posted December 11, 2017 02:36 PM            

I am noticing more females do not want to become my friend or continue keeping in touch after getting to know me. Nor want to initiate. What is it I should look at in my chart so that I can be more aware and improve on?

posted December 11, 2017 04:03 PM            

So I look up your chart and found it here: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum35/HTML/007306.html
... and I see you're an Aries with Mars conjunct/parallel Uranus. And it looks like that aspect is contra-parallel your Asc in Cancer. Do you abruptly change plans, leaving your female friends in the lurch? Do you have a personality that is so active they cannot keep up?

You also have Moon opposite Venus -- not a bad aspect, but does involve at least a degree of challenge in female-to-female relationships. It may also be that if you don't participate in typical female bonding efforts (whatever those are) that they move on. That is totally up to you. You can change what you're doing or not. You might even ask at least one of them why they've pulled away or dropped you.

I don't necessarily assume it is anything you are doing you should change. I have few guy friends and I'm OK with that. I never bonded with guys over sports and 'guy' stuff once I was out of high school.

posted December 11, 2017 05:17 PM            

I forgot all about google lol and I found this which I find resonate (it was from this forum):
If your Leo/Aquarius or fifth/eleventh house axis is intercepted you will find that you develop some rather illusive friendships in an attempt to feel as if you belong. Because many of the persons you come into contact with are not quite compatible with you character, you may at times feel somewhat depressed as you seek a group of people who you feel comfortable with. This sequence of friendship building through trial and error is a valuable testing ground for you as you slowly gain confidence and begin to realize who your true friends are.
I hope this is the case, I just gotta keep trying. I am using a friendship app right now.

@Kannon McAfee
Funny you say that, because I struggle with this but through others, however, it is different now. I try not to invest too much for those who I feel takes advantage of me but the ones I am interested making friends with who arent are not interested. I wish I can be like you but part of me feels a strong need for friends -- particularly a female friend. Even just one is enough -- to hang out and talk to that I can relate to.
I don't try to ask the girls... I think the problem is... most females are afraid of confrontations or avoid it altogether. I have tried asking a few before. One even ghosted me.

But one guy friend mentioned I am nor feminine or masculine enough, so it could be why?

I am not saying I am a pure loner, I do have few close friends but they are usually too busy which I totally understand or male friends.

posted December 16, 2017 01:03 AM            

Neptune/Pluto/Uranus especially may indicate the loss. Either through a fall out(Pluto), avoidance (Neptune) or distance(Uranus).

Venus/Mars is also indicative of both our capacity to get on with others as well as pursue them.

Harsh aspects to Venus from Mars/Saturn or Pluto can bring challenges in relating interpersonally

Harsh aspects to Mars from Saturn/Uranus or Pluto point to problems in the way we approach others.