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Desiring Shadows
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posted February 24, 2016 10:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Desiring Shadows     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So everyone knows Libra is the most desirable sign. They are Cardinal so they're take charge, they're Venusian ruled so they are pleasing to all the senses, they have the sociable aspect, and they treat people just and well. I don't know all of the reasons, but I heard Libea is supposed to be the best.

And then we have Scorpio and all of this stigma. They are the most popular signs sn everyone wants to be a Scorpio! But I don't understand why. Yeah, they're mysterious and extremists and they keep to themselves a lot.. A bunch of other good stuff but according to society Libra ranks higher with what's deemed acceptable.
Libra is beautiful and charming and friendly
Scorpio is isolated, cold, extreme feelings of sweetness or bitterness. I understand that Scorpios have two sides to them but overall you either love or hate a Scorpio and with Libra that's never the case. Most Libras are hard to hate...

Anyways where I'm going with all of this is "WHY DOES EVERYONE LOVE SCORPIOS???"

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Desiring Shadows
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posted February 24, 2016 10:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Desiring Shadows     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Long story short:

Libras have all the desirable traits. Scorpios do not. The only reason I can see why society likes Scorpios is because they are passionate and because they rule sex and do it well. Society prizes sex for some reason.

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Desiring Shadows
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posted February 24, 2016 10:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Desiring Shadows     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
When really to succeed in life, according to society, again, is to have positive relations and a good networking system. Etc
That's not Scotpio at all

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carm76
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posted February 24, 2016 10:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for carm76     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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We all come earth to experience, gather knowledge and then return with it to the cosmos of source, the choice is yours whether the experiences are positive or negative. What you focus upon, you attract and bring into your being.

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bananaz
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posted February 24, 2016 10:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for bananaz     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Scorpios are definitely more interesting and complex to me than Libras, but I find Libras to be more likeable and fun to be around. I guess I don't understand the question... When you say everyone loves Scorpios, do you mean the sign within the astrological communities or the energy in the world at large ex: celebrities, politicians, etc?

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posted February 25, 2016 12:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for deepseablues     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm a Scorpio with 3 personal planets in Libra and I hate my Libra placements. They are my downfall.

PS. Pretty much no one likes me despite being a Scorpio or having my Moon, Mercury and Mars in Libra, so neither of these signs have it all. All in the 10th house too so you'd think I'd at least be good or popular with the public but nope.... destined to receive animosity,

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posted February 25, 2016 12:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^I disagree the scorpios I like the most and the ONLY Scorpio who got me to fall for him has Venus in Libra.

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posted February 25, 2016 12:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sulkyarcher     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think society tends to like Libras, but the astrological community, which is different from society, likes Scorpios.

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posted February 25, 2016 01:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for bananaz     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Sulkyarcher:
I think society tends to like Libras, but the astrological community, which is different from society, likes Scorpios.

I agree with this

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posted February 25, 2016 02:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for StubbornVirgo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Sulkyarcher:
I think society tends to like Libras, but the astrological community, which is different from society, likes Scorpios.

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posted February 25, 2016 03:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
As far as I can tell, it's mostly the sex and forbidden fruit offered by Scorpio that's attractive. More specifically, the IDEA of it. I think they believe Scorpio will give that fiery passion (think Gomez and Morticia Addams) and/or taboo sex, and in the fantasies, the Scorpio will also "lead" in that.

But that fantasy is different from the reality. It seems when people talk about the Scorpios that they get rather than desire (that is the real thing over the fantasy), they're crying up a storm over how terrible it is, at least on LL. And it seems they get the most complaints, though that could be because those into astrology single these people out for their Scorpio placements and thus are statistically certain to run into bad apples more than they would of other signs.

Though to be fair, Scorpios aren't supposed to like fakes, nor are they inclined to protect the weak (at least not in romance, women who want a passionate protector should look more to Leo than Scorpio--and if they don't mind Scorpio moodiness, then also Cancer, they're stronger and more devoted than many give them credit for, and much more tolerant of damsels needing to be cared for, though they can hold a grudge as much as Scorpio can), and I've seen plenty here trying to figure out how to play Scorpio to keep them which one just should not even try (because the moment Scorpio senses it, it will go bad, quite possibly getting played in turn for revenge at the attempt before discarded with contempt).

And if you (male or female) just want to submit, I don't see how that can truly attract a Scorpio who are drawn to power and strength (even if they try to dominate it). Think like Morticia and Gomez Addams, both are passionate and devoted but neither are passive or weak, nor do they try to manipulate each other with fakeness. (Heh, Wednesday Addams telling that boy that she'd pity anyone who would be her devoted love slave, that strikes me as very Scorpio.)

So generally speaking, what people love about Scorpio is the fantasy, not the reality.

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posted February 25, 2016 03:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Btw, you describe Libra when the scales are balanced. When those scales get too far out of balance then you can see the "evil twin" emerge. Of course Libras try to keep that from happening, but harmony (both inner and outer) isn't easy.

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posted February 25, 2016 06:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DopGang     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Sulkyarcher:
I think society tends to like Libras, but the astrological community, which is different from society, likes Scorpios.

I think it's by association.

Scorpio is the sign representing sex.
Most people love sex.
Therefore, they must love Scorpio, right?

