posted March 25, 2017 02:04 AM            

For me the one that causes that is Sun on the descendant. You feel very lost without a partnership sometimes. It's not only romantic. Self employment is too hard as well. No desire to be goal-oriented alone.

The only place I'm good at the solo stuff is regarding my Mars placement.

posted March 25, 2017 03:48 PM            

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Originally posted by wal2:
7th house ruler on the 4th house cusp is jumping right off the page at me. That's a pretty binding tie between the 7th house of relationships and the 4th house of inner fulfillment. Are you trying to use your relationships to fill in for voids that can only be filled from within yourself?

Please remember that you are wholly and fully a person even if you don't have a partner. Partnerships enable someone to be more than they could be as one. But if you're not "one," not your own person fully, you're not going to be reaching the full potential you could be in a relationship. 1+1 = 2, 1 + .5 = not your fullest potential. Chiron in Libra will have none of that.

NN in Libra shows me you will find the one someday. It's certainly not going to be a scumbag who cheated on you.

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I did use relationships to try and fill a void for love. Growing up, my homelife was a mess, and I did not get much love from my parents. I tried to get that love from my partners, and I think that shows up. I still struggle with wondering if I'm trying to find a partner to fill that love, or if I actually want a partner, I have to be very careful. I'm going through much internal turmoil about my future, and how easy it would be if I just stayed with my ex. So wow! Great analysis! Thank you.

posted March 25, 2017 03:51 PM            

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Originally posted by girlwiththerainysoul:
@Mergoatsun

you have jupiter trine DC, numerous relationships

moon square AC, your emotions are seen easily so people may approach you often

saturn in 5th
I have seen many people with this placement marry and especially have children very early. it's like saturn prompts them to work hard in this area from earlier in life

sun conjunct neptune
one of the the most romantic aspects in a person's chart

neptune square the nodes
your life theme is definitely neptunian, and with sun conjunct neptune its manifestations are felt more clearly

sidenote on your composite with your ex
mars square neptune is the classic cheating guy aspect in a composite

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posted March 25, 2017 03:54 PM            

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Originally posted by polkadotstars:
I thought I responded to this but clearly I didn't. Sorry about that!

I noticed your Juno is conjunct your IC. I wonder if that has an impact on the way you approach relationships.

Along with the fact that your Venus is in your 4th house. You probably like to build a nice little home and you have an importance on family. I noticed that your Venus is unaspected. I dont know much about unaspected planets but I believe I read that when a planet is unaspected it gives it full force. Because it's unaspected it's in the purest form since nothing taints it. Given the fact that you are an aqua venus in your 4th house, I wonder if you go back and forth between wanting your independence and scared of being in a relationship that is too constraining versus wanting to be in a relationship and having your cozy comfortable partner to come home to.

And can I be honest? Don't reconsider going back to a guy who said he wanted to spend the rest of his life with you but cheated on you and got abusive with you. I know you're post breakup and you are probably in the stage where you only are thinking about the good times with him. But trust me, people don't change. Especially cheaters and abusers. He will never change. Period. And you deserve someone who makes you happy everyday. Don't settle just because you're upset right now. Think about your happiness long term, you owe that to yourself.

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