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Topic: Aspects/placements that make people want to be around you
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EmGem Knowflake Posts: 1316 From: Registered: Jan 2015
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posted July 17, 2016 11:47 PM
I've always had this thing where people gravitate towards me because I give them a sense of calm and groundedness. I'd just like to know astrologically what may indicate this. I'm curious.When my father was dying, he needed my energy around him more than anyone else. I have this healing effect on people it seems. My lovers and friends have always told me that I tend to ground them and make them feel balanced, just being in my presence. Curious
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frankie2912 Knowflake Posts: 1602 From: Here and There Registered: Apr 2011
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posted July 18, 2016 12:11 AM
Venus in the 1st, 7th or 10th?IP: Logged |
EmGem Knowflake Posts: 1316 From: Registered: Jan 2015
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posted July 18, 2016 01:59 AM
Hmmm well mine is in the 9th but good callIP: Logged |
curiouspisces89 Knowflake Posts: 244 From: UK Registered: Jul 2015
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posted July 18, 2016 03:21 AM
I noticed that people who have Venus conj sun are very loved by people and also moon conj DSC can mean that people love you as you can relate to them and care about them.IP: Logged |
EmGem Knowflake Posts: 1316 From: Registered: Jan 2015
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posted July 18, 2016 05:32 AM
Yes I was thinking Venus conjunct sun. I have Venus parallel my sun, Jupiter and Mercury. Maybe it's that?IP: Logged |
EmGem Knowflake Posts: 1316 From: Registered: Jan 2015
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posted July 18, 2016 06:11 AM
Although my brother has sun conjunct Venus and he doesn't have that same effect on people..IP: Logged |
diamondbaby Knowflake Posts: 737 From: Registered: Jul 2012
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posted July 18, 2016 07:12 AM
I would say positive aspects between Sun/Venus, Sun/Jupiter and Venus/Jupiter. I have all the 3 of them (Sun/Venus conjunction in Sagittarius, both trine Jupiter in Leo) and people tend to gravitate towards me. IP: Logged |
Virgo1992 Knowflake Posts: 90 From: Registered: Jul 2012
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posted July 18, 2016 07:27 AM
For me, people ask for help from me even in crowded places, i often sense that they're coming to ask for my help. It happens a lot... I have a stellium in Virgo (Sun, Moon, Venus and Jupiter) in my 6th house. IP: Logged |
Libracorn Knowflake Posts: 300 From: Born in Saturn, grew up in Venus Registered: Sep 2013
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posted July 18, 2016 11:36 AM
quote: Originally posted by diamondbaby: I would say positive aspects between Sun/Venus, Sun/Jupiter and Venus/Jupiter.
I second this! Sun/Jupiter and Venus/Jupiter people are the life of the party. It's never a dull moment around them. But you should definitely take the whole chart into consideration. In my opinion Sun/Venus just makes one more friendlier and nice, so that'll make people want to be around you. IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 795 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted July 18, 2016 12:02 PM
What about AC/Sun aspects? IP: Logged |
visions Knowflake Posts: 374 From: france Registered: Feb 2010
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posted July 18, 2016 12:09 PM
jupiter in the 11th : every single friend called me all the time to do sth with them, for every party etc...big invitations all the time exhaustinggood 7th house is great also because people seek you as you are able to create good intimacy and you are a good confident. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 67748 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted July 18, 2016 12:12 PM
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next to neptune Knowflake Posts: 2822 From: The Moon Registered: Aug 2013
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posted July 18, 2016 04:41 PM
jupiter/sun or jupiter/moon, whenever I see this aspect in someones chart, they are usually really uplifting and exiting to be around.... aaand do we really have to mention Leo-energy? They are always popular or going to be in some way or another. Their opposite, Aqua, is also pretty good at gathering people around them. I have venus trine jupiter myself, but all I can gather around me is mosquitos on a hot summernight if I wait long enough. IP: Logged |
athenaia Knowflake Posts: 716 From: USA Registered: May 2015
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posted July 18, 2016 05:04 PM
I'd think a very strongly/positively aspected Sun (or 5th house) or Jupiter (or 9th house). As well as an angular Sun and/or JupiterFor a healing vibe, probably a packed 6th house/Virgo placements or a personal planet on the Ic. IP: Logged |
meyray Knowflake Posts: 598 From: Registered: Oct 2012
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posted July 18, 2016 05:35 PM
I know someone that is sort of like this. She is always a bubbling mass of energy and everybody seems to be very entertained/uplifted by her presence and gravitate toward her. People seem compelled to open up to her and spill everything off their chests. She also works as a masseuse and is kind of a New Age type which adds to her quirkiness.She is a Cancer Sun/Pisces Moon. 11H Sun 7H Moon 10H Jupiter Venus conjunct MC (almost exact) Grand Trine between Sun/Moon/Uranus Interestingly, she has the opposite effect on me. Personally I was not drawn to her at all. It's not that she annoyed me exactly but her energy didn't fit well with mine and I wanted her to just leave me alone. I always had this "ugh" feeling whenever she tried to communicate with me.
