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Topic: Why is this?
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Desiring Shadows Knowflake Posts: 3532 From: UNITED STATES, BABY Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 24, 2016 10:19 PM
So everyone knows Libra is the most desirable sign. They are Cardinal so they're take charge, they're Venusian ruled so they are pleasing to all the senses, they have the sociable aspect, and they treat people just and well. I don't know all of the reasons, but I heard Libea is supposed to be the best.And then we have Scorpio and all of this stigma. They are the most popular signs sn everyone wants to be a Scorpio! But I don't understand why. Yeah, they're mysterious and extremists and they keep to themselves a lot.. A bunch of other good stuff but according to society Libra ranks higher with what's deemed acceptable. Libra is beautiful and charming and friendly Scorpio is isolated, cold, extreme feelings of sweetness or bitterness. I understand that Scorpios have two sides to them but overall you either love or hate a Scorpio and with Libra that's never the case. Most Libras are hard to hate... Anyways where I'm going with all of this is "WHY DOES EVERYONE LOVE SCORPIOS???" IP: Logged |
Desiring Shadows Knowflake Posts: 3532 From: UNITED STATES, BABY Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 24, 2016 10:21 PM
Long story short:Libras have all the desirable traits. Scorpios do not. The only reason I can see why society likes Scorpios is because they are passionate and because they rule sex and do it well. Society prizes sex for some reason. IP: Logged |
Desiring Shadows Knowflake Posts: 3532 From: UNITED STATES, BABY Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 24, 2016 10:23 PM
When really to succeed in life, according to society, again, is to have positive relations and a good networking system. Etc That's not Scotpio at all IP: Logged |
carm76 Knowflake Posts: 380 From: Sirius Registered: Aug 2014
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posted February 24, 2016 10:30 PM
------------------ We all come earth to experience, gather knowledge and then return with it to the cosmos of source, the choice is yours whether the experiences are positive or negative. What you focus upon, you attract and bring into your being.IP: Logged |
bananaz Knowflake Posts: 454 From: Orlando, FL USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted February 24, 2016 10:45 PM
Scorpios are definitely more interesting and complex to me than Libras, but I find Libras to be more likeable and fun to be around. I guess I don't understand the question... When you say everyone loves Scorpios, do you mean the sign within the astrological communities or the energy in the world at large ex: celebrities, politicians, etc?IP: Logged |
deepseablues Knowflake Posts: 926 From: the ocean floor Registered: Jan 2014
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posted February 25, 2016 12:04 AM
I'm a Scorpio with 3 personal planets in Libra and I hate my Libra placements. They are my downfall. PS. Pretty much no one likes me despite being a Scorpio or having my Moon, Mercury and Mars in Libra, so neither of these signs have it all. All in the 10th house too so you'd think I'd at least be good or popular with the public but nope.... destined to receive animosity, IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 3900 From: Miami Registered: Sep 2014
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posted February 25, 2016 12:08 AM
^I disagree the scorpios I like the most and the ONLY Scorpio who got me to fall for him has Venus in Libra.IP: Logged |
Sulkyarcher Knowflake Posts: 256 From: Registered: Dec 2013
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posted February 25, 2016 12:26 AM
I think society tends to like Libras, but the astrological community, which is different from society, likes Scorpios.IP: Logged |
bananaz Knowflake Posts: 454 From: Orlando, FL USA Registered: Feb 2015
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posted February 25, 2016 01:05 AM
quote: Originally posted by Sulkyarcher: I think society tends to like Libras, but the astrological community, which is different from society, likes Scorpios.
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StubbornVirgo Knowflake Posts: 707 From: Sittin' on Mercury Registered: Jul 2015
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posted February 25, 2016 02:13 AM
quote: Originally posted by Sulkyarcher: I think society tends to like Libras, but the astrological community, which is different from society, likes Scorpios.
