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Topic: Advice on how to love cancer moons
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rorrr
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posted February 11, 2017 07:08 AM
  
I can tell my cancer moon wants lots of cuddles. He has Taurus Venus as well, so chocolate and cuddles are good tips to make him happy. Being the little spoon, being comforted when stressed. He doesn't seem moody because he's very pragmatic and controlled. But BOUNDARIES come up a lot, and this is something as a Pisces moon that's hard to understand since I have none! Help me understand what cancer moons need to feel safe and loved. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted February 11, 2017 08:35 AM
NEVER betray them. They are very loyal, loyal to a fault. I don't believe loyalty is ever a fault, though. Be kind. That matters a lot to them. Be gentle with your words and actions. They have a marshmallow heart, but once it closes on a person it can be a steel trap, although it takes a very long time to close like that lol------------------
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Ami Anne
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posted February 11, 2017 08:48 AM
If they feel you are a true friend, whom they can trust, they will be able to listen about boundaries etc, in my opinion.------------------
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Lucia23
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posted February 11, 2017 09:22 AM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
NEVER betray them. They are very loyal, loyal to a fault. I don't believe loyalty is ever a fault, though. Be kind. That matters a lot to them. Be gentle with your words and actions. They have a marshmallow heart, but once it closes on a person it can be a steel trap, although it takes a very long time to close like that lol
YES, this. Also, we are sensitive and guarded and might see something as a betrayal that a Pisces, Sag or Libra Moon wouldn't. IP: Logged |
Lucia23
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posted February 11, 2017 09:24 AM
And unfortunately, unless we are VERY mature, sometimes Cancer Moons can't help retreating from you out of fear of getting hurt.IP: Logged |
Ami Anne
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posted February 11, 2017 09:26 AM
YES, loyalty is seen very differently by the signs. I am gonna write a new article on that, but prolly won't share it here  ------------------
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hypatia238
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From: Colorado
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted February 11, 2017 12:45 PM
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Originally posted by rorrr:
I can tell my cancer moon wants lots of cuddles. He has Taurus Venus as well, so chocolate and cuddles are good tips to make him happy. Being the little spoon, being comforted when stressed. He doesn't seem moody because he's very pragmatic and controlled. But BOUNDARIES come up a lot, and this is something as a Pisces moon that's hard to understand since I have none! Help me understand what cancer moons need to feel safe and loved.
How funny I am a virgo with moon Pisces, scorpio rising and venus in Leo and my partner has moon in Cancer, Libra sun, Taurus riser and venus in Leo. He feels when I give affection I am too passionate and intense or go to the other extreme and detach completely. He wants me to meet in the middle and give him love moderately, I am thinking this is a libra sun with Taurus rising preference, along with Mars in scorpio. Taurus rising with Mars in scorpio wants to feel in control and libra suns like balance, moderation and keeping things light. On the other hand Pisces wants to get lost in the other and is not great with emotional boundaries, Scorpio rising is all or nothing and venus in Leo likes to adore and worship their partner so I will never do the moderate thing, I am not build that way period. But you are right moon in cancers really value emotional support when stressed. They like affection and been nourished but in moderation like in a quiet slow calm way. IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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Registered: Sep 2014
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posted February 11, 2017 12:54 PM
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Originally posted by Ami Anne:
YES, loyalty is seen very differently by the signs. I am gonna write a new article on that, but prolly won't share it here
That actually sounds like a great thread idea, you can post your article and invite people to share their ideas of how each moon sign shows loyalty. IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted February 11, 2017 01:01 PM
Doing domestic things with a moon in Cancer is something they love, like cooking with them, praising them for that meal they made and waiting for them to start eating. Cleaning up together etc.. IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees
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posted February 12, 2017 12:59 PM
Gentleness, lots of encouragement and random touching.Even when things get stressful, find some humour in it and avoid raising your voice and getting loud/aggressive. I think that the above can be applied to anyone really. But for my Cancer Moon, I like it when someone shows me their more sensitive side  IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted February 12, 2017 02:57 PM
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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Gentleness, lots of encouragement and random touching.Even when things get stressful, find some humour in it and avoid raising your voice and getting loud/aggressive. I think that the above can be applied to anyone really. But for my Cancer Moon, I like it when someone shows me their more sensitive side
My husband would agree a lot with all this. Yes lots of encouragement is key, gentleness, staying calm and not raising your voice. 10 years together and still learning here and trying to change... Now with pluto transiting my 3H I am learning a lot about the power of non verbal communication and been more mindful about this... 33 and still growing up, it never ends regardless of how old you are. IP: Logged |
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