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EmGem Knowflake Posts: 1316 From: Registered: Jan 2015
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posted July 18, 2016 05:47 PM
Thanks for all your replies Going by what you've all said, it could be my 9th house Jupiter, also Venus conjuncts my MC. As I mentioned, I think the sun/Venus/Jupiter parallel would play a part. It's the healing vibe I'm talking about, that calm energy that people pick up on.. I'm posting the chart in the original post! Please feel free to comment as to what you see in my chart that makes this so 💜 IP: Logged |
BeholdAstarte Knowflake Posts: 546 From: astral plane Registered: Dec 2009
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posted July 18, 2016 05:58 PM
it would be easier to actually see the chart and see.. I feel like I have a very similar effect on people, there have been many times where in one way or the other..i seem to find myself in these "healing" situations, or people who.. as I can see/feel, need someone to just listen and hear what they are trying to say. ive had situations were people were sick or thought they were, and after talking with them, helping them out a little, they would tell me how much better they felt, one guy told me how his mother was a gypsy and he had family descendent of mystics and what not.. and he said that he felt i had the "healers" touch, my energy was very potent and soothing. ive even experimented with energy work/healing on coworkers and friends stomach aches and headaches.. they said it worked but I'm still skeptical haha. also, i don't even know how many times this has happened.. but i have this weird connection with random dogs lol, i have pet cats.. but for whatever reason, for instance, ill be with a group of friends.. friends friends and they'll bring their dogs and ill be drawing or doing my thing and before i know it, i have 3-4 dogs laying all around me. then when we move to another spot, same thing happens ha. even dogs ive never met.. i was at this other friends house and they had a bunch of dogs.. and one of the dogs picks on the older female, but she was bitten on the ear and bleeding everywhere and the first place she runs is under my feet and hides by me, i had never met that dog before so it was surprising to me she came to me for comfort. but these are just examples i suppose.. happens frequently I don't consider myself necessarily "grounded" but I'm very calm, people mention it all the time. Countless times I can remember talking to complete strangers and being a literal crying shoulder, if I sense someone's lonely or in need of a talk ill stand and listen ha or just be there, really i think its just about feeling reciprocated and understood. it happens all the time.. and from the reactions I get it doesn't seem to be entirely common :/ i think there's a difference between what were talking about a potent healing presence vs popularity..
