posted March 13, 2017 12:46 PM            

Looking back, I've always been interested in romance. I'm a die hard romantic, and I am constantly looking for a relationship. It seems odd since I'm an Aqua venus, but I am very warm, affectionate, and romantic. It's not that I don't feel fulfilled without a relationship, I just that I find myself much happier when I can share my life with someone. Ever since I can remember, I've wanted to find that special someone, and have always had at least one crush.

What in a natal chart could indicate someone needing romance?

posted March 13, 2017 01:57 PM            

It tends to give that person rose-coloured glasses to the max and they might not see the person they're with for who they are exactly. That or, they idealize the relationship and gloss over the rough edges to paint a prettier picture because in their mind, that's how it "should" be.

Not to say this is a negative, it can be incredibly romantic too (soft aspects in particular) because in the same light, they are also very forgiving of their partners faults and want to see the best in them. It may just lead to being blind-sighted when something bad does happen because they may have "never seen it coming."

posted March 13, 2017 02:07 PM            

Aqua is a fixed sign, expect loyalty and will always try to stay once they choose the lucky one although this may need some time. I have found a lot of Aqua placement stay with someone who takes granted the relationship (not necessary with bad people).

Someone who always needs a romance: I'm thinking Libra placement (love the attention from romance situation/ideas), Leo (kind of an adoration I think), well, I'm thinking those two top placement.

Pisces is romantic but they love giving it A LOT (they are givers), so they do not mind if you give them less - just respect them by giving once in a while, they will "aawwwww" lol . Taureans are surprisingly will be flattered if you romance them, they loooove it especially if you include some good food.

posted March 13, 2017 06:35 PM            

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Originally posted by margym0o:
Venus-Neptune immediately pops into my head when I think of situations like this, especially the hard aspects.

It tends to give that person rose-coloured glasses to the max and they might not see the person they're with for who they are exactly. That or, they idealize the relationship and gloss over the rough edges to paint a prettier picture because in their mind, that's how it "should" be.

Not to say this is a negative, it can be incredibly romantic too (soft aspects in particular) because in the same light, they are also very forgiving of their partners faults and want to see the best in them. It may just lead to being blind-sighted when something bad does happen because they may have "never seen it coming."

On another note, if you feel comfortable, can you post your composite with your ex-fiance? Not to use your experience as a learning tool, but sometimes there are markers for things like this (Mars-Neptune in composite being one stereotypical aspect).

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posted March 13, 2017 06:37 PM            

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Originally posted by polkadotstars:
Hmm.. can you post your chart?

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posted March 14, 2017 01:03 PM            

Chiron in Libra
True Node in Libra
Asc in Libra
Venus trine Asc
Venus trine North Node

You have a duplicate of Libra on the cusp of the 1st and 12th house- this suggests
that on one hand taking action and command(Aries) and then on the other hand compromise and corporation(Libra),will come easily to you.

posted March 14, 2017 03:37 PM            

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Originally posted by polkadotstars:
Sorry, can you post just your birth chart? Not the synastry chart? I need to see the aspect lines, I'm not that great as seeing it when they're not there

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posted March 14, 2017 03:40 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Partnership, togetherness, companionship and relating to others is the gift that you bring

Chiron in Libra
True Node in Libra
Asc in Libra
Venus trine Asc
Venus trine North Node

You have a duplicate of Libra on the cusp of the 1st and 12th house- this suggests
that on one hand taking action and command(Aries) and then on the other hand compromise and corporation(Libra),will come easily to you.

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posted March 15, 2017 10:29 PM            

I noticed your Juno is conjunct your IC. I wonder if that has an impact on the way you approach relationships.

Along with the fact that your Venus is in your 4th house. You probably like to build a nice little home and you have an importance on family. I noticed that your Venus is unaspected. I dont know much about unaspected planets but I believe I read that when a planet is unaspected it gives it full force. Because it's unaspected it's in the purest form since nothing taints it. Given the fact that you are an aqua venus in your 4th house, I wonder if you go back and forth between wanting your independence and scared of being in a relationship that is too constraining versus wanting to be in a relationship and having your cozy comfortable partner to come home to.

posted March 16, 2017 01:43 AM            

Please remember that you are wholly and fully a person even if you don't have a partner. Partnerships enable someone to be more than they could be as one. But if you're not "one," not your own person fully, you're not going to be reaching the full potential you could be in a relationship. 1+1 = 2, 1 + .5 = not your fullest potential. Chiron in Libra will have none of that.

posted March 17, 2017 03:20 AM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Moon in the 5H
Moon ruling the 5H
Moon in Leo
Moon in aspect to 5H ruler

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Wow yep you have two of these, moon in leo in hard aspect to 5H Ruler.

posted March 21, 2017 01:44 PM            

I don't think for me it's "needing romance", but I'm often in a romantic mood (lots of water in my chart too), and my job is artistic, so I guess I always sound to people like I'm in for it!

I have moon trine AC, sun trine neptune

according to hypatia:

my 5th ruler is also trine my moon

I've dated A LOT of people too..and no it wasn't just messing around with any of them...I actually feel an emotional connection to all of them!

good thing is, even though I get tired fast (prominent uranus as well) and can't hold on too long, I still use them as my muses and inspirations for my art!

posted March 21, 2017 01:55 PM            

you have jupiter trine DC, numerous relationships

moon square AC, your emotions are seen easily so people may approach you often

saturn in 5th
I have seen many people with this placement marry and especially have children very early. it's like saturn prompts them to work hard in this area from earlier in life

sun conjunct neptune
one of the the most romantic aspects in a person's chart

neptune square the nodes
your life theme is definitely neptunian, and with sun conjunct neptune its manifestations are felt more clearly

posted March 25, 2017 02:00 AM            

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Originally posted by aquagembaby:
Sun or Venus in 7H

or maybe a 7H stellium as well?

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I agree.

Libra / Venus dominant chart too.