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Topic: Men Who Do Not Want Children
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MarsSaturnDelight Knowflake Posts: 119 From: Registered: Dec 2014
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posted March 01, 2017 02:58 AM
I also suspect it may be a synastry thing too. My wife and I have a Venus Pluto double whammy. I read that this can indicate offspring.IP: Logged |
girlwiththerainysoul Knowflake Posts: 957 From: CH Registered: Jul 2016
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posted March 01, 2017 09:30 AM
synastry is influential as well, but for those who already want children. for those who don't, it's not because of synastry or having not met the "one" yetI'm not sure about venus/pluto synastry and children. I've had this synastry aspect and they wanted kids but I didn't where is your wife's moon in your chart (which house)? IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 3845 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted March 01, 2017 02:12 PM
I am not sure about kids(am a guy).I have Saturn contra-parallel to the 5th house cusp. IP: Logged |
hypatia238 Moderator Posts: 6350 From: Colorado Registered: Sep 2014
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posted March 01, 2017 02:22 PM
quote: Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul: * if a man's 5th ruler aspects venus, the person loves children, to the point that having children becomes even a priority. I have seen this a few times. even though there is hard aspects between mars and the 5th ruler, and moon/uranus aspects (a cold mother) as well they also have a great relationships with children
Mars conjunct Venus trines my 5H ruler Neptune and I was obsessed for a very long time with having kids, it was a huge priority of mine and almost broke up a number of times with my partner over it at the beginning of our relationship but eventually his fears rubbed off on me and started to see motherhood through his saturnian eyes instead of my neptunian eyes Moon in pisces square Neptune (5H ruler). IP: Logged |
Selenite Knowflake Posts: 1372 From: Lyra Registered: Aug 2013
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posted March 01, 2017 03:04 PM
quote: Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul: I guess you're boyfriend must have a hard inner conflicthis sun in the 5th telling him that he won't accomplish truly unless he has his own child, yet the venus/moon/uranus square makes him escape anything related to babies/mothering
well the thing is he's an artist and plans to do that for the rest of his life (like me, and i also have sun/mercury in the 5th and moon sq. uranus). so neither of us wants kids because to us we couldn't split our lives between kids / art like that. it's not a conflict for him at all in fact he's always been vehemently opposed to both kids and marriage. but i think if he wasn't so dedicated to art then yes it would be a conflict within to put that energy somewhere and yet not wanting to be tied down..
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sis Knowflake Posts: 500 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted March 01, 2017 03:43 PM
quote: Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul: * if a man's 5th ruler aspects venus, the person loves children, to the point that having children becomes even a priority. I have seen this a few times. even though there is hard aspects between mars and the 5th ruler, and moon/uranus aspects (a cold mother) as well they also have a great relationships with children
I know a man aged 43 his 5th house is Capricorn and Venus in the 3rd house trines Saturn in the 11th hs. He does not want to have kids. And I know him for more than 25 years and I have not seen him playing with a kid either.
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girlwiththerainysoul Knowflake Posts: 957 From: CH Registered: Jul 2016
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posted March 01, 2017 04:23 PM
quote: Originally posted by sis: I know a man aged 43 his 5th house is Capricorn and Venus in the 3rd house trines Saturn in the 11th hs. He does not want to have kids. And I know him for more than 25 years and I have not seen him playing with a kid either.
what other aspects does he have? which could make him not want kids IP: Logged |
sis Knowflake Posts: 500 From: Registered: Mar 2011
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posted March 02, 2017 02:15 PM
quote: Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul: what other aspects does he have? which could make him not want kids
his moon is heavily afflicted. Moon square Neptune, Moon opposite Jupiter, Moon opposite descendant, Moon square midheaven, Moon square North Node, Moon semisquare Mercury Saturn in Cancer squares Chiron in Mars in the 8th hs. IP: Logged |