posted February 24, 2017 07:28 AM            

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Originally posted by Sikanda:
I *know*. It seems that the person gets those traits and it is often some of the bad ones lol. Yeah, all that you said, a Virgo SN can be more... "virgoan" that a Virgo Sun in *some* ways.
As a Libra SN (Virgo Sun), I often got into cr*p unwantedly, it wasn't easy for me to set boundaries with peers. I would let others take the cake. I think we Libra SN are very pacific people and we simply let others 'be'. I think sometimes we have to take control of the situation and assert ourselves too (I believe that is the lesson we learn with an Aries NN).

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i'am a libra nn though but i understand this. i really try to avoid any conflict, i want people to like me and everybody to get along. so i tend to rather leave such a conflict situation, to withdraw or not to assert myself or voice my opinion in situations in which i clearly should have stand up for myself in order not to hurt someone's feelings. or to get hurt.
but- as a aries sn i am impatient, have a short temper (but can't stay mad for a long time). i have this urge to act immediately, without thinking, to engage in a fight if someone offends me or i perceive it that way. and i have this instinctive competitive streak but now i rather choose not to act on any of this. but i can get very passionate and even militant regarding those matters which are important to me. and i'm a humble virgo, with mellow and gentle mars in cancer

posted February 24, 2017 12:01 PM            

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Originally posted by squirrel:

but- as a aries sn i am impatient, have a short temper (but can't stay mad for a long time). i have this urge to act immediately, without thinking, to engage in a fight if someone offends me or i perceive it that way. and i have this instinctive competitive streak but now i rather choose not to act on any of this. but i can get very passionate and even militant regarding those matters which are important to me. and i'm a humble virgo, with mellow and gentle mars in cancer

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posted February 24, 2017 12:15 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
So true both of your observations. I feel Southnode Virgos are Virgos on steroids and Southnode in libras are the bomb, my dad has that but like you said at times I wish he asserted himself more, he has Mars in libra too. I have always felt unconditionally loved by him, my relationship with him has always been nice. My mother has SN in virgo, she has definitely grown into her Northnode I feel, my dad too to an extent.

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posted February 24, 2017 01:28 PM            

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Originally posted by Sikanda:
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Yes, I totally get that, squirrel. I was especially drawn to this that you wrote. May I ask where your SN and NN are? My SN is in the 6th (I must say I instinctively adapted well to school life) and my NN is in my 12th.
I can be very impatient too, and sometimes I act on it, although I wish I didn't and I'm learning from it.
I also have a Virgo Sun and my Mars is in Capricorn.
Sometimes I withdraw because I just don't connect, I'm shy but that doesn't mean that I'm not an integrate person; then people start treating me like I don't exist. I like taking care of others.

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