posted November 24, 2014 04:51 AM            

I just feel that both really want a "togetherness" and sort of "closeness" of being only 2 persons and thats it, but then there is scorpio who is kind of different with the level of depth and intensity in that "twosomeness" ??

posted November 24, 2014 10:55 AM            

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Originally posted by next to neptune:
And what is the biggest difference between these two about what they WANT in a relationship??

I just feel that both really want a "togetherness" and sort of "closeness" of being only 2 persons and thats it, but then there is scorpio who is kind of different with the level of depth and intensity in that "twosomeness" ??

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5th house is fun and games.

So Venus in 5th may love playing recreational sport because it gives an opportunity to interact with others(Libra). And also gives them the physical experience; sounds,smell,taste,feeling(Taurus).

When Venus is in Scorpio,they may take the sport more seriously. Hate to lose.Want to win and may go in with that perspective of "dominating" the competition(Pluto).

Venus in Libra is likely to be more relaxed about it.Their emphasis will be on fair-play and to make sure that the rules are followed and are fair(Venus).

Libra is likely to be the more talkative of the two(Air). And likely to be the one who seems a little more "cocky". Scorpio may come across a lot more reserved(Water).

posted November 24, 2014 02:31 PM            

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Originally posted by frankie2912:
I have Venus in Scorp (1st house) and I have no idea what I want.

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posted November 24, 2014 04:17 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
5th house is fun and games.

So Venus in 5th may love playing recreational sport because it gives an opportunity to interact with others(Libra). And also gives them the physical experience; sounds,smell,taste,feeling(Taurus).

When Venus is in Scorpio,they may take the sport more seriously. Hate to lose.Want to win and may go in with that perspective of "dominating" the competition(Pluto).

Venus in Libra is likely to be more relaxed about it.Their emphasis will be on fair-play and to make sure that the rules are followed and are fair(Venus).

Libra is likely to be the more talkative of the two(Air). And likely to be the one who seems a little more "cocky". Scorpio may come across a lot more reserved(Water).

But these two will find that they like 5th house related activities.Despite the personality differences as well as the respective approaches to them.

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Well, this is funny but actually it's the completely opposite for us (in a way)
He is the one with venus in libra and he is the one who hates to lose the most, seriously he goes out of his way if he lose and he really cant stand it. And I am the one more prone to follow the rules exactly and I'm very much into fairness and fairplay, where he is more likely to cheat. Maybe it's in a obvious way and it's more out of fun, but I often end up with giving him a little help by allowing him to cheat (if I am in the lead and about to win) lol

And about who talks the most, then I am really the one who talks mostly, as he is not really talkative that much actually:S I always wondered why, because he is libra sun and virgo mercury, but he just havn't ever been the biggest talker... I mean, he likes joking around and small-talk, but it's never for that long time before he change subject.

posted November 25, 2014 08:18 AM            

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Originally posted by next to neptune:
Well, this is funny but actually it's the completely opposite for us (in a way)
He is the one with venus in libra and he is the one who hates to lose the most, seriously he goes out of his way if he lose and he really cant stand it. And I am the one more prone to follow the rules exactly and I'm very much into fairness and fairplay, where he is more likely to cheat. Maybe it's in a obvious way and it's more out of fun, but I often end up with giving him a little help by allowing him to cheat (if I am in the lead and about to win) lol

And about who talks the most, then I am really the one who talks mostly, as he is not really talkative that much actually:S I always wondered why, because he is libra sun and virgo mercury, but he just havn't ever been the biggest talker... I mean, he likes joking around and small-talk, but it's never for that long time before he change subject.

And in that sense, I am much more into deep and intense talks that can go on and on for hours... lol! So I dont know what went wrong here, but it's exactly the opposite somehow for us:P

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If he seems to be the one who is more aggressive and not wanting to lose, then you should also take into consideration Mars/Pluto in the mix.

If he has his Venus in aspect to Mars/Pluto, it can change things a LOT.

Or else there is a mix of Sun/Mars,Moon/Pluto, Moon/Mars, Sun/Pluto etc. Look for Mars/Pluto aspects.

posted November 25, 2014 10:06 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
If he seems to be the one who is more aggressive and not wanting to lose, then you should also take into consideration Mars/Pluto in the mix.

If he has his Venus in aspect to Mars/Pluto, it can change things a LOT.

Or else there is a mix of Sun/Mars,Moon/Pluto, Moon/Mars, Sun/Pluto etc. Look for Mars/Pluto aspects.

There is always more to the story.I was just floating on the surface

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He had sun trine mars and moon square mars, also moon trine pluto very tight, so maybe thats why But I have moon opposition mars and sun conjunction mars myself:P I think we are very comptetitive both of us, but he is only seems to show his more aggressive and assertive side when competing or playing (he has mars in 12th house between) Actually his mars is kinda complicated!

posted November 25, 2014 10:09 AM            

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Originally posted by GoingDutch:
How is your vacation last time? Your last post mentioned you went on a vacation.
Was it with your Libra BF? Did you guys have fun times?
I don't think any men can talks or go on talking for hours, except to 1 Cancer man I know, lol.

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Hey GoingDutch, thanks for your thoughts
We are going on vacation in december, can't wait, though it's also with his family:P Hopefully it's gonna be fun and we can also have some private time
Last time we went on vacation together was this summer, and that was really great, we had so much fun and we were so lucky with everything!
Funny you mention a cancer man as talkative, I also know a cancer male who is extremely talkative, he can talk for hours non stop lol! He also has gemini mercury and leo venus + mars + moon though:P

posted November 25, 2014 10:54 AM            

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Originally posted by next to Neptune:
He had sun trine mars and moon square mars,also moon trine Pluto very tight, so maybe that's why But I have moon opposition mars and sun conjunction mars myself:P I think we are very competitive both of us, but he is only seems to show his more aggressive and assertive side when competing or playing (he has mars in 12th house between) Actually his mars is kinda complicated!

My Mars is in 4th house,so it's not great either

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posted November 25, 2014 11:15 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Is their Mars in Gemini and Moon in Pisces?

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posted November 25, 2014 05:28 PM            

People with Scorpio placements fall into my descendant usually conjunct my Sun, Merc, and Pluto in the 6th/7th so I'm constantly involved with Scorpios.

Venus in Scorpio bring me in and I bring them in with all these conjunctions. It is always great! We get along wonderfully. Their loyalty and intensity in the relationship goes very well with my Sun Scorpio and they appreciate my Scorpio Mercury intellect.

But I am also a Venus in Libra.. and down the road there is a split on how we play in a relationship. Once the relationship with the Venus in Scorpio is solidified and maybe it's been a long romance or best buddies I'm satisfied and my Venus in Libra is happy to be in a relationship. But I need balance. I need a solid relationship but freedom to play alone. All my lovely Venus in Scorpio people have a hard time dealing with that once we get to that point.

The most recent experience with this was with a travel companion. My good friend and I were on the road for awhile and great fun. But about 1-2 months into it I told him it's been amazing fun but I'd like my next traveling adventure to be alone so I can explore different relationship dynamics as a solo traveler. He didn't quite like that. He very much preferred a constant close friend for his travels rather than solo or strangers.