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PixieJane Moderator Posts: 7689 From: CA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted February 25, 2016 03:00 AM
As far as I can tell, it's mostly the sex and forbidden fruit offered by Scorpio that's attractive. More specifically, the IDEA of it. I think they believe Scorpio will give that fiery passion (think Gomez and Morticia Addams) and/or taboo sex, and in the fantasies, the Scorpio will also "lead" in that. But that fantasy is different from the reality. It seems when people talk about the Scorpios that they get rather than desire (that is the real thing over the fantasy), they're crying up a storm over how terrible it is, at least on LL. And it seems they get the most complaints, though that could be because those into astrology single these people out for their Scorpio placements and thus are statistically certain to run into bad apples more than they would of other signs. Though to be fair, Scorpios aren't supposed to like fakes, nor are they inclined to protect the weak (at least not in romance, women who want a passionate protector should look more to Leo than Scorpio--and if they don't mind Scorpio moodiness, then also Cancer, they're stronger and more devoted than many give them credit for, and much more tolerant of damsels needing to be cared for, though they can hold a grudge as much as Scorpio can), and I've seen plenty here trying to figure out how to play Scorpio to keep them which one just should not even try (because the moment Scorpio senses it, it will go bad, quite possibly getting played in turn for revenge at the attempt before discarded with contempt). And if you (male or female) just want to submit, I don't see how that can truly attract a Scorpio who are drawn to power and strength (even if they try to dominate it). Think like Morticia and Gomez Addams, both are passionate and devoted but neither are passive or weak, nor do they try to manipulate each other with fakeness. (Heh, Wednesday Addams telling that boy that she'd pity anyone who would be her devoted love slave, that strikes me as very Scorpio.) So generally speaking, what people love about Scorpio is the fantasy, not the reality. IP: Logged |
PixieJane Moderator Posts: 7689 From: CA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted February 25, 2016 03:04 AM
Btw, you describe Libra when the scales are balanced. When those scales get too far out of balance then you can see the "evil twin" emerge. Of course Libras try to keep that from happening, but harmony (both inner and outer) isn't easy. IP: Logged |
DopGang Knowflake Posts: 2057 From: INTJ Registered: Jun 2015
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posted February 25, 2016 06:06 AM
quote: Originally posted by Sulkyarcher: I think society tends to like Libras, but the astrological community, which is different from society, likes Scorpios.
I think it's by association. Scorpio is the sign representing sex. Most people love sex. Therefore, they must love Scorpio, right? To be as basic as possible about it. IP: Logged |
Tulipe Knowflake Posts: 1712 From: France Registered: Feb 2014
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posted February 25, 2016 07:03 AM
Hmmm It's subjective. I don't know Libra is the most desirable sign. In fact I've never heard about that. By the way, you listed Libra's positive traits and some of Scorpio's not so desirable ones. I don't think they can be compared. Scorpios can have depth, loyalty and being very protective of the ones they love. As for everyone seems to want to be a scorpio (have never heard about that either), I think it's because people remember the most the ones they love or hate, not the ones they like. IP: Logged |
Southern Sun Knowflake Posts: 192 From: USA Registered: Sep 2014
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posted February 25, 2016 07:09 AM
Libra has a stigma for being wishy washy and indecisive, when society celebrates people who take charge, stay on course and get r dun. Like an evolved Scorpio.IP: Logged |
Desiring Shadows Knowflake Posts: 3532 From: UNITED STATES, BABY Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 25, 2016 07:32 AM
quote: Originally posted by StubbornVirgo:
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Desiring Shadows Knowflake Posts: 3532 From: UNITED STATES, BABY Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 25, 2016 07:47 AM
quote: Originally posted by Sulkyarcher: I think society tends to like Libras, but the astrological community, which is different from society, likes Scorpios.
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Desiring Shadows Knowflake Posts: 3532 From: UNITED STATES, BABY Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 25, 2016 07:50 AM
I'm just saying according to most of the people I know Libra is more desirable just by the traits itself I Understand another reason why Scorpio is so popular is because it's a taboo sign basically what astrology is IP: Logged |
Desiring Shadows Knowflake Posts: 3532 From: UNITED STATES, BABY Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 25, 2016 09:34 AM
quote: Originally posted by bananaz: Scorpios are definitely more interesting and complex to me than Libras, but I find Libras to be more likeable and fun to be around. I guess I don't understand the question... When you say everyone loves Scorpios, do you mean the sign within the astrological communities or the energy in the world at large ex: celebrities, politicians, etc?
