posted August 22, 2015 04:52 AM
I've been focusing on Neptune transits primarily; specifically it's entrance into my 3rd house. My mind, my thoughts are far more spiritual and romantic- and equally confused. I directed my attention to my ex's transits; noting that his Neptune just recently finished up it's long glide through his 5th house.Thinking back over the past 11 yrs of his idealism with love, but never quite getting a "grip" on what he needed vs what he was instead receiving - including myself. Veiled ideas about what kind of woman he should marry.
There has been this very serious air about him, now that the fog is off 5th house themes. Hence I noticed his Pluto sq Pluto transit. He has a very direct and surprisingly clear agenda to marry me. Feeling that his self-examination, prayer and timing equates to me being "the one"...I am witnessing his transformation before my eyes and it's intriguing. All of these yrs not together but staying in touch, I've never believed his manipulative dialogue. It felt "deceitful" and my gut always said "nuhh uhh" or BS. Now he and I feels right, like Pluto definitely resonates...
So yeah now, my intuition screams he's being honest. He speaks with the need to define his life with his hearts desires. I'm a tad leery that Neptune playing in my 3rd house might be clouding my judgment, however my spirit feels good about him. I digress...
For those who have experienced the midlife crisis transits (especially Pluto to Pluto) pls share how your transformation occurred and felt. I'm asking to gauge if I can at least reasonably consider taking his hopes and dreams going forward seriously-marriage during the midlife crisis transits a bad idea?