To be as basic as possible about it.

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Tulipe
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posted February 25, 2016 07:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Tulipe     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hmmm It's subjective.

I don't know Libra is the most desirable sign. In fact I've never heard about that.

By the way, you listed Libra's positive traits and some of Scorpio's not so desirable ones. I don't think they can be compared. Scorpios can have depth, loyalty and being very protective of the ones they love.

As for everyone seems to want to be a scorpio (have never heard about that either), I think it's because people remember the most the ones they love or hate, not the ones they like.

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posted February 25, 2016 07:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Southern Sun     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Libra has a stigma for being wishy washy and indecisive, when society celebrates people who take charge, stay on course and get r dun. Like an evolved Scorpio.

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posted February 25, 2016 07:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Desiring Shadows     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by StubbornVirgo:

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posted February 25, 2016 07:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Desiring Shadows     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Sulkyarcher:
I think society tends to like Libras, but the astrological community, which is different from society, likes Scorpios.

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posted February 25, 2016 07:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Desiring Shadows     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm just saying according to most of the people I know Libra is more desirable just by the traits itself

I Understand another reason why Scorpio is so popular is because it's a taboo sign basically what astrology is

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posted February 25, 2016 09:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Desiring Shadows     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by bananaz:
Scorpios are definitely more interesting and complex to me than Libras, but I find Libras to be more likeable and fun to be around. I guess I don't understand the question... When you say everyone loves Scorpios, do you mean the sign within the astrological communities or the energy in the world at large ex: celebrities, politicians, etc?

Mostly the signs (because that's the part I believe in)

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posted February 25, 2016 09:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Desiring Shadows     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by deepseablues:
I'm a Scorpio with 3 personal planets in Libra and I hate my Libra placements. They are my downfall.

PS. Pretty much no one likes me despite being a Scorpio or having my Moon, Mercury and Mars in Libra, so neither of these signs have it all. All in the 10th house too so you'd think I'd at least be good or popular with the public but nope.... destined to receive animosity,


Nah, that's all you. Don't use your Astrology as an excuse for sucking. You can make your personality better you just aren't trying. That or you're around the wrong people that don't compliment your personality. Whatever it is , it is not your Libra planets.

I'm a Sun, Mercury and Venus Libra and people love me. Lately it's been me picking problems with them because they don't reach my standards but yeah..

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posted February 25, 2016 09:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Desiring Shadows     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by PixieJane:
Btw, you describe Libra when the scales are balanced. When those scales get too far out of balance then you can see the "evil twin" emerge. Of course Libras try to keep that from happening, but harmony (both inner and outer) isn't easy.

I am out of balance almost all the time. Like seriously, if the G-ds wanted me to be an emotional turbulent crazy person they would have made me a Cancer! Lol

I think my Libra expression goes like this. If everyone is happy, I will be sad. If everyone is sad, I will find the happiness and balance situations. I can never just be where other people are at. That or if there's a blend I'm blended too and it's perfect. Etcetera

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posted February 25, 2016 12:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for margym0o     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I see it as people just want to feel dark, mysterious, sexy, secretive and "deep" so they try as they might to dissect their charts to pull out any Scorpio/Pluto influence they can find to justify their crazy behaviour and seem "cool."

If you have Scorpio placements however, and I mean real genuine Scorpio placements and not just Pluto quintile a planet or something ridiculous, you know it's actually...not that great. It feels like being caught in a storm 24/7 (especially the Moon). Suspicious, paranoid, hesitant to trust, I would trade it away any day.

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Originally posted by margym0o:
I see it as people just want to feel dark, mysterious, sexy, secretive and "deep" so they try as they might to dissect their charts to pull out any Scorpio/Pluto influence they can find to justify their crazy behaviour and seem "cool."

If you have Scorpio placements however, and I mean real genuine Scorpio placements and not just Pluto quintile a planet or something ridiculous, you know it's actually...not that great. It feels like being caught in a storm 24/7 (especially the Moon). Suspicious, paranoid, hesitant to trust, I would trade it away any day.


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posted February 25, 2016 12:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for carm76     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by margym0o:

If you have Scorpio placements however, and I mean real genuine Scorpio placements and not just Pluto quintile a planet or something ridiculous, you know it's actually...not that great. It feels like being caught in a storm 24/7 (especially the Moon). Suspicious, paranoid, hesitant to trust, I would trade it away any day.


Are you for real? This post breeds stereotyping, prejudice and ignorance.

My husband is a Scorpion with a Scorpio stellium in his 11th House. I have North Node, Uranus, Vertex in 5th House Scorpio. Neither one of us are anything like what anyone is describing here.

I sorry you feel that way but its not solely because of your scorpion aspects. Astrologically is a tool to better understand yourself AS A WHOLE not a crutch to dissect blame for your life's issues.

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posted February 25, 2016 12:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for polkadotstars     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What makes libra the most desirable sign? I know plenty of libras who are not desirable. I think it's a matter of personal preference. I'm not really attracted to them because a lot of them come across as ingenuine.

My Pisces sun and moon in the 8th house feels more comfortable around people who have deep souls. I like scorpios because I can feel their intensity. It's magnetic yet mysterious in a quiet but powerful way.

But like I said, it's personal preference...

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