Mostly the signs (because that's the part I believe in) IP: Logged |
Desiring Shadows Knowflake Posts: 3532 From: UNITED STATES, BABY Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 25, 2016 09:37 AM
quote: Originally posted by deepseablues: I'm a Scorpio with 3 personal planets in Libra and I hate my Libra placements. They are my downfall. PS. Pretty much no one likes me despite being a Scorpio or having my Moon, Mercury and Mars in Libra, so neither of these signs have it all. All in the 10th house too so you'd think I'd at least be good or popular with the public but nope.... destined to receive animosity,
Nah, that's all you. Don't use your Astrology as an excuse for sucking. You can make your personality better you just aren't trying. That or you're around the wrong people that don't compliment your personality. Whatever it is , it is not your Libra planets. I'm a Sun, Mercury and Venus Libra and people love me. Lately it's been me picking problems with them because they don't reach my standards but yeah.. IP: Logged |
Desiring Shadows Knowflake Posts: 3532 From: UNITED STATES, BABY Registered: Jan 2012
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posted February 25, 2016 09:40 AM
quote: Originally posted by PixieJane: Btw, you describe Libra when the scales are balanced. When those scales get too far out of balance then you can see the "evil twin" emerge. Of course Libras try to keep that from happening, but harmony (both inner and outer) isn't easy.
I am out of balance almost all the time. Like seriously, if the G-ds wanted me to be an emotional turbulent crazy person they would have made me a Cancer! Lol I think my Libra expression goes like this. If everyone is happy, I will be sad. If everyone is sad, I will find the happiness and balance situations. I can never just be where other people are at. That or if there's a blend I'm blended too and it's perfect. Etcetera IP: Logged |
margym0o Knowflake Posts: 645 From: Canada Registered: Jul 2014
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posted February 25, 2016 12:06 PM
I see it as people just want to feel dark, mysterious, sexy, secretive and "deep" so they try as they might to dissect their charts to pull out any Scorpio/Pluto influence they can find to justify their crazy behaviour and seem "cool."If you have Scorpio placements however, and I mean real genuine Scorpio placements and not just Pluto quintile a planet or something ridiculous, you know it's actually...not that great. It feels like being caught in a storm 24/7 (especially the Moon). Suspicious, paranoid, hesitant to trust, I would trade it away any day. IP: Logged |
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posted February 25, 2016 12:12 PM
quote: Originally posted by margym0o: I see it as people just want to feel dark, mysterious, sexy, secretive and "deep" so they try as they might to dissect their charts to pull out any Scorpio/Pluto influence they can find to justify their crazy behaviour and seem "cool."If you have Scorpio placements however, and I mean real genuine Scorpio placements and not just Pluto quintile a planet or something ridiculous, you know it's actually...not that great. It feels like being caught in a storm 24/7 (especially the Moon). Suspicious, paranoid, hesitant to trust, I would trade it away any day.
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carm76 Knowflake Posts: 380 From: Sirius Registered: Aug 2014
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posted February 25, 2016 12:23 PM
quote: Originally posted by margym0o:
If you have Scorpio placements however, and I mean real genuine Scorpio placements and not just Pluto quintile a planet or something ridiculous, you know it's actually...not that great. It feels like being caught in a storm 24/7 (especially the Moon). Suspicious, paranoid, hesitant to trust, I would trade it away any day.
Are you for real? This post breeds stereotyping, prejudice and ignorance. My husband is a Scorpion with a Scorpio stellium in his 11th House. I have North Node, Uranus, Vertex in 5th House Scorpio. Neither one of us are anything like what anyone is describing here. I sorry you feel that way but its not solely because of your scorpion aspects. Astrologically is a tool to better understand yourself AS A WHOLE not a crutch to dissect blame for your life's issues.
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polkadotstars Knowflake Posts: 667 From: Registered: Feb 2015
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posted February 25, 2016 12:25 PM
What makes libra the most desirable sign? I know plenty of libras who are not desirable. I think it's a matter of personal preference. I'm not really attracted to them because a lot of them come across as ingenuine. My Pisces sun and moon in the 8th house feels more comfortable around people who have deep souls. I like scorpios because I can feel their intensity. It's magnetic yet mysterious in a quiet but powerful way. But like I said, it's personal preference... IP: Logged |