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Char25
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posted February 24, 2017 08:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Char25     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Recently single I have noticed a long pattern of men with venus or moon in Scorpio never liking me at all. Its been at least 7 or 8 of them with Scorpio placements that don't.

Curiously I was wondering if its any energy in my chart that repels them or whether its something else? I don't seem to hit it off with them either..do you need certain placements/energies to attract these men? Heres my chart http://s1159.photobucket.com/user/Charlotte_Nelson/media/charlottenatalbirthchart_zpsk1xswq2u.gif.html?o=10

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Elise3090
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posted February 24, 2017 10:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Elise3090     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
maybe retrograde pluto? """"mystery""""
but you are a fire dominant?
scorpio venus/moon dudes has a ideal of women and they do not like fire dominant ladies cause they hurt them and they "ideal" easily (what a bs imho)

they find you a hard girl to deal !

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colorful butterfly
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posted February 24, 2017 10:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for colorful butterfly     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you for that information!!!

My chart is air dominant but I also have fire , so fire ball??

Most water venus will stick around, eventually opening up some but are very senstive and moody. My sun is in Cancer so I get sensitivity but my gemini mars\venus and jupiter\mercury in leo. I just get irritated with the emotions to easy, then it can't be I love you type emotion or engageing ( like they start out with) , their always crazy, withdrawn, acting mean, etc( this is after intimacy).

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Char25
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posted February 25, 2017 06:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Char25     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks Elise. Scorpio heavy men don't like fiery women? All I know is that even on the first date men with these placements like to go on about things I consider too "heavy" for initial meetings i.e. religion, family dramas etc.
Does anyone know what kind of placements/chart one must have to appeal to these men?

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meyray
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posted February 25, 2017 07:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for meyray     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus in Scorpio is difficult. They do not like superficiality (in anything) and they get seriously annoyed or offended when people do not respect, do not understand or ridicule their nature. As a bad quality they can also be very "negative" in a way - always focusing and spotting the bad first and good second (if at all) and if they can't find bad they will look for it.

Scorpio Venus can be this way even with people THEY want so it's hard to tell whether they actually like you or not if you don't understand their inner workings. But the real marker for them not liking a person is this - they will not notice you, they will be polite but indifferent, they will be absent. Absence is probably key - Scorpios usually avoid what they don't like or aren't interested in and treat it as if it does not exist in their reality.

It's hard to tell what kind of people Scorpio Venus is into. For Scorpio true love is measured with pain not pleasure and usually they want a person who's willing to sacrifice and endure unpleasantness for their sake. And at the same time they don't want that person to be a doormat. Sometimes they have this unconscious desire for people to actually stand up to them and call them out on their nonsense. It's honestly a very contradicting placement.

Your chart is fine, it's just not very Plutonic so Scorpio Venus may not be able to sniff out that energy they thrive on. They may assume you won't "get them" so they keep their distance. You have that Pisces glow, though. I could see you working out with a Scorpio Venus that has a Libra or Sagittarius Sun. Their Venus won't make many aspects to your love planets but it can aspect your angle rulers.

I've also seen a tendency for Scorpios to go for Aries but that's usually the Suns.

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Aries23Degrees
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posted February 25, 2017 12:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Char25

Why is this placement in particular, so important to you?

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Elise3090
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posted February 25, 2017 04:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Elise3090     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus in scorpio men like taurus woman i don't know why
they like water dominant woman in general

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Char25
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posted February 26, 2017 05:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Char25     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thankyou so much Meyrey..what a great insightful comment you have made! I finally understand what their true nature thrives on..and for that matter what they also shut down against. Its a very complicated placement and dislikes superficiality. I find they don't do "light"..not unless Libra or other more sociable signs are significantly present.

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