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ikindalikecookies
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posted February 28, 2017 04:35 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ikindalikecookies     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi guys! I just entered into a relationship (yay!) with a Venus in Aries man and I'm so in love.

I want to show him how I really feel and capture his heart. Before him I had many suitors, whom I all rejected when we got together. He was aware that many guys are after me and, after we committed, I sent him screenshots of me rejecting them to prove he is the only one. He seemed to really like it and even told me how he appreciated what I did.

Now I know all the cookie cutter descriptions of a Venus in Aries person, but I want to hear from you lovelies (Venus in Aries peeps). What makes you feel loved? What captures your love?

Those with SO's/acquainted with Aries Venuses are also welcome to join in! Thank you so much, any help is appreciated.

His planets ill provide the natal if you want)
Sun - Aries
Moon - Cancer
Venus - Aries
Mars - Pisces

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SirenSong
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posted March 01, 2017 12:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SirenSong     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ami says buy him a red speedo.

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polkadotstars
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posted March 01, 2017 10:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for polkadotstars     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
As an Aries Venus myself, I say don't be boring. Don't get in a rut. Keep it fresh and spontaneous. It scares me growing old and getting in the same routine day after day. Going only to the same one or two restaurants and having that monotonous predictability.

Plan fun activities and new places to go. Don't be clingy. Be okay on your own, have your own life, but still have time for him. Just not every minute of every day.

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Aries23Degrees
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posted March 01, 2017 02:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Moon in Cancer likes hugs and one on one attention.

Venus in Aries likes to do the exciting stuff. Does not have to be dangerous, just inspiring and life-affirming.

If its physical, Venus in Aries is usually happy. If you allow tenderness and care, Moon in Cancer is happy.

If the Moon/Venus are in square in his chart, there could be tension between what he wants(Venus) and what he feels will soothe him(Moon).

This could result in internal frustration as feeling like he can't get one (tenderness) without having to let go of the other(gratification).

Cancer-Aries square often speak of fear of being abandoned/not loved(Cancer) for wanting to be who you are(Aries).

Much like my Moon in Cancer squaring my Asc in Aries, there could be feelings of being unsupported or feeling like you have to behave as others expect of you(Cancer) in order to get what you want(Aries).

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ikindalikecookies
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posted March 02, 2017 01:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ikindalikecookies     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you Aries23! I actually have moon in Cancer myself too but we're not conjunct. And I was also thinking about that possibility because you are right, his moon squares his venus. I try to balance him physically and emotionally, but lately I've been tipping on the physical scale because my Mars conjunct his Sun is too powerful! I'll take note of that

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Astra
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posted February 26, 2019 04:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Astra     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Cook him a nice dinner every now and then (not daily). If he wants to go out with friends, then let him. Simply put: don't be clingy. Show you that you care by being affectionate and cooking him dinner sometimes, but have a life outside of his. The worst thing you can do is make him think that your whole life revolves around him. You should have your own set of friends, be working or attending school, and have hobbies that you enjoy.

It's obviously a good idea to show you are interested in learning about his hobbies and vice versa. The nice thing about Venus in Aries is they are game for pretty much anything. He's the type of guy that would most likely be willing to try out one of your hobbies. If he makes an honest effort and finds he doesn't like a particular hobby of yours, then reassure him that it's ok and he shouldn't feel obligated to participate in your hobbies if he doesn't have a genuine interest in them. Too many women will berate their significant other for not spending 24/7 with them.

Let him have his own life while participating in activities that you BOTH enjoy. Remember, he doesn't have to like everything that you like and you don't have to like everything he likes. If you like watching The Bachelor, for instance, don't force him to watch it if he doesn't like it. Encourage him to go catch a movie or hang out with friends or whatever he feels like doing.

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Nine
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posted February 26, 2019 08:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Anger. Always be yourself. What I've noticed is they get off on making lovers angry, and lovers being angry at them.
Anger is an emotion that cannot be faked, whenever they feel insecure they will push that button to judge for themselves how you feel about them.


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posted February 28, 2019 04:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for vansio     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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vickymadness
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posted March 05, 2019 04:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for vickymadness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I dated an aries venus, & his Venus was conjunct my sun. He was very much in love with my spontaneity, honesty & most of all the "alive" presence. If you have fire in your chart, then try to embrace that spirit! So show them love by being positive and displaying spontaneous acts of love; out of blue kisses, texts, gifts...etc. Authenticity & spontaneity is the key

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solarbry
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posted March 08, 2019 09:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for solarbry     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have an Aries sun, Cancer moon, and Aries venus.

My love languages are physical touch and words of affirmation (but especially the latter.) I like people showing how much they care about me, because I’m willing to do anything for my loved ones, but I need to hear how much they love me even more.

Have a lot of passion and excitement in the relationship. Don’t let there be too much routine.

Be a good listener. He might not mention it, but he’ll notice if you pay attention to little details. It makes him feel heard, and cared about.

Lots of energy in the relationship is always a plus, too. Aries venus likes challenges and intensity in the relationship–don’t roll over and agree with everything he says. Sometimes arguments can be classified as excitement.

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