when it comes to my presence, i believe it hugely is in part due to my venus/pluto conj in the 7th house DC cusp. Since i have strong venus (Taurus rising, libra sun/mars and cusp merc)venus naturally dignified in 7th.. i seem to "magnetically" draw people to me. now with pluto involved as well as the sign scorpio, this is wear those potent, deep and transformative like vibes come into play. now, i feel like this manifests in two ways, one like the one i have been describing above, where i find myself irresistibly drawn to certain people an situations.. then the other were i find that my healing energy, actually "pushes" people and detours them away.. which at the time usually makes me feel sad, but later i will find its for entirely good reasons, and i find the ones who dismiss me right way.. have a whole pile of issues themselves.. so it makes total sense. i do believe when harness at its highest potential that scorpio/pluto can add for potent healers. this combined with venus or Neptune as well as the courage of mars can blend to make super healers!!! hehe carl jung, pluto moon conj! edgar Cayce had his neptune, uranus and pluto all personalized. i know 3 other healers, who do shaman work, reiki, yoga etc and they all have prominent pluto or scorpio. two having strong Neptune influence. NOW WHEN IT COMES TO POPULARITY i will agree and say that prominent venus and Jupiter are highly attractive combos. Jupiter and the sun in particular as well.. are magnetic planets indeed since they radiate joy and happiness! and whats not attractive about that? esp sun is youthful and virtually glows, it makes a very regal appearance and Jupiter folk are such a fun and pleasant time, and the planet is drawn to making social connections and climbing the social ladder so.. IP: Logged |
BeholdAstarte Knowflake Posts: 546 From: astral plane Registered: Dec 2009
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posted July 18, 2016 06:02 PM
quote: Originally posted by EmGem: Thanks for all your replies Going by what you've all said, it could be my 9th house Jupiter, also Venus conjuncts my MC. As I mentioned, I think the sun/Venus/Jupiter parallel would play a part. It's the healing vibe I'm talking about, that calm energy that people pick up on.. I'm posting the chart in the original post! Please feel free to comment as to what you see in my chart that makes this so 💜
oh yay you finally posted your chart.. i thought that stellium was in the 8th but its in the 9th ha. but i would correlate your magnetism to your scorpio rising with Uranus touching the ASC.. Uranus is VERY magnetic.. combine that with the mysterious allure of scorpio and you have a very magnetically attractive rising.. also.. just your sun and merc in the 8th still brings an emphases to your 8th house/scorpio energies.. which is pluto themed and a very healing house.. it looks into the light and dark within ourselves as well as others.. your virgo moon conj mars and Saturn will make your service assertive and confident, of course once learned how to handle that combo.. it would give you great emotional strength to handle anything. IP: Logged |
EmGem Knowflake Posts: 1316 From: Registered: Jan 2015
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posted July 19, 2016 04:51 AM
Beholdastarte, everything you say rings soooooo true for me too. People just sense that you will be able to truly 'listen' to them and often say I've never been able to talk to anyone like I have with you. Lol the healers! Thanks so much for taking a look at my chart. I keep forgetting about the potency of Uranus. All I associate it with is an extreme cutting off of events or people in my life. I need to start focusing on its positive characteristics and really learn to love it I'm learning to channel those Mars Saturn moon energies too. The older I get the easier it becomes. I also need to start associating it with more positivity and not see it as a downfall. IP: Logged |
StubbornVirgo Knowflake Posts: 1099 From: Sittin' on Mercury Registered: Jul 2015
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posted July 19, 2016 11:19 AM
Moon-Jupiter and Mars-Jupiter aspects help. We're funny people, especially if the Moon is in a not-so-serious sign.My 7th house stellium (including Venus) helps me be charming when I need to be. The ability to relate to almost anybody can be helpful too, I suppose. IP: Logged |
BeholdAstarte Knowflake Posts: 546 From: astral plane Registered: Dec 2009
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posted July 20, 2016 03:58 PM
quote: Originally posted by EmGem: Beholdastarte, everything you say rings soooooo true for me too. People just sense that you will be able to truly 'listen' to them and often say I've never been able to talk to anyone like I have with you. Lol the healers! Thanks so much for taking a look at my chart. I keep forgetting about the potency of Uranus. All I associate it with is an extreme cutting off of events or people in my life. I need to start focusing on its positive characteristics and really learn to love it I'm learning to channel those Mars Saturn moon energies too. The older I get the easier it becomes. I also need to start associating it with more positivity and not see it as a downfall.
