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Topic: Fire and Water
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Hikaru29
Knowflake Posts: 935
From: Asia
Registered: Nov 2018
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posted February 28, 2019 12:09 PM
  
Fire is the heaviest element in my natal and water is his heaviest. We both have Air in 2nd place.How will the dynamics be like? Will Fire hurt Water's feelings or will Water put out all of Fire's passion? Also, which is worse? Fire with Water or Air with Water? IP: Logged |
Lalafortunaea
Knowflake Posts: 1081
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Registered: Jul 2017
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posted February 28, 2019 12:35 PM
Both fire and water are the most heavily emotionally reactive elements. Water tends to be more introverted, while fire is louder and more vocal. If fire makes an effort to be thoughtful and considerate, then water and fire can make a very compatible, hypnotic couple. Fire helps water not be so depressed, and water helps calm fire if too impulsive. Air tends to be a bit more cerebral, and logical. They don't like letting their emotions get the better of them. Air and water, and Air and fire, go well, because Air can help fire and water reach more of an understanding of how they feel, and "think" more about it. Though, air can be overwhelmed and can become nervous if emotions aren't well handled. IP: Logged |
Hikaru29
Knowflake Posts: 935
From: Asia
Registered: Nov 2018
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posted March 02, 2019 05:33 AM
Thanks for your thoughts!I always thought Air will find Water too emotional as Air being logical may sometimes not understand Water's emotions, like I don't get why you're crying over this..I don't get why you're so angry, etc. On the other hand, Water may find Air too "cold". Your description of Fire & Water is true. I'm always lifting his moods and I'm more impulsive. IP: Logged |
charlie
Knowflake Posts: 4697
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Registered: Jun 2012
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posted March 02, 2019 06:29 AM
I’ll take my husband and myself as an example. Me: Water Sun, Venus, Mercury, Uranus, NN
Husband: Fire Sun 1H, Mercury, Air Uranus, Jupiter, NN
Both have Earth moons. He is painstakingly impulsive and reactive and very vocal about his “feelings”. I am very controlled and I try to “ride the emotional wave out” and wait for my logical Cap Moon to take over. This took me many, many years to learn! I feel very deeply but if I were to express all those feelings all the time, like my husband, I’d be a tsunami the world had never experienced :-/ He blurts things out without having spent a second thinking about anything and then he just waits for the opposite part to take a stand, or not. I don’t really like that way of being because I know that many thoughts and feelings are fleeting and just figments of time and that time will pass sooner or later and then I’m back to Status Q. He can be like: “I’m so depressed I hate everything” and he means it but he means it in such a way to kinda poison his environment. I on the other hand, am a firm believer of keeping some of the darkest thoughts to myself as to NOT poison someone else’s day.. IP: Logged |
WhiteBirds
Knowflake Posts: 88
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Registered: Oct 2018
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posted March 02, 2019 07:13 AM
Hello, from my experience, fire and water have more ease of personal closeness. The water and the air are so different that the proximity is much more difficult IP: Logged |
TrueScorpio
Newflake Posts: 22
From: Cincinnati, OH
Registered: Sep 2017
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posted March 02, 2019 06:28 PM
If you have a lot of Air in your chart you might be just fine. I don't, I'm a LOT of water and sometimes my Air friends kind of exhaust me and seem frivolous. IP: Logged |
TrueScorpio
Newflake Posts: 22
From: Cincinnati, OH
Registered: Sep 2017
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posted March 02, 2019 06:30 PM
If you have a lot of Air in your chart you might be just fine. I don't, I'm a LOT of water and sometimes my Air friends kind of exhaust me and seem frivolous. IP: Logged |
Hikaru29
Knowflake Posts: 935
From: Asia
Registered: Nov 2018
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posted March 03, 2019 09:04 AM
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Originally posted by TrueScorpio:
If you have a lot of Air in your chart you might be just fine. I don't, I'm a LOT of water and sometimes my Air friends kind of exhaust me and seem frivolous.
I would say both our elements are quite balanced. For me Air comes a close 2nd to my Fire, and his Air comes a close 2nd to his Water. Funny, sometimes I find him frivolous and I'd called him out on it. He finds me too serious. IP: Logged |
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