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Topic: Saturn in 4th, i cannot connect to anything?
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NeptunianSag
Knowflake Posts: 1379
From: Your imagination
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted May 12, 2016 12:29 PM
  
I have my Venus and saturn conjunct in the 4th house, I dont know why but I cannot connect or get a feeling of true connection with other humans. I have no problem being social, but I just get feelings of emptiness and disinterest, not just with people but with anything really. Is this just a typical Saturn in 4th thing? IP: Logged |
charlie
Knowflake Posts: 3670
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Registered: Jun 2012
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posted May 12, 2016 12:34 PM
I have tSaturn in my 4H now and it hasn't been a jolly time...IP: Logged |
Electro DGX
Knowflake Posts: 664
From: Another Galaxy
Registered: Jul 2015
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posted May 12, 2016 12:44 PM
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Originally posted by NeptunianSag:
I have my Venus and saturn conjunct in the 4th house, I dont know why but I cannot connect or get a feeling of true connection with other humans. I have no problem being social, but I just get feelings of emptiness and disinterest, not just with people but with anything really. Is this just a typical Saturn in 4th thing?
I have Venus in the fourth and feel the same way. With Saturn transiting my second and opposite my Moon, it doesn't help. I also have Uranus and the Sun in the fourth. I have friends and stuff but often I cannot feel a connection. ------------------
Aquarius Sun, Merc, Venus, Uranus, Neptune
Scorpio Mars conj. Asc in First
8th House Moon opposite Pluto, Trine Uranus
Have you caught onto the predicament I'm in yet? IP: Logged |
Muzixoulrythm
Newflake Posts: 12
From: New Delhi, India
Registered: May 2016
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posted May 12, 2016 01:20 PM
Giving and receiving love are not flowing and natural for people born with Venus conjn Saturn.
Blockages are experienced, and love relationships may be a source of frustration as a result, until you learn to love yourself, and should feel worthy of love from others.You hold back free expression of
Your feelings, especially with regard to expressions of love. IP: Logged |
Kibriana
Knowflake Posts: 275
From: Zagreb, Croatia
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted May 12, 2016 07:41 PM
Same here. Saturn in the 4th, square Venus in 12th.
I have a really hard time connecting, too. I've got some good friends, but I don't really feel any real bond between us and I'm pretty sure they care more for me than I do for them, which is sad, they are good people. Same goes for my family. I'm well aware of that, and I know what can happen with the 4th house Saturn, which can easily turn us into recluses, so I keep trying to keep in touch with people in my life, but to be honest, I don't think I'd miss any of them.
That doesn't mean I don't have emotions or that I'm not compassionate and helpful, but I just don't get attached, and I get no kicks from it either. I thought that helping people would help me open up a little bit, but nope- it does nothing, I'm as "neutral" as ever. But, on the plus side, at least Venus in the 4th is a far better thing to have than what I have, so with a little work that might not be that bad. IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees
Knowflake Posts: 2971
From: South Africa
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted May 14, 2016 04:10 PM
quote:
Originally posted by NeptunianSag:
I have my Venus and saturn conjunct in the 4th house, I dont know why but I cannot connect or get a feeling of true connection with other humans. I have no problem being social, but I just get feelings of emptiness and disinterest, not just with people but with anything really. Is this just a typical Saturn in 4th thing?
I have Venus/Saturn conjunct in the 7th and I feel the same. I don't "connect" easily with anyone. But what I find works is when there is an "outcome" with those that I meet up with i.e our meeting will result in something productive happening. Saturn wants a productive outcome and Venus wants connection. And so I often find that when I am productive(Saturn), I am more social and open to "connect" (Venus)than when I feel like I am wasting time doing something superfluous. This suggests that Venus-Saturn conjunct wants fun and a sense of purpose to be married together. IP: Logged | |
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