of course I'm glad you were able to relate to it too! its maybe a blessing in disguise, because it seems like the ones who do turn into healers like us had quit a bit of suffering a long the way but it all happens for a reason! and I feel like its that type of energy that draws those experiences for transformation and positively harnessing those intense vibes. yeah embrace that uranian energy! I can see where its sudden changes and impulses can be rather disruptive..and chaotic but it can be a damn near electric in inspiration. the potential genius of Uranus is amazing to see and esp a scorpio Uranus, the intuition and perceptions could be spot on, I feel like that combo puts Uranus in a wicked mood!! that's awesome too that your growing into your moon/mars/Saturn conj, can be quit a harsh and frustrating combination, but can really harness and learn to channel your emotionally aggressive energies in a responsible way, the wonderful thing about Saturn is that it ages so gracefully, the lessons it bears really does accumulate experiential wisdom. seems to me too that with the combination of planets there's this push and pull of independence and being apart of something, or contributing to society in some way.
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Mergoatsun Knowflake Posts: 720 From: USA Today Registered: Aug 2015
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posted July 20, 2016 04:05 PM
I don't know if anyone said this, I'm just scrolling through, but your node in the 6th house could be contributing to your healing gifts------------------ "Do not let the behavior of others destroy your inner peace." -Dalai Lama IP: Logged |
Belage Knowflake Posts: 2286 From: USA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted July 20, 2016 04:28 PM
Nice thread. I wouldn't say Venus or Jupiter conjunct the Sun because the sun would combust those planets. The natives have to try hard to be popular, it's not something that they naturally have. But Venus or Jupiter conjunct the Ascendant definitely makes for someone who others love to be around. They just radiate magnetism. Venus because people love to be around people they see as beautiful, and Jupiter because Jupiter just makes you feel good. To some extent, Venus conjunct Jupiter can also do the same because the natives are very generous, they buy drinks for everyone, etc, so of course, people want to be around them, lol. IP: Logged |
EmGem Knowflake Posts: 1316 From: Registered: Jan 2015
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posted July 21, 2016 07:28 AM
quote: Originally posted by BeholdAstarte: of course I'm glad you were able to relate to it too! its maybe a blessing in disguise, because it seems like the ones who do turn into healers like us had quit a bit of suffering a long the way but it all happens for a reason! and I feel like its that type of energy that draws those experiences for transformation and positively harnessing those intense vibes. yeah embrace that uranian energy! I can see where its sudden changes and impulses can be rather disruptive..and chaotic but it can be a damn near electric in inspiration. the potential genius of Uranus is amazing to see and esp a scorpio Uranus, the intuition and perceptions could be spot on, I feel like that combo puts Uranus in a wicked mood!! that's awesome too that your growing into your moon/mars/Saturn conj, can be quit a harsh and frustrating combination, but can really harness and learn to channel your emotionally aggressive energies in a responsible way, the wonderful thing about Saturn is that it ages so gracefully, the lessons it bears really does accumulate experiential wisdom. seems to me too that with the combination of planets there's this push and pull of independence and being apart of something, or contributing to society in some way.
Oh yes indeed, there's been so much learning and suffering and without it I guess it's hard to empathise with others. It's like people that work in a drug and alcohol rehab centre have once been addicts themselves! Because hey understand the pain. You're so right, the push pull is a little crazy at times. That's my life lol. I want, I don't want, I want, I can't want, I want closeness I want independence. Aaaaaargh lol. I seriously feel like I have such a Gemini split within me. I'm learning though and you're right, Saturn gets better with age, like a good wine Thanks so much for your wonderful insight! @mergoatsun, yeah I hadn't thought of that. I'm about to read up on SN in the 6th now! IP: Logged |
Geminiyoungster Knowflake Posts: 540 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted July 21, 2016 12:29 PM
The only placement that I know is libra moons. These ppl don't even know it but ppl love them..IP: Logged |