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Topic: Pisces or Neptune influenced folks
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cchampliss2
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posted January 17, 2016 07:35 PM
  
It's been said you all tend to be very intuitive and sometimes pick up on the moods and energies of other people. What have you all done that's helped to block some of the negative junk out from other people and focus on yourself? IP: Logged |
Violets
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posted January 17, 2016 07:56 PM
Not much.
It was easier when I had nice Pluto transits to my Moon, Sun, and Vertex. But otherwise, I would also like to hear some success stories. T Neptune is hitting my Sun/Moon/NN T-square, and my Sun is conjunct my progressed Moon right now, so it's extra weird.
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hypatia238
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posted January 17, 2016 08:05 PM
To be honest is hard, I haven't found the magic solution. I know living by nature for me helps a lot, grounds me and recharges me as well as alone time to do neptunian things and meditation but is an ongoing battle so everything I have mentioned helps but the struggle is there and ongoing.IP: Logged |
Faith
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posted January 17, 2016 08:10 PM
Lately I've felt "stickier" and I don't know why. Moods cling to me longer.Who knows if it's actually someone else's energy invading my space, or my imagination about them overwhelming my body? I don't know, but either way, engaging with some people creates novel and unpleasant sensations within, that I try to decipher, because the emotion's just sitting there crying out for help. And sometimes, you know, I want to say to the person, WHAT HAS MADE YOU SO F*CKED UP??? just because I feel that I can deconstruct my own emotional "replica" of them, if I know the ingredients that went into their energy. Like, if I know they harbor immense guilt over crimes in the past, or they were tormented by bullies, or whatever memories are still transmitting those vibes...once I know, I can release it easier. But most of the time, I don't even want to go down that path, I just want to evaporate. I don't want to focus on myself either. I don't want to think about anything, I just want to get into a whole new emotional space by focusing on the present, and trying to accept it. Acceptance heals a lot. Pisces moon square Neptune Edited about five times...
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Pisces Plutonian
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posted January 17, 2016 08:16 PM
The only thing I do is try to be alone so I can regenerate. I've been around some much negative energy all my life so it just feels normal now.IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted January 17, 2016 08:21 PM
So I married someone who is moody and when he gets in a negative mood it really affects me so I suppose marrying someone who doesn't have an afflicted MOON would have been helpful, if it wasn't for his charming and funny side to balance out the negative moods perhaps one of us would be dead by now so to speak.To be fair my dad has moon in Virgo conjunct saturn and he is always in a good mood when he was younger perhaps not as much but his mood to me my whole life appears very stable, calm and positive. He has Moon trine Sun, inconjunct Venus, biquintile jupiter (perhaps that is were the eternal fountain of positivity comes from), conjunct Saturn (which I feel in his case adds stability), quintile Uranus, and semisextile Neptune and Pluto. My husband has Moon square Sun, trine mercury, sesquisquare mars exact, square saturn, and sesquisquare Uranus. My moon in pisces is not so great, it opposes mercury and sun and semisquares saturn plus inconjuncts Venus and almost inconjuncts my mars too and it squares neptune so F me LOL. IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted January 17, 2016 08:25 PM
So bc I have my own MOON issues I like to help others with MOON issues too LOL! which for a neptunian perhaps its not a great idea to do that but I guess I am a masochist  . IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted January 17, 2016 08:28 PM
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Originally posted by Faith:
Lately I've felt "stickier" and I don't know why. Moods cling to me longer.Who knows if it's actually someone else's energy invading my space, or my imagination about them overwhelming my body? I don't know, but either way, engaging with some people creates novel and unpleasant sensations within, that I try to decipher, because the emotion's just sitting there crying out for help. And sometimes, you know, I want to say to the person, WHAT HAS MADE YOU SO F*CKED UP??? just because I feel that I can deconstruct my own emotional "replica" of them, if I know the ingredients that went into their energy. Like, if I know they harbor immense guilt over crimes in the past, or they were tormented by bullies, or whatever memories are still transmitting those vibes...once I know, I can release it easier. But most of the time, I don't even want to go down that path, I just want to evaporate. I don't want to focus on myself either. I don't want to think about anything, I just want to get into a whole new emotional space by focusing on the present, and trying to accept it. Acceptance heals a lot. Pisces moon square Neptune Edited about five times...
Acceptance and Commitment therapy is I feel very helpful and empowering yes. So much healing takes place when you reach acceptance, I feel that is when I made the most progress with my healing.
http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/two-takes-depression/201102/acceptance-and-commitment-therapy
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Faith
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posted January 17, 2016 08:39 PM
I love reading your comments, hypatia. Thanks for the article, I'll check that out later.This topic is a little upsetting to me...I think about all the pain we go through just because Pisces is "the trashcan of the zodiac." It's like having some kind of emotional disease....it makes me sad to think of it. I need to start listening to opera My moods are getting kind of extravagant. Cheers  IP: Logged |
Violets
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posted January 17, 2016 08:47 PM
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Originally posted by Faith:
...once I know, I can release it easier.
I have found this to be helpful, in a broad sense. It's more that I internalize the energy that I pick up, but it's easier to release it if I can get some time to myself, and figure out what the feelings are inside of me. ..........
Also, if I realize that a person's energy is having a negative effect on me, I will stop interacting with them, if possible. At the most I will interact with them sparingly (like with family members). So...keeping away from people who whack out my energy is a good move for me, at least. As someone else mentioned, I've already been exposed to so much negativity in my life that I've got enough without adding other people's junk to it. IP: Logged |
Faith
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posted January 17, 2016 09:12 PM
Love your comments too, Violets! Oh I wish I could just block people out, but I never feel quite certain whether or not that's the right thing to do...whether they are at fault or I am...and I end up being masochistic sometimes, like hypatia. Not sure what it accomplishes. Most people probably don't care whether I'm nice to them or not. IP: Logged |
Violets
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posted January 17, 2016 09:18 PM
I feel kind of badly, because I do tend to just drop right out of people's lives without notice. The way I see it, it could be something I need to work on...and if that's the case, I still need distance so that I can do that without the added annoyance of that interaction. I would chalk that up to Pluto/H8 in my chart, but we both have a bit of that, so I don't know. Maybe it's my Sun conjunct BML that adds that extra "Nope" necessary to cut ties. I don't know, lol. My brain is still very Mercury Rx, so I'm not doing a great job of explaining anything.  IP: Logged |
DopGang
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posted January 17, 2016 09:23 PM
I have several other things that ground me and/or allow me separation from it. So I think that I may not be as sensitive as the Pisces moons or suns. Though I often have what feels like a 6th sense about others feelings, I don't necessarily absorb it. Not the way that Pisces does. I have noticed though that whether I'm around a group of coworkers, friends, family, etc. If it exceeds about 2-3 then I get stressed and tired VERY quickly. Shopping and that sort of thing. I get exhausted easily. Being alone is my salvation. I truly love being alone. Except for one or two people that I'm very close to. People that I can share silence with, basically. IP: Logged |
Faith
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posted January 17, 2016 09:25 PM
^ I being alone...@Violets Yeah I should just shut up until Mercury gets its act in order. I feel like nothing I say is right, everything seems like a prism and I'm only mentioning one side of it, and that feels so wrong. Oh, tr Pluto on my sun is probably what's messing with me, too. I was just listening to this song:
Forgot You  ....celebrating the cutting of ties. I hate cutting ties and usually refuse to. I was so happy when my sister cut me off. No matter how bad it got, I was always, "But can I help you? How can I fix this, what do you want from me???" Pathetic, really. Talking about it makes me feel like even worse cr*p so if no one minds, I'm going to take my whining elsewhere....  IP: Logged |
Violets
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posted January 17, 2016 10:02 PM
I also really need and enjoy my alone time. That has become incredibly difficult with my son, whose Aries stellium makes constant external stimulation an absolute necessity for him (and an impossibility for my husband and I). If I don't have some time to myself, it's a lot more difficult for me to release unwanted energy. My Virgo Moon can't handle noise clutter, so I can't really focus enough to release, if it's not quiet. But yeah...never underestimate the benefits of time alone! quote:
I'm going to take my whining elsewhere....
Me too, heh.IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted January 17, 2016 10:14 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Faith:
^ I being alone...@Violets Yeah I should just shut up until Mercury gets its act in order. I feel like nothing I say is right, everything seems like a prism and I'm only mentioning one side of it, and that feels so wrong. Oh, tr Pluto on my sun is probably what's messing with me, too. I was just listening to this song:
Forgot You ....celebrating the cutting of ties. I hate cutting ties and usually refuse to. I was so happy when my sister cut me off. No matter how bad it got, I was always, "But can I help you? How can I fix this, what do you want from me???" Pathetic, really. Talking about it makes me feel like even worse cr*p so if no one minds, I'm going to take my whining elsewhere....
I think that is your SUN cap though, Caps are unconditional with family, like saints and also very loyal with everyone overall. At least caps with aqua placements or aquas with cap placements.Maybe she cut you off bc deep down she felt she did not deserve your loyalty and unconditional devotion. It could be so many things and don't know the whole story though but that popped up in my mind.
Time Alone is the ultimate coping skill for me too, right up there with acceptance.
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hypatia238
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posted January 17, 2016 10:18 PM
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Originally posted by Violets:
I also really need and enjoy my alone time. That has become incredibly difficult with my son, whose Aries stellium makes constant external stimulation an absolute necessity for him (and an impossibility for my husband and I). If I don't have some time to myself, it's a lot more difficult for me to release unwanted energy. My Virgo Moon can't handle noise clutter, so I can't really focus enough to release, if it's not quiet. But yeah...never underestimate the benefits of time alone! [QUOTE]I'm going to take my whining elsewhere....
Me too, heh.[/QUOTE]I empathize about your Aries stellium Son... IP: Logged |
cchampliss2
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posted January 17, 2016 10:24 PM
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Originally posted by Faith:
My moods are getting kind of extravagant.
Extravagant is such a lively way of describing your feelings Faith. I picture them dressed up in a white fur coat, pink boa, and a sparkly, teal, ankle length dress. Oh, and smoking a Virginia slim. I edited this only because my spelling and grammar were atrocious, not because Faith likes her moods in fur coats.
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cchampliss2
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posted January 17, 2016 10:27 PM
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Originally posted by Violets:
I would chalk that up to Pluto/H8 in my chart.
I feel ya on that 8th house Pluto. Would this contribute to being intuitive and sensing the moods in a room? Or no? IP: Logged |
Violets
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posted January 17, 2016 11:10 PM
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Originally posted by cchampliss2:
I feel ya on that 8th house Pluto.Would this contribute to being intuitive and sensing the moods in a room? Or no?
Yes. Especially if you have other stuff.
To clarify, my Pluto is in H3, and my Pisces Sun is in H8, conjunct BML (both luminaries are square Neptune).
My Pluto is just aspected and noticeable. IP: Logged |
polkadotstars
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posted January 17, 2016 11:24 PM
I try to surround myself with only positive people. But sometimes that doesn't always work. If I'm around someone who is negative and I feel it affecting me I imagine white light around me protecting me from their negativity. I fold my arms together as well. I was told this helps block one's energy from getting to you, which I have found actually works. If I still find myself still picking up on their bad vibes, I remind myself to think and feel with my heart instead of my ego. The heart is with love and a higher self, ego is perceived through negativity. This usually does the trick IP: Logged |
Violets
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posted January 17, 2016 11:27 PM
Also...Faith, that only makes sense about you with your sister. I think most people would have felt the same way. IP: Logged |
cchampliss2
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posted January 17, 2016 11:33 PM
Violets, Ok, got it. Faith, I didn't catch that piece about your sister earlier. I think anything with our family makes it difficult to draw lines because there seems to be this innate part of us that wants to be loyal even if it kills us. IP: Logged |
cchampliss2
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posted January 17, 2016 11:34 PM
Thank you all for your responses. I really appreciate it. IP: Logged |
StubbornVirgo
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posted January 17, 2016 11:37 PM
I contribute it to my Pluto in Scorpio/8th house and also my Pisces ASC. Neptune is transiting my ASC, so I've been picking up on vibes a lot more now than ever. Before, I could kind of brush it off because I have a lot of air, Jupiter sextiles to my Moon/Mars and also Moon/Mars conjunction. I could kind of nod at a bad mood and then turn around and walk away in the opposite direction. With Jupiter on board, it's more like bouncing away in a Tigger-like fashion.It's a little more difficult now. Not only do other people's bad moods get to me, but my own bad moods get the best of me. If it's someone else, I avoid them. If I can't because it's family or a friend, I try to cheer them up or change the subject to something lighter. If it's me, I try to be alone because I don't want to impose my negativity on anyone else. IP: Logged |
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