this case.

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posted October 27, 2014 08:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dreaminess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by PixieJane:
They may not know what you mean. I've noticed people on LL tend to work with their own definitions which lead to a lot of confusion as people are talking about completely different things while believing they're talking about the same thing. As far as you know they may have something very different in mind than you do.

OTOH, since you don't seem that sure yourself I guess it doesn't matter in this case.



People understood what i meant bc the little explanations i have gotten already i can recognize this person with having.

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posted October 28, 2014 05:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PeterPan     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
People tell me i'm contradictory way to often, that i am very diffrent from what they expected.

This is because people like to stereotype allot, and i have allot of interests.

I am very much into weigthlifting and martial arts and in turn i'm very muscular, i also have somewhat of a reputation regarding illegal activities... some true, some not so true.

so when people learn that i speak more languages than them or start talking about quantum mechanics or neoclassical ecomomics, or anything on a more intellectual level than drugs and training people look very preplexed.


So i guess i may appear very contradictory to many people.

Astrology wise, i think this is strongly tied to the fact that i am a Gemini sun, and in my chart the sun is qute strong as its conjunct my ruling planet. I also have tons of other factors in my chart that might play in like uranus square moon, mercury conjunct asc, lots of oppositions to pluto etc.

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posted October 28, 2014 07:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^^

I'm the same way. So many people see a side of me and think they know all there is to know about me and can be surprised and even shocked to find there's a lot more, and it doesn't go with the common stereotypes.

I suppose it might be my Libra on the Scorpio cusp Pluto keeping parts of myself hidden, though that's not always the case when people make instant assumptions about me. And it's Third House which equals Gemini. I also have a Gemini MC that likes to connect all the pieces together, that is I see how everything is linked (or I look for the connections) so that all subjects mix together which is different from how most other people are.

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posted October 29, 2014 12:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MorpHnStorM     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by PeterPan:
People tell me i'm contradictory way to often, that i am very diffrent from what they expected.

This is because people like to stereotype allot, and i have allot of interests.

I am very much into weigthlifting and martial arts and in turn i'm very muscular, i also have somewhat of a reputation regarding illegal activities... some true, some not so true.

so when people learn that i speak more languages than them or start talking about quantum mechanics or neoclassical ecomomics, or anything on a more intellectual level than drugs and training people look very preplexed.


So i guess i may appear very contradictory to many people.


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Originally posted by PixieJane: I'm the same way. So many people see a side of me and think they know all there is to know about me and can be surprised and even shocked to find there's a lot more, and it doesn't go with the common stereotypes.

Both I and my Beloved are/were like this and it's what I think of when I think of a "walking contradiction"; someone who's out of the box, someone who defies the stereotypes. Not someone who literally contradicts themselves in the way that PisceanDream is describing, which I personally do not identify with.

The only planet in my chart that isn't in opposition to another is Jupiter. I also have Uranus aspects (Moon-IC/MC, Mercury, and Venus). My Beloved had a Sun-Moon opp. and also had Uranus involved in his chart.


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posted November 21, 2014 04:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hodad     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Do you mean changeable,someone who is always changing their mind? I think the word is mercurial----check for Moon/Mercury aspects.Their moods change like the tides.Which brings to mind Cancer also!

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Chris21
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posted November 21, 2014 02:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Chris21     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
With Uranus, Mars, Neptune, Saturn, Mercury, and Venus all in a stellium on my ascendant is say it's made me a contradictory person, so much different energies fighting for expression. I feel like I'm everything wrapped into one unit haha.

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posted November 21, 2014 05:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Geeky     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Mutable signs, especially if...

A natal chart has lots of Air vs. Fire -or- Fire vs. Water placements

The natal chart has many squares

There is heavy Air influence in the natal chart


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margym0o
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posted November 21, 2014 05:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for margym0o     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well I have Virgo ASC/Gemini Sun/Scorpio Moon/Cancer Mercury/Leo Venus/Capricorn Mars and I feel like a hot mess most of the time!!!!

Too many elements competing with each other. Some would say this makes me balanced, I say...hogwash.

The biggest conflict is probably my ASC/Sun square. Horrible. I feel like my inner child is subdued by my rigid exterior so I end up feeling like a wierdo. I also have resting "***** face" apparently which couldn't be further from reality. I've been told more than once "Wow I thought you were a ***** but you're actually a really cool person."

Nice.

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posted November 21, 2014 07:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for ikja     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Look for signs in different elements.
I've literally got:

Aries - Mars/Moon
Gemini - Sun/Mercury
Scorpio - Asc/Pluto
Taurus - Venus
Cancer - Jupiter
Capricorn - Saturn


They all contradict eachother